Let’s just make it clear. Mind-blowing sex does not always have to be slow and agonizingly long. If you’ve been convinced that to have great sex you need a well thought out dinner date in some fancy restaurant with matching candle lights and romantic music on the background, then you can be missing out on the joys of good old quickies.
A perfect set up is not what you need, nor do you need everything to be prepared beforehand. Sometimes, you just got to learn to live in the moment. Go with the flow and see where your passions take you.
A quickie sex may not have as much as communication and foreplay as the real deal, but they are just as intense, sometimes even more because of how fast and unexpected it happens. And besides, as much as you’d want to find the time to pamper your partner, sweet talk them into sex and perform the latest trick you learned about foreplay, there are just days when you don’t have the luxury to do all these things.
Quickie sex is amazing. If you’ve been doing it for a while, then you, my friend, are doing something right. Tap yourself on the back, you deserve it. And if you haven’t, maybe it’s time for you to start incorporating quickies into your life. If you need more convincing, we’re listing down some of the reasons why you should be doing it too.
1Fun kinky sex
First off, do you really need a reason to have sex with your partner? Regardless of the length of time you do it, sex is sex. And doing it with your partner is always going to be lots of fun. Having a quick round of sex, but not knowing when, where or how it is going to happen is just part of its allure. It may not exactly be much of a lovemaking, but it doesn’t make it any less fun.
You only have around five minutes so you have to skip the foreplay. No preamble, no warm-ups, just you and your partner’s desire to get off, and soon. Skirts are raised, buttons are opened, belts are off, and zippers are unzipped. You are heading straight for the kill. Just the rawness of it, the eagerness, and that primal “I-want-you-right-now” vibe you get from the experience can fuel the passion that’s burning inside you at that moment, making for a more exciting and memorable sex.
3Sex in places you’ve never been before
You are just minding your own business when you see your partner talk a certain way, or look at you a certain way. And then it hit you. You want to have sex. And you want it now. So you do it on the kitchen countertop. Or on the table. Or anywhere really where you haven’t done it before. A quickie doesn’t take a long time. You can get in, wrap it up quickly, then leave, so you can even do it somewhere semi-public if that’s what you’re into. Quickie sex can get you out of your usual routine, allowing you to let creativity and desire take over and change things up.
4It’s all about you
It’s alright to be selfish from time to time. Especially when it comes to sex. No need to be guilty nor polite. After all, how are you supposed to take care of anyone else when you can not even take care of your own needs? If you are in a healthy relationship where you already both have an understanding of each other’s boundaries, you can take and receive what you want, in any way you want it and in anytime you want it, as long as it’s still within your relationship’s agreed boundaries.
5In a rush? Not a problem
Speed is, perhaps, a quickie’s obvious perks. Got a meeting to go to in ten minutes? That’s fine. That’s already enough time for a quickie. But don’t think of a quickie as anything inferior to your all-nighters just because you’re short on time. In fact, because there’s this pressure to get the job done quickly, you are going to want to squeeze in (ahem, pun intended) as much action as you want in there.
6Sexy Mood Booster
Found yourself in a bad mood lately? Rid yourself of that dark shadow behind you and have quickies for a fun and easy fix. Relieve your built-up tensions from work in just a few minutes. Sex can release happy hormones, reduce your stress levels and put a smile on your face throughout the day. Unscheduled, fast-paced sex with your partner can definitely give your mood an extra boost.
7Skip the gym, have a quickie
Gym. That dreaded word. We hate and love the gym. But face it, it’s not every day we want to sweat and run on a treadmill. The good news is, we can sweat just as much in a quickie without having to go the gym to actually lift or run on anything. All you need is a willing partner for a quickie and you can burn up to 75 to 150 calories when having sex.
8Insecurities be damned
When pressed for time, you care less about the insecurities you have about your body. You won’t really mind that much that you forgot to shave that day, or that you are not wearing that flattering lingerie you bought last week. You are more open and a lot aggressive than you usually are. Everything is happening too fast. You let your passion and instincts take over.
9A good night sleep and glowing skin
If you’ve already counted up to a thousand sheep and still can not seem to doze off, maybe 5-minute quickies can put you to sleep like a baby. One of the benefits of sex is that it can improve your sleeping habits. And to top it off, sex can also give you a better complexion. Yes, that’s right. A healthier skin for you. Your body produces the hormone DHEA when you are having sex that can give you that much healthier looking glow.
10More quickie for a longer life
Having regular sex means having regular production of the good hormones. Not only do you get better sleep and better skin, but you also enjoy an increased immune system. It can even give you a healthy heart. Sex is an activity that gets your heart beating fast and your blood flow increasing. Hence, all in all, sex can help you live longer.
Like we’ve already mentioned, sex is sex no matter how long you are doing it. Never underestimate what quickies can do for you. Grab whatever opportunity you have if you want to reap off its benefits.