15 Appetizing Oral Sex Positions That’ll Sweeten The Mood

Disclaimer: This list of oral sex positions can be easily achieved by most people. But for those with certain medical conditions, please consult your healthcare provider before trying the unconventional positions shared in this guide.

Who doesn’t love oral sex? Whether you’re on the receiving or giving end, you’re bound to have a good time feeling someone’s tongue on you and vice versa. Plus, it’s a main act in itself when deep penetration seems too overwhelming at the moment.

On that note, let’s keep talking about it!

In this article, we’ll be delving into our favorite oral sex positions, from cunnilingus, fellatio, and 69. We’re here for the inclusivity! Alongside this, we’ll also share our top tips to remember before getting your mouths to business.

Extra Note: Each oral sex position is from the point of view of the receiver.

Oral Sex Positions for Vulva Owners

Get cumming with the right cunnilingus sex positions! If you’re craving for that ooh-tastic vulva pleasure, this section is for you.

1 Open Bible

Hey now, people like it classic and vanilla. This oral sex position is proof of such. But in case you want more flavor (like other flavors of lube), spice things up with lots of physical touch, kissing, and maybe some dirty talk as you go down your boo.

But first, let’s figure out how to get into this position. You’re lying on your back with your legs bent like in a butterfly position. With that open space between your legs, that’s where your partner slides through. Kneeling with their butt up in the air, their hands caress your shins as their lips directly land on your slit. Or your clitoris to automatically give you that toe-curling feeling! 

While their tongue does all that motion, your hands are free to rake all over their hair! Tug or grip on to it, maybe not too tight unless they tell you otherwise.

2 Eat Your Cake

Take your sweet dessert from behind for a change! This doggy-style oral sex position gives your partner the control, from the pace, angle, and more. Plus, it can lead to all sorts of backdoor play if you’re into that. Blended orgasms may even be possible!

But back to keeping it oral, you’re on your knees. Your elbows are planted on the bed with your chest lifted off the floor, almost like you’re doing a plank. With your legs together, your partner comes from behind on all fours. Their arms are resting on each side of your legs as their lips lean forward to your intimate parts. As their tongue flicks and swirls, their hands can play around with other parts of your body to keep it even more heated!

3 Kivin Method

Masterclass describes this method in two words: sideways cunnilingus. Just a switch in angle, specifically on the side, can change the game completely. While you rest on your back with your leg lifted, your partner positions themselves perpendicular to your vulva area. Or they move sideways under your leg, then devour you up and down your slit and clit. This method can help vulva owners reach deeper pleasure and stronger orgasms, so don’t skip out on this delectable oral sex position!

4 Up Close

Give your partner a full show of your entire self through this visual oral sex position! Plus, you’re in control here. While your partner sits down with open legs, you straddle them. Then you pull your vulva in closer to their face. Their hands can squeeze your butt as they eat you out. They can even touch themselves while making you feel good!

On the other hand, you take charge of the motion, from rubbing your vulva on them. Or reangle yourself to meet their lips as you switch the control to them. Up to you here! Your hands can also play with your or their hair when the pleasure starts to build up and crash you real good!

5 Royal Throne

Ah, face-sitting. One of the prime ways of getting eaten out! But mind you, you’re more on straddling than sitting on their face. Your partner will make sure to keep you up!

Position yourself above their face as they lie down on the bed. With your body a few inches away from their face, they may pull you down slightly to get closer to you and support your weight. Their hands can also rake all over your breasts, butt, hips, and more. Show them who the pu$$y queen of this land is!

Oral Sex Positions for Penis Owners

When you’re hard and ready, you’d crave for salivating fellatio to satisfy your dick! So if you have a cock, this section is packed with our favorite oral sex positions for penis owners.

1 Kneeling Glory

Perhaps you want to sit back, relax, enjoy the show when getting a blowjob. Well, why not let your partner take full control of your pleasure in this popular oral sex position? Let them take that free space where your cock lies and suck you real good!

Start off with sitting down on any comfortable cushioned surface, like a couch or chair. Lean back as you spread your legs open. Your partner gets on their knees, crawling towards your free cock. With an open, salivating mouth, they take you inch by inch or all at once. If they have no gag reflex, you’re definitely in for a crazy ride! Feel free to have your hands all over their head, jaw, and even their own hands!

2 Blow Your Candle Out

Imagine it’s your birthday and it’s cake time with a candle! But instead of just any candle, it’s your cock on the platter, and your boo is gonna blow your mind real good! While you rest on your back, your partner straddles you on the opposite direction. So you’re facing their back while their actions are hidden from sight. But doesn’t that make things more thrilling? 

From there, your partner can cup your length and take you inch by inch. On your end, you can keep it hands-free or touch their body while they touch yours.

3 Lazy Day

Maybe in the middle of your Netflix and Chill on a lazy Sunday morning. Then suddenly, your partner may have the urge to suck you off. It can happen; isn’t that the underlying idea of the activity? While you remain seated on the couch or bed, your boo’s head lowers to your lap. Their hand holds and leads your penis to their mouth. 

Bobbing, thrusting, licking, they can go in any motion to get you off! Simultaneously, it’s all chill and laidback. Just sit back and enjoy the ride with this oral sex position.

4 So In Your Face

Take queening but for penis owners! With your boo lying on the bed, you’re the one on top straddling their face. Only a few inches away so they can take your length in effortlessly. Their hands can grip your butt while you hold onto the headboard or on each side of their face.

5 Lie Back

Take things up a notch with this expert oral sex position! First, your partner lies back on the bed with their head hanging on the edge. While you get a gorgeous front view of their body, you stand by their head and lean forward. That way, they can access your cock in no time. While that’s happening, your hands simultaneously play around with their sensitive spots!

34+35 Oral Sex Positions

Do the math and what do you get? 69, baby! It’s only right to include the well-known 69 oral sex position when talking about giving and receiving head. And with that, check out some of our favorite 69 oral sex positions down below.

1 Classic 69

Everyone may know this, but it’s only right to include it when talking about some of the best oral sex positions. Both of you are aligned in opposite directions, facing each other’s genitalia. If you’re the receiver, you’re lying on your back with slightly bent legs while your partner (the giver) hovers over you on all fours.

If you want to avoid discomfort while doing this position, place pillows under your head, lower back, knees, and even your butt. Wherever you believe it’s necessary in your body. The last thing you want to feel is soreness and other aching pains all over your figure.

2 Reversed 69

Ariana Grande once sang “Switchin’ the positions for you…”. Would you do that for your boo? 

This oral sex position basically means flipping the switch when wanting to give and receive pleasure with your boo. If you’re on the bottom, you can hover your partner in the opposite direction. Then if you’re on top, you change by lying down, seeing your partner’s genitalia above. From there, you bring each other to the brink of satisfaction!

3 Sideways 69

In the previous points, we discussed being above or below one another during 69. In this variation, your bodies tilt to the side while facing each other’s genitalia. It’s almost like a modified version of the oral sex position when you have a challenging time reaching and pleasing each other that way.

4 Squatting 69

If you want to amplify the difficulty level a tad bit, you’re at the right place! Instead of your partner lying down, they’re seated upwards. Their arms are outstretched and planted right behind them. As for you, you’re facing behind them as you bend and squat. Your genitalia should be directed to their face. This oral sex position will test your lower body strength and flexibility, but if you have the guts, safely give it a try. 

You can also change the positions depending on your and your partner’s dynamic here.

5 Standing 69

The toughest variation of them all! You and your partner need overall body strength for this one. Whoever is used to being on top during 69, they’re the one standing. Then whoever is on the bottom, they’ll carefully prepare themselves to go upside down. They’ll also be held by their partner. Their knees rest on the top’s shoulders, and their arms are linked around their waist. 

As for the top, their arms are also around the bottom’s waist, standing widely to balance each other’s weights. Pulling this off is one heck of a brag if you ask us!

Tips To Remember Doing These Oral Sex Positions

By this time, you’re ready to get down and have some tasty head game with your boo! But before we let you both have your fun, keep in mind these crucial tips before getting your tongue and mouth swirling and moving against one another. 

1 Communicate with one another beforehand.

Just like any kind of sex activity, discussing your needs and desires beforehand with your partner is important. This also applies to the person you’re hooking up with or seeing casually. That’s because it ensures that you’re on the same page and get to set the necessary boundaries. 

In other words, nobody gets hurt, and engaging in any of these oral sex positions would be an overall enjoyable experience! Although we don’t know what your partner’s sex game is like, at least you’d feel reassured to know what you both like and don’t like. 

For example, if they’re going down on you, you wouldn’t want them to nibble your clit with their teeth. Or if you’re a penis owner, you’d love it if they use their hands on their balls while their mouth is at work.

2 Brush your teeth.

Experiencing mind-blowing oral sex means practicing good oral hygiene as this sexual act involves your mouth and teeth. Before entering the bedroom, prepare the oral necessities such as your toothbrush, toothpaste, mouthwash, and dental floss. Heavy on the latter when it can remove any particles stuck on your teeth. 

Brushing your teeth not only gives you good breath but also enhances the bond between your partner. Remember that nobody likes a person with foul breath, no matter what the case. It’s actions like this that can really say a lot about a person.

3 Add sex toys.

Whether you’re struggling to make your boo come or perhaps you want to achieve more sexual bliss, then sex toys are at your service! They can imitate numerous sensations linked to oral sex (or penetrative too) that add more satisfaction for all parties involved. From vibrating, licking, to sucking sensations from sex toys, you can alternate using them with your own efforts. Double the fun, right?

For example, while you’re giving head to your partner, you can place a cock ring for those extra vibes. Or while your partner goes down on you, a clit sucker can be situated on that nub while their tongue languidly licks your slit up and down.

Another hot idea would be adding handcuffs and/or a blindfold on the receiving partner while their boo takes full charge of them!

The ideas here are endless, so get creative with one another!

4 Incorporate lube.

Add more smoothness and taste as you try these oral sex positions with lube! From unflavored to flavored, let your preferences dictate which type you want. Consistency-wise, lube can be water-based, oil-based, silicone-based, and a hybrid of all 3 of the aforementioned components. Water-based lube best works with sex toys if you’re incorporating any.

Overall, if you need that extra fluidity and want to achieve nouveau sensations in sex, using lube is the way to go!

5 Don’t forget to do aftercare!

After having the time of your life trying these oral sex positions, it’s key to wrap it up smoothly and positively. The final phase of sex is aftercare, wherein you and your partner clean up and take care of each other. With sex being a powerful activity, no matter what the pace, it’s safe to end things gradually rather than sleeping in or leaving right after it’s done. 

Otherwise, It’ll make you more prone to feeling negative emotions. Or in other words, post-coital dysphoria. Post-sex blues, if you call it. So to avoid that, doing aftercare can prevent that. 

There are numerous ways to do aftercare, such as cleaning each other up, having a shared shower or bath, having a meal together, cuddling, and even watching a movie together. It can depend on your dynamics, but just make sure not to end sex as is. 

After all, aftercare is a way to show respect and decency to one another.

Takeaway

And that’s a wrap on some of our favorite oral sex positions to do with your boo! We mixed it up from beginners to expert levels so you can gradually get the hang of oral sex. Make sure to have fresh breath, talk things out with your partner, and play safe during this orally fun journey!