15 Ways to Have Sex While Using a Vibrator (Come & Explore!)

Vibrators are considered a self-pleasure tool, but did you know that you can have sex while using a vibrator? Any vibe can work during the deed if you have the courage and creativity to try it out.

For this guide, we’ll delve into how you can use a vibrator for couple plays, shedding light on its benefits and how it can enhance your connection with your partner. Whatever vibe is in your closet right now, there’s a way to mix it into your bedroom routine. But first, let’s answer the first question that pops out regarding this topic…

Do Vibrators Improve Partnered Sex?

Most people are hesitant to use a vibrator during sex for several reasons. Some say that it takes away the experience of being able to fully touch your partner. Some feel that if their partner starts using the vibe during sex, the deed feels more like masturbation instead. There are individuals who also genuinely think that vibrators will replace them or that they could permanently numb their genitals.

None of these statements are true. Vibrators aren’t a partner replacement or something that could permanently damage your genitals. It doesn’t take away the passion in the bedroom, either. In fact, it’s beneficial for everyone. How so?

Vibrators helps women orgasm during sex.

Most women can’t cum with vaginal sex, as the female pleasure center isn’t located in the vagina but in the vulva— the clitoris. It has about 8000 nerve endings, which doubles what a glans penis (head) has. The g-spot everyone’s been raving about? It’s connected to the clitoral network. Stimulating the g-spot only means you’re indirectly stimulating the internal parts of the clit. By using a vibrator in the clitoris during intercourse, the added stimulation will help them reach the big O.

“Well, I can finger her clit if she wants to.” You can certainly do that, but can your fingers keep up if she ends up not cumming within 10 minutes? That’s what vibrators are meant for; they’re only lessening the giver’s workload, not replacing them. Besides, nothing can replace the warm and passionate touch of someone you love.

Vibrators adds variety to your sexual routine.

Doing the same thing over and over again, no matter how orgasmic it can be, can still bore you out eventually. That’s why it’s important to spice things up, like using a vibrator during foreplay or exploring public play by wearing a discreet vibe. The new sensations and experience are worth every penny invested in the new toy!

How to Have Sex While Using a Vibrator: For All Types

Taking yourself on a wild exploration with vibrators? It’s about time! As they come in different shapes and sizes, we’ve divided the guide based on the vibrator types. Note: This will be written under the POV of the giver. Let’s get started!

1Using a Mini Vibrator

A bullet-shaped vibrator designed to stimulate external erogenous zones.

• It’s good for foreplay. Gently run the vibrating toy over your partner’s erogenous zones, such as their inner thighs, nipples, glans, penis, and clitoris.
• You can press this toy in the clitoris during vaginal sex. On the other hand, you can use this to stimulate the anal opening, helping it relax before anal sex.

2Using a Classic Vibrator

A no-frills kind of vibrator. This cylinder-shaped toy can be used for vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

• It can be used during foreplay. Turn it on, then gently press the tip over your partner’s erogenous zones. You can tease them by pushing the toy about an inch inside the vagina, then pulling it all out.
• As for vaginal sex, you can press the toy’s tip in your partner’s clit for extra sensations. However, its chunky exterior may be too distracting during the deed.
• Planning to have anal sex? You can use this vibrator to penetrate or stimulate your partner’s vagina while you’re getting busy with their bum.

3Using a Love Egg

This vibe comes in two parts. First is the egg-shaped vibrator inserted in the vagina, and the second is the remote that controls the vibration speeds and patterns.

• Ask your partner to wear the love egg and have you control the vibrations. You can then watch her get off while you’re busy with yourself too.
• This can be used during anal sex. Let your partner wear the egg vibrator for g-spot stimulation while you’re busy thrusting in their anus.
• Get rowdy in public. Let your partner wear the vibrator, but it’s not turned on. Once you’re out and about, turn on the vibrations in inconspicuous areas. Watch your naughty lover hold it in and squirm with pleasure.
• If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you can surprise them with an app-controlled love egg. You can use it during your cybersex sessions as your partner can still hold your hands and use the gadgets while you’re the one controlling the vibrations over your phone. Enjoy their delighted reaction in every stimulating pulse.

4Using a Finger Vibrator

It’s the smallest type of vibrator. You can wear it like a ring or thimble.

• Great for foreplay. Wear the vibrator and tease your partner’s outer erogenous zones, like their clitoris and nipples.
• You can also wear this device while giving your partner a handjob or blowjob. The extra sensations will definitely enhance the experience.

5Using a Couple Vibrator

This c-shaped vibrator is worn in the vagina, ensuring that the clitoris is stimulated during vaginal sex. It has two vibrating arms or massagers. The slim one is inserted, while the thicker one stays on your clitoral region. Made for couples.

• Perfect for vaginal sex. Apply water-based lubricant on the slim massager, then gently insert it into your vagina. The other massager should be right on the clitoral hood. The internal massager is designed to slim, so there’s still space for the penis. Once you’re ready to do the deed, turn on the vibrations as your partner thrust in and out of your body.
• This could also work for long-distance couples. Ask your partner to wear the vibrator during video or phone sex sessions. Start controlling the toy during the call and let your partner enjoy the hands-free play. You’ll need an app-controlled vibe for this to work, though.

6Using a Tip Vibrator

This vibrator comes with a slim wand with a small round tip. It’s made for external stimulation, as the round tip is packed with ultra-concentrated vibrations.

• Great for foreplay. Turn on the device, and gently run the vibrating tip all over your partner’s external pleasure zones. Remember that the vibrations can be intense, so avoid putting too much pressure in one place.

7Using a Realistic Vibrator

This vibrator comes with a phallic shape and texture. Some variations include warming and thrusting features.

• This works well during cybersex sessions. Watch your partner using this vibe and imagine that it’s your penis that they’re playing it. Not only are you enjoying the visuals, but your partner also enjoys this toy’s strong vibrations.
• It can be used for double penetration. If the toy has a flared base, you can insert it either in the vagina or anus. If it doesn’t, you can only insert this in the vagina while your penis thrusts your partner’s anus. Don’t forget to use personal lubricants!
• You can also use this during foreplay, running the tip over your partner’s external erogenous zones, such as their clitoris and nipples. However, its size and appearance may be too distracting.

8Using a G-Spot Vibrator

A vibrator with a curved shaft and bulbous or tapered tip. Designed to stimulate the g-spot, a specific region at the upper vaginal wall that is known to unlock intense orgasms when stimulated correctly.

• Go with mutual masturbation. Watch your partner play with themselves using this device while you’re also touching yourself. You can do it side-by-side or face one another.
• You can use it for double penetration. Use the g-spot vibrator on the vagina while busy with your bum.
• This can also be used during foreplay, using the tip to stimulate your partner’s outer erogenous zones. However, it may be too chunky or heavy for your liking.
• If you want your partner to cum first, use this vibrator to quicken the process. Use the g-spot vibrator first, making sure you’re hitting the right spot. Once your partner cums, you can then proceed with having penetrative sex. The good thing about this is there’s no pressure for you to last long or make them climax while your partner gets satisfied in the deed.

9Using an Anal Vibrator

This vibe has a teardrop-like shape and flared base. There are also variations where it looks like a classic vibrator but with a flared base. A flared base is important as it prevents the whole toy from getting stuck inside.

• Sex while using this vibrator is doable, but take note that not everyone isn’t into anal play. Since this toy is gender-neutral, you, your partner, or both can wear it during sex. The extra sensations will surely get your body excited throughout the deed.
• If the anal vibrator is wearable, like a love egg, we challenge you or your male partner to try stimulating their bum in public. Let the female partner hold the remote, and turn the vibes while you’re in discreet areas while the male partner tries to control their orgasmic reactions.

10Using a Prostate Vibrator

A prostate massager typically has a curved, segmented, and adjustable body to gently pressure the prostate gland or p-spot. It’s designed solely for men, as they’re the only ones who have a prostate gland.

• You or your male partner can wear it during foreplay or penetrative sex. The added stimulation will surely make their legs weak (in a good and orgasmic way!)
• This also works best for mutual masturbation. If you have a prostate, you can wear the plug while watching the other one play with their naughty toys.

11Using a Wand Massager

This love toy is considered one of the strongest vibrators on the market. It comes with a long handle and a bulbous vibrating head. You can use it to provide broad stimulation on external erogenous zones and help relieve muscle tension and soreness.

• Starting your sexual play with a massage? This pleasure device can definitely amp up the session. Press the rounded head to the regions that need muscle relief.
• Mutual masturbation works wonders with this toy. Press the tip in your clitoris while watching your lover touch themselves. The strong vibes will surely get you off in no time.
• You can also press this in your clitoris during vaginal sex, but wand vibrators are pretty heavy, so they might be distracting during the deed.

12Using Vibrating Ben Wa Balls

It features a single or two weighted balls designed to be worn during kegel exercises. When vibrations are turned on, this toy can also work as a heavier version of a love egg for solo or couple plays.

• Double the fun with double penetration! You can ask your partner to wear the vibrating Ben wa balls during anal sex.
• If the toy is app-controlled, your partner can wear the toy while you control the vibrations on your phone. This is perfect for long-distance couples.

13Using a Cock Ring Vibrator

A vibrating cock ring is worn around the base of the penis and is made of stretchy materials like silicone. It comes with a vibrating pad, stimulating the clitoris during intercourse and making one’s erection last longer.

• This toy is designed for couple plays, so you can easily have sex while using this vibrator. Slide the cock ring in your flaccid or semi-flaccid penis. Turn on the vibrations and proceed with the penetrative sex. Please don’t keep it for more than 20 minutes.

14Using a Panty Vibrator

This vibrator is similar to a love egg, featuring a separate remote control and a vibrator that can be worn inside your undies. Made for clitoral stimulation.

• Use it during a mutual masturbation session. Just wear it in the middle of your undies, or use it to aid pillow humping.
• This works best for public plays. Ask your lover to wear the toy, but don’t just turn it on. Once you’re in an inconspicuous spot, turn on the vibrations and watch your partner hold those moans!

15Using a Rabbit Vibrator

A rabbit vibrator is designed for blended orgasms. It has a vibrating shaft to stimulate the G-spot, then there’s a smaller massager for clitoral stimulation.

• You can have sex while using this vibrator, but it may be limited to mutual masturbation only since it’s pretty bulky and designed for solo sex. To do that, simply apply water-based lubricant in the shaft and clitoral massager; push the vibrator inside your vagina, while the other massager should sit right on top of the clitoral hood. Play with the toy while watching your partner do the same.

Lauvette’s Top Vibrator Picks

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Takeaway

Remember, communication, consent, and mutual enjoyment matter when having sex while using a vibrator. Let curiosity guide you without compromising your partner’s relationship, so make sure they’ve agreed on using vibrating toys in the bedroom before incorporating it in the deed.

Lavuette offers a wide array of vibrators; check here to see what’s available for you and your partner. Enjoy the exciting possibilities!