The Spill on Everything About a Squirting Orgasm

Disclaimer: This article about a squirting orgasm is meant to be a source of valuable information for the reader. However, it is not a substitute for direct expert assistance. Consult with a healthcare professional like a gynecologist for further guidance. 

Squirting remains a mystery for many people, even though it’s constantly up for discussion. But one thing is for sure: it’s real, and you can even reach an orgasm related to it! It’s only a matter of knowing how to pull it off, yet that’s still unclear for most of us.

But no worries, we’ll make sure to change that today!

In this guide, we’ll break down and clarify what a squirting orgasm is all about, alongside how to achieve one. We’ll also share a mini background on the activity and how to safely act it out and reach a happy and healthy climax.

Short Summary on Squirting

Sometimes interchangeably known as female ejaculation, WebMD defines squirting as the “fluid expelled from the vagina during orgasm”. But some sources state that it can even happen before or on the brink of orgasm, depending on one’s body.

Healthline adds that such liquid expulsion involves a combination of urine, urea, uric acid, and creatinine. It’s then released through the bladder. From other sources, some identify squirting (or female ejaculation rather) as the release of milky, white liquid resembling male semen from the Skene’s Glands or the female prostate.

There is some research that suggests the squirting and female ejaculation are different.

In order to achieve squirting, g-spot stimulation plays a strong part. Even if some researchers argue against its existence, such stimulation down there can take your body to new heights of pleasure.

Other informal names for squirting include tsunami of love and gushing. 

What Does a Squirting Orgasm Look and Feel Like?

Don’t mind what pornography shows you. It’s quite overexaggerated in comparison to the real thing.

Although squirting can vary per person, this study shows how participants released quite a large amount of fluid (around 2 oz), and almost 79% of them added how the activity enriched their lives. In other words, squirting liquid can be a trickle of fluid down your legs, not a whole waterfest.

Moreover, squirting and orgasm are two different things. But infusing them together is possible. In fact, some people report that squirting experienced stronger orgasms and a change in pattern when reaching climaxes. 

Back to squirting orgasms, it can feel like having the urge to pee or tingling sensations along their g-spot area. The sensation is almost like you’re going to literally wet the bed. You can also be a lot more sensitive all over, alongside shaky legs. And if you’re teasing around the g-spot, spurts of squirts may be released again. 

How to Achieve a Squirting Orgasm

Onto the fun part! This soaking step-by-step guide on achieving a squirting orgasm is applicable for both solo and partnered play.

1 Set the mood.

Before getting down and freaky, you have to get your body aroused first. It prepares you for what’s to come (and for you to achieve that too). You can accomplish just that by setting the right mood first. Aka a hella sexy one. 

Some examples of setting the mood are dimming the lights, listening to sultry music, consuming sexual material (e.g., videos, audio recordings, books, etc.), dressing up in sexy, revealing clothing, and having a massage. Foreplay such as kissing and oral sex also counts here.

By setting the mood right, the arousal seeps in effortlessly, resulting in your genitalia swelling up and becoming more sensitive to touch and pleasure. From there, your squirting orgasm may be moments away!

2 Touch your erogenous zones.

Think of it as a way to tease yourself further before getting into the main thing. You’re already aroused, but you’re delaying things a tad bit by giving your other pleasure zones some much-needed attention. Plus, it’s always amusing to play around with such.

This tip can go so many ways. For solo play, your hands can play with your breasts as you lay in bed. Then for partnered play, your partner can kiss your neck while they rub your clit. Get creative here and maybe slip in an o’!

3 Once aroused, find the g-spot.

By this time, your body is extra heated from the previous events. As a result, your g-spot will also be affected, being more swollen from arousal, aka. Lots of blood flow in that area. Thus, it’ll be easier to locate internally. 

However, the sensation of the g-spot can vary per person. So be gentle and patient with yourself! You should also listen to your body language on its sensitivity and such. If you’re not enjoying the sensation so far, don’t force yourself to play with it or take extra time to get used to it.

4 Try out different g-spot stimulation techniques.

This is the experimental part when you’re trying to achieve a squirting orgasm! As you or your partner find your g-spot, there are several g-spot stimulation techniques to please it. For starters, you can press your g-spot like a button at varying pressures. 

There’s also the “come hither” (or cum hither) technique, wherein your fingers do that motion upon insertion and reaching your g-spot. Moreover, there’s a technique that combines all the previous ones we mentioned for a more impactful session!

Whichever style feels the most satisfying for you at the moment, go full throttle on it!

5 Experiment with sex toys.

In case your or your partner’s fingers get quite tired, playing around with sex toys can switch things up. Give your fingers a break, but not your pleasure! For pinpointed stimulation, g-spot vibrators can give you that extra buzz you won’t get enough. Rabbit vibrators are also a great suggestion, especially when the smaller ear can simultaneously please your special nub. The more pleasure racing in your body, the easier and possibly faster it is to reach a squirting orgasm!

6 Explore various sex positions.

Whether it be for solo play or with your boo, don’t get stuck in just one position the whole time!

For the latter, sit on your boo’s lap for a change if you’re just lying down most of the time. With your legs spread open, let their hands find your core and get moving to make you squirt! Doggy style is a great idea as well if you’re also craving penetration, then placing a buzzing sex toy (e.g., clit sucker or vibrator) for that extra sexual bliss.

If you’re doing it solo (sex toys or not), try kneeling down on the bed! Spread your legs as wide as you possibly can. You can hold onto the headboard if you can as you thrust your fingers or your chosen sex toy. Keep that pace until you feel your squirting orgasm coming through.

7 Add some other fun kinks!

Around this time, you’ve discovered what technique works for you and the other extras (positions, possibly sex toys, kinks, etc.) to it. From there, just keep going. Start slow, then consistently build up, bringing you closer and closer to the edge of a squirting orgasm! That is the goal after all here!

8 As soon as you find your pace, gradually intensify it.

From such stimulation to get you to squirt, whether it’s done by yourself, a sex toy, or by your partner, it’ll fill your entire body up with so much pleasure. Toes curling, gripping the sheets, short breaths, your legs are shaking non-stop! Not to mention all the possible kinks you added to the mix! As a result, the pinnacle would be letting go aka. unravel in a mind-blowing squirting orgasm!

Once you feel all the signs of release, just allow yourself to let go! Relish in the wetness that exits your body. Don’t hold back at all at how much squirting liquid may be released in one session! Think of that as a celebration of your pleasure and learning new sensations related to your body.

But as a short warning, squirting can feel like peeing in some records. Thus, you have to figure out how they differ from each other. Only let go when you feel like squirting, not when you have the urge to pee.

9 Let go!

From such stimulation to get you to squirt, whether it’s done by yourself, a sex toy, or by your partner, it’ll fill your entire body up with so much pleasure. Toes curling, gripping the sheets, short breaths, your legs are shaking non-stop! Not to mention all the possible kinks you added to the mix! As a result, the pinnacle would be letting go aka. unravel in a mind-blowing squirting orgasm!

Once you feel all the signs of release, just allow yourself to let go! Relish in the wetness that exits your body. Don’t hold back at all at how much squirting liquid may be released in one session! Think of that as a celebration of your pleasure and learning new sensations related to your body.

10 Practice aftercare.

By this time, you’re panting and sweaty from such a good run. For a wet activity such as squirting and achieving a squirting orgasm, this last step is going to be very important. Aftercare can start with cleaning up after one another, especially the receiver. 

Afterwards, you can both take a shower and then change the sheets. To further wind down, eat some really good food and watch a movie on TV. This phase of sex should be calm and laidback after experiencing such intense levels of energy.

Safety Tips Before Trying to Achieve a Squirting Orgasm

Before you get into the mood of reaching a squirting orgasm, browse this section first. We compiled our top most important safety tips to remember and apply before getting any fingers or sex toys to work.

1 Study your body.

The most basic tip, yet a lot of people don’t pay as much attention to it! By studying and learning more about your body, you’ll know what makes you feel good and the like. You’ll also be more aware of what kind of sensations you may not like either. Studying may involve a lot of touching and even sex toys. You can even utilize a mirror for the body parts you can’t directly say.

Doing this tip diligently can eventually aid you in reaching a squirting orgasm because knowledge is power! It’s also useful when you include your partner in the mix, directing them which body part is sensitive, how to touch you, and so much more.

2 Hydrate!

Before and after your stimulating session, water keeps you running with energy! Plus, you’re going to need a lot of liquid in your system if you have a satisfying squirting orgasm. So don’t skip out on this so you don’t run out of horsepower throughout your session together!

3 Take your time.

Especially if it’s your first time experiencing squirting or achieving a squirting orgasm, don’t rush things. If you need longer foreplay, then do it. Or if you couldn’t achieve any of those things at first, don’t beat yourself up for it. It’s a learning process, and your setbacks and mistakes will propel your growth and success over time. And oh, don’t forget to put lube here!

4 Place a cloth under your vulva area.

Reaching a squirting orgasm can instantly become a wet zone. If you’re doing such in your bed, you wouldn’t want it to get stained and such since you sleep in it too. You can always change the sheets after, but that may be too much for you. Some cloths you can use are a towel or a soft, sterile blanket.

5 Practice makes progress.

In line with the previous point, being consistent in practicing how to squirt and achieve a squirting orgasm allows room for improvement and lets you understand your body more. Having no expectations during this time also puts you in a better headspace as you explore, plus no pressure on yourself either!

Another way to look at things here is to aim to be 1% better each time. From there, all that effort you put in builds up in the long run.

Takeaway

Accomplishing a squirting orgasm is a hella sexy experience that a vulva owner can experience. Even if it can still be a hoax to some people or possibly difficult, it’s a real experience, and it can enrich one’s sex life. By understanding how your body works, communicating your needs, and practicing proper hygiene, reaching a squirting orgasm can be done! And if not yet, then again, practice makes progress.