The thrill of going on a vacation is unmatched, planning your itinerary and carving time to be with the people you care about. And if it’s a trip with your boo, having vacation sex is a given. And it’ll most definitely be a blast to have some needed one-on-one time with them. All without any distractions or disturbances to interrupt you two!
In this article, we’ll be discussing what makes vacation sex worth engaging in and our top 18 tips to ensure your safety and overall enjoyment. And to keep the pleasure up, we shared a list of our favorite vacation sex positions that you should miss out on.
What’s So Cool About Vacation Sex?
Keep reading this section to unlock the fun perks of having vacation sex with your boo (or maybe a possible one night stand).
1 It’s a new adventure.
A vacation is a getaway to unwind and compensate for lost time with your partner/s. It’s usually a period to explore new places and cultures wherever you and your partner/s decide to go. And that extends to the bedroom or whatever space you end up in with your partner as you have vacation sex. To embark on new sexual activities, positions, and kinks and let your sexual side take charge even for a bit.
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2 You’re more relaxed.
A vacation is an escape from your day-to-day routine, which may be filled with stress or busy errands. Allow yourself to release yourself from those stress-giving factors, giving yourself much-needed respite to fill up your cup again. That way, your body will lessen its tension, making sex much more physically and emotionally enjoyable.
Alongside this, you can make room for your sexiness to ooze through your veins when your mind is in a state of peace and calmness. You’ll feel more confident within your trip to push through with all of your lust-filled wishes.
3 No disturbances!
Only restating what we mentioned earlier!
Now, who can turn down a vacation when offered or in the making? That would mean having time off from work or your studies and maybe away from your kids, who are staying with your loved ones in the meantime. It’s just you and your partner/s in a place that serves as your temporary haven. And from there, you can have all the possible vacation sex you can have without anything bothering or interrupting the mood. You can be in your world while the outside continues to run around you.
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4 You’re more spontaneous.
A vacation ignites your thrilling side, making you down for anything. Because when are you ever going to have time like this again at that age you are? With that fueling your mind, we become more present and self-aware of our desires without any stressors bothering us. From there, we’re more likely to say “yes” to new things. In terms of vacation sex, we’d revitalize our private time without any fears because of such adrenaline rush.
5 It can reignite your relationship.
If you’re in a healthy, long-term relationship, it’s rather common to feel some stagnancy and boredom in regards to your sex life. Thus, going on vacation can center you back to your relationship as you momentarily step away from your duties. The same goes with vacation sex that’s definitely a given when you’re away on holiday. You can act like the younger versions of yourselves when you started your relationship, filled up with energy as you both rediscover and experiment with sexy playtime with all sorts of sex positions, activities, and kinks like it’s the first time again.
Plus, vacation sex is said to be the hottest way to have sex, taking a refresher from your day-to-day lives and picking up where you left off. And boy, there’s most definitely a lot of pent-up tension by this time that’ll make it hard to get your hands off each other like you’re young kids again!
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Places to Have Vacation Sex
Keep your options open with these various places to have some steaming vacation sex in!
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Vacation Sex Tips For Maximum Pleasure and Enjoyment
Make the most out of your upcoming trip, especially in the sex department with our curated list of helpful vacation sex tips.
1 Set proper expectations.
As much as vacations are fun, they can also be exhausting. Don’t put too much pressure on yourselves to have vacation sex at every free time and place. Also, bring your best sex toys (maybe around 2-3 at most) rather than cramming all of your treasure toys in one bag.
2 Pack smart.
Hide your sex toys in your check-in bags. The last thing you want to see is the X-ray silhouette of your dildo being shown on the screen. Or worse, two things can occur. One, you experience secondhand embarrassment. And two, the toys may be declined entry and then thrown away on the spot.
Sunscreen is important as well if you’re going to have vacation sex outside. The last thing you would want is to get sunburned or have crazy tan lines.
3 Pick the right destination.
If you’re going abroad, there may be some places that aren’t as sexually positive as you are. For example, Condé Nast Traveler cites that sex toys are illegal to possess in Saudi Arabia, the Maldives, the United Arab Emirates, Thailand, Vietnam, Malaysia, and India. Then in certain parts of Africa, Asia, and the Caribbean Islands, Refinery29 states that homosexuality is illegal there.
Keep these countries in mind when you’re planning things out.
Plus, avoid somewhere where kids are present.
Choose a destination that you personally feel is a very sexy place to be with your partner with its possible opportunities and activities to do there. Don’t hesitate to ask for suggestions for your friends in relationships as well to widen your horizons further.
4 Pamper yourselves beforehand.
Who says that the vacation starts on the day itself? Start getting ahead of your well-await pampering getaway by giving your body some self-care. Some examples are getting waxed, indulging in a full body massage, having your nails done, and maybe even trying a new hairstyle! Put yourself in a calming mindset so that it can feel natural during the vacation proper and you’ll feel more empowered as you engage in vacation sex.
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5 No work-related talk!
What’s the point of a vacation if you find yourself scrolling through your emails or entertaining work-related questions? Going on vacation means you’re stepping away from the stresses of your daily life so you can re-energize and spend some quality time with your partner. Plus, doing such things that we mentioned would be disrespectful to your partner, who carved out time for you.
So push away your work laptop and mute all your work-related notifications as you embark on your fun vacation. No one wants to hear loud, buzzing sounds when you’re also having some steamy vacation sex.
6 Plan things out together.
Planning a vacation should be a team effort wherein you both get to express what you want to do during that time. So depending on how long you’re staying, share all sorts of ideas you have. Maybe even assign dates for you to plan the itinerary while the other days can go to your partner.
7 Don’t forget to put up that “Do not disturb” card.
Very much applicable if you’re staying in a hotel or villa, where they usually provide such a card to loop around your doorknob. With that, use it to your advantage whenever you’re bound to have vacation sex. Don’t get lazy either if you momentarily forget and you’re both engaging in foreplay. Get up, put a robe on, put that sign on the doorknob, and get back to business.
That way, people around the floor will broadly see that you’re busy and will naturally hush it down.
8 Change things up!
If you and your partner enjoy having long, sensual sex on most nights, try sneaking in some quickies in the afternoon before going to your next destination. Not only is it a way to reignite your relationship, but it allows you to see each other in a different, much sexier light.
Alongside quickies, add some morning sex in the mix as a form of vacation sex if it’s been impossible to do due to your hectic schedules back home. We heard that doing the deed in the morning has many physical and mental benefits.
Honestly, get creative here! Maybe make a sex bucket list of all the kinks and sexual practices you have yet to try with one another.
9 Mind the noise you make.
Yes, we get that you’re on vacation sex. And sometimes, letting off steam can get a bit vocal. However, be mindful of where you’re staying. If it’s at a hotel with other guests on the same floor, try not to moan or make the bed creak too loudly.
10 Don’t forget protection!
Contraceptives, such as condoms and birth control, may be easily accessible to where you live. However, that might not be the case if you’re heading out of town or abroad for vacation. And you don’t want that to hinder you from having vacation sex, right? Among the things you’re packing in your luggage, include your own birth control needs.
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11 Phones off!
Be in the present moment with your partner. There’s no better mood breaker for vacation sex rather than getting random notifications on your phone or doom-scrolling on it.
12 Bring lube.
And we mean a lot of it. Lube makes everything smoother and more pleasurable for the parties involved. Plus, you’ll be having loads of vacation sex wherever you go around in your destination, so might as well make each sexcapade count with a few drops of it.
13 Take your time.
Like seriously. Unlike back home, where things feel more rushed, and sex is something difficult to squeeze in, a vacation is a time when you can slow down and fully immerse yourself in calmness and relaxation. No deadlines to catch up on, an appointment to attend to, or a kid to worry about.
With that said, that applies to vacation sex. Be as touchy as you want, kiss each other more, or even stay in that sex position for as long as you like. Avoid counting how many times you had sex, and only have vacation sex when you both feel like it.
14 Be reattuned with your body.
Your body must be praising you for taking this vacation! That way, you can remember what it’s like to relax and also have sex. Observe new views, smells, touches, and sounds as you engage in vacation sex. It’ll heighten your senses more and get you even more sensitive, making sex even more enjoyable for you and your partner.
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15 Have a day or two alone.
It’s common not to spend each day with each other when you’re on vacation. You’ll definitely want some me-time in between to relax, unwind, and recharge your social battery. Plus, a bit of space from your partner can build up more sexual tension from the distance. Thus, expect vacation sex to be steamier and more intimate.
16 Engage in roleplay.
Roleplay is always a good idea. And when you’re on vacation, you’re more likely to venture into new ideas to have steaming vacation sex later on. For example, you can pretend to be strangers who are eager for a good time on their vacation.
17 Maximize the heck of your space.
No matter what kind of location you end up in for vacation sex, like the ones we mentioned above, make the most out of it.
Try as many sex positions (we’ll mention some of our favorites in the next section), fantasies, and kinks as you can. When else can you act these out when you’re back at home? And besides, you’re on vacation! You can do absolutely anything (and anyone) while you’re at it!
Even if you end up on your hotel or villa floor out of lust, just enjoy the moment.
18 Have an exit strategy.
Vacation sex doesn’t always occur between couples, but when you’re either on a solo vacation or a vacation with friends. And it so happens that at the location you’re at it, whether it be at a social space like a bar or club, you happily find a really attractive person. And well, you have sexual thoughts and deep desires for them.
And when you do act on those desires, you’ll head back to their place or yours. But before engaging in it, gotta let someone (preferably your friends or a trusted person) know where you’re off to. Put your location on for them to track you and text them your whereabouts in real-time as much as possible.
That way, after the deed, they can pick up from where you are. Or if things aren’t as what you initially expected, they can get you out ASAP. Stranger danger is extra real on vacation, so you must take every possible step to be careful.
Vacation Sex Positions
Get your bodies warmed up with these hella sexy vacation sex positions to try with your lover.
1 Coital Alignment Technique
If you want to enhance the way you do missionary as you engage in vacation sex, this technique is perfect for you. It’s when a penis owner situates their part a bit higher on a vulva owner until their erection points downward, bringing it closer to the vulva owner’s clitoris. Informally, it’s known as “grinding the corn” as the movements resemble rubbing and dry humping.
How to Do This: The penis owner is on top of their partner, who is a vulva owner. The latter has their legs spread open, while the former angles their body wherein it meets their partner’s shoulders. It’s ideal for the vulva owner to have a cushion under their back to follow the angle of their partner as well.
Once they’re both comfortable, the penis owner can slide inside their partner. But only the tip! Their shaft remains outside to rub the vulva area. Both of you move in a rocking motion to reach a good o’.
2 Face to Face
Wanna get up and close with your partner when you’re having vacation sex? Then get face-to-face with them, wherein either you or your partner are on top. Add more heat as you make out with each other, and your hands roam around each other like crazy!
For example, let’s say you’re the one on top.
How to Do This: With your partner sitting down on a flat, preferably cushiony surface, you straddle on their lap and loop your arms around their neck. Their arms are around your back, but they can explore your waist to pull you in closer. And when you’re ready, lower yourselves down to their length. Hold on to your partner’s shoulders if you need the extra support.
3 Sight Seeing
Sometimes, the best sight during vacation is your partner as they make you feel oh so good. To the point that it’ll make your legs tremble, challenged to keep yourselves afloat. Oh, the magic of vacation sex spicing up standing sex.
How to Do This: You and your partner are facing each other, wherein the receiver’s leg is lifted up by the giver by the thigh. Or the receiver can wrap their leg around their giver’s waist or hips for deeper penetration. The receiver also uses their hands and arms around their partner for stability. As for the giver, their hands can also roam around their partner for extra intimacy and support.
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4 Doggy By The Beach
And no, we don’t mean bring your fluffy companion by the shore.
There’s absolutely no way you can miss out on this sexy vacation sex position, especially if you’re at the beach! However, you can also do this doggy position in any space during your vacation.
How to Do This: The receiver is on all fours, leaning forward for support through their elbows on a flat, cushiony surface. Meanwhile, the giver is behind them, holding them by the waist and slowly entering them. Start off with slow thrusts, then amp it up when you find your flow. And make sure not to have any other onlookers catching you in the act!
5 Tasty 69
Going on vacation means trying different kinds of delicious treats during your entire stay. But sometimes you don’t have to look further when you’re with your partner, who’s the most scrumptious treat of them all. Looks like you can stay in for a bit for sweet vacation oral sex if you want to swap out intense penetration momentarily.
How to Do This: You and your partner rest on your sides but in opposite directions. Align yourself towards your partner’s genitalia and vice versa. Get as close as you can as well as you indulge.
Top 10 Ideal Vacation Sex Toys
Eager to bring an extra friend or two on your vacation? Check out some of our favorite vacation sex toys up for grabs down below!
Takeaway
Vacation sex is an intimate way to reconnect with your partner and let your spontaneity run wild and free. Without the demands of your day-to-day life, the sex is bound to feel more relaxing and feisty when you add fun, new sexual activities, sex toys, and kinks. Just ensure to stay prepared with the essentials such as protection, lube, and a possible exit plan if you’re having a one night stand.
