Do you own a bunch of vibrators and are wondering how to use them on your couple plays? Interested in using a vibrator on your man or exploring sex toys together? We gotchu.
This guide will share some of the best play techniques you can try with your partner. Whether he has experience with these buzzing gadgets before or considers himself a vibrator virgin, there’s a technique that’ll surely thrill his sensual senses.
Why Should You Use a Vibrator on Your Man?
Before we dive into the play techniques, let’s touch on why this is worth exploring.
Using a vibrator on your man brings a thrilling sense of novelty into your bedroom plays. While conventional sex may be satisfying, there’s undeniable potential for excitement when venturing into uncharted waters. Not only will you keep the flames of passion burning bright, but you will also cultivate a deeper connection rooted in shared exploration.
After all, why settle for the status quo when a whole world of pleasure is waiting to be discovered? All you need to do is take the plunge.
Plus, using a vibrator together can be a real eye-opener! Your man might find spots on his penis or around his backdoor that really get him going, and you might discover new sensations too. And when you both know each other’s bodies inside and out, it’s easier to hit those sweet spots together.
Vibrator Play Techniques
Now that we’ve covered the perks, let’s dive into the fun stuff—the techniques you’ve been eager to explore! While each technique may suggest a specific type of vibrator, don’t feel limited—many of them can be explored with whatever vibrator you have. Feel free to experiment and adapt these techniques to suit your preferences and the tools you have at your disposal.
1Pre-Game Massage
Works Well With: Magic Wand Massager
If you’re thinking about introducing a vibrator to your man, it’s best to start with a gentle approach. Instead of diving straight into stimulating his sensitive areas, consider giving him a relaxing warmup by massaging his muscles and exploring non-genital erogenous zones. This gradual introduction can help him ease into the experience and build anticipation for what’s to come.
How to Do It:
- Let your partner lie down or get into any preferred position.
- Grab your magic wand massager and turn it on. Keep it in its lowest setting.
- Ask your partner where he wants you to put the massager head on; it could be in his arms, head, neck, back, etc.
- Start massaging his body; never let the massager touch his penis or balls. Increase the vibration intensity as the session goes on.
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2Buzzing Handjob
Works Well With: Finger Vibrator
Another way to smoothly introduce a vibrator to your man is by incorporating it as an extra element into your usual sexual activities. By incorporating the vibrator into familiar routines, you create a sense of continuity and comfort, reducing any potential feelings of apprehension or overwhelm that new sexperiences may bring.
How to Do It:
- Wear the finger vibrator on your index or middle finger for optimal control and sensation. We suggest choosing a ring-style vibrator over a thimble-style one, as it provides better security and stability, ensuring the vibrator stays snugly in place on your finger.
- Apply water-based lubricant all over your partner’s shaft.
- Turn on the vibrator, and proceed with stroking his penis as usual. You can move your hand back and forth, give it a little twist, or use other hand job techniques— click here for more deets.
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3Pleasing The Tip
Works Well With: Mini Vibrator
Since many sex toy owners likely possess a mini vibrator, this technique is accessible to virtually everyone and worth giving a shot. Its simplicity makes it an ideal option for beginners, requiring minimal expertise.
How to Do It:
- Get your mini vibrator and apply a few drops of water-based lube to its tip. Turn it on.
- Press the tip into your partner’s glans penis (head of penis). You can do up-and-down, swirling, or side-by-side motions.
- For added pleasure, use your other hand to stroke your partner’s shaft. Gradually increase the vibration level or upon your man’s request.
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4Buzz and Blow
Works Well With: Lay-On Vibrator
Do you love giving your man a sloppy blow job? You’ve got to try this one. It mixes handjob, blowjob, and vibrator play, giving your partner a sensation that they surely will never forget.
How to Do It:
- Position the lay-on vibrator directly onto your palm, using a single finger to secure it.
- Turn the vibrator. Next, hold your partner’s shaft, ensuring the vibrator is nestled between your palm and his penis.
- Gently massage or stroke your partner’s penis. Meanwhile, slide your mouth into your partner’s penis head/tip.
- Lick and suck the tip while your hand is busy with stroking your partner’s shaft.
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5Press F
Works Well With: Tip Vibrator
Wanna blow his mind? Let us share with you this not-so-known fact: the most sensitive part of the penis is the frenulum. It’s a band of tissue where the foreskin connects to the underside of the penis. If you’re kneeling in front of your partner’s penis, the frenulum is located at the bottom part of the glans penis and has a “v” shape.
So, if you want to make your partner moan and squirm in orgasmic delight, you should definitely give this spot some love! You can lick it, press your lips in it, rub it with your fingers, or even better, press a tip vibrator in it.
How to Do It:
- Grab your tip vibrator and turn it on.
- Apply a few drops of water-based lubricant in your frenulum area.
- Please note the tip vibrator, even in its lowest setting, can be incredibly powerful, so don’t start pressing the vibrator straight to the frenulum. Caress it all over your partner’s penis as a warmup.
- Once your partner is all heated up, gently press the toy’s tip to his frenulum. Move it in circular, side-by-side, or up-and-down motions. You can also do some rhythmic tapping.
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6Buzz the Ball
Works Well With: Clitoral Vibrator
Feel like showing some love to your man’s balls? Grab your clitoral or mini vibrator and give them some gentle stimulation. Just remember, it’s a sensitive area, so proceed with care.
How to Do It:
- Start with a good ‘ol blowjob.
- While you’re still busy with giving him oral. Grab your clitoral vibrator and turn it on.
- Press the vibrating part of the toy to your partner’s balls. You can also stimulate the other parts of your partner’s penis or his perineum.
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7Nip Flick
Works Well With: Tip Vibrator
Let’s take a break from the genitals and move over to his nipples. They might not be as sensitive as the other erogenous zones, but stimulating them with deep vibrations can bring some pre-game sizzle to the deed.
How to Do It:
- Allow your partner to settle into a comfortable position, ensuring easy access to his nipples.
- Apply a few drops of lubricant to your partner’s nipples, ensuring a smooth glide.
- Turn on the device and gently guide the tip across various areas of your partner’s body.
- Once anticipation has been kindled, press the tip firmly against your partner’s nipples, moving it in gentle circular motions.
- Press the tip directly to your partner’s nipples. Keep it in there for a few seconds, then return the tip to the area around your man’s nipples.
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8Stroke the Bloke
Works Well With: Couple Vibrator
For those who are unfamiliar with a couple vibrator, it’s a c-shaped sex toy that comes with two vibrating points. It’s inserted in the vagina right before intercourse to provide additional stimulation for the female partner, increasing their chances of cumming as most women don’t come with vaginal penetration alone.
While the primary purpose of a couple’s vibrator is typically to provide stimulation for the female partner, this versatile toy can serve an additional function. If the couple’s vibrator is exceptionally flexible, you can experiment by pulling it out until it forms a semi-circular shape. This transformed shape can be an open-ended stroker for your male partner.
How to Do It:
- Before use, assess the flexibility of your couple’s vibrator. If it’s sufficiently bendable, delicately separate the two vibrating points until there’s ample space for your penis to slide in between them with ease.
- Apply a few drops of water-based lube to your partner’s penis, and slide the vibrator into their shaft.
- Turn on the device, then move the toy back and forth. Increase the vibration level as the session goes on.
- Once done playing, clean the toy and return it to its original form.
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9Let’s Get Cheeky
Works Well With: G-Spot Vibrator
Curious about exploring anal play with your partner? This technique offers a gentle and safe introduction to anal stimulation. No need to insert anything into his bum; tease his anal opening with the vibrator for a tantalizing experience.
How to Do It:
- Ask your partner to lie down or get on all fours (doggy style.)
- Put a few drops of lubricant on your vibrator’s tip.
- Press the tip in your partner’s anal opening; don’t attempt to insert unless they ask you to.
- Turn on the vibrator, then move the tip in a circular motion for added pleasure.
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10Analicious
Works Well With: Mini Vibrator
Does your partner love to get rimmed? You can level up those analingus sessions with a mini vibrator. Just press the toy in your partner’s perineum or balls for added stimulation.
How to Do It:
- Ask your partner to get on all fours or his preferred rimming position.
- Grab your mini vibrator; the tip should be lubed up.
- Begin with giving him a rimjob. In the middle of the sesh, turn on the mini vibrator and press it against your partner’s perineum. The vibrations indirectly stimulate the prostate gland (also known as the “male g-spot”), amping up the pleasure.
- Move the tip in an up-and-down, side-to-side, or circular motion.
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Tips When Using a Vibrator on Your Man
After learning the vibrator play techniques, most of you are probably excited to use a vibrator on your man. But hold on a sec, ladies! You’ll have your chance soon enough. First, let’s go over some important tips to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both you and your boo.
1Consent is a must.
Like with other sexual activities, all parties involved should have given their informed consent. Before introducing the vibrators, have an open and honest conversation with your partner to gauge their interest. Avoid pressuring or guilting them into trying it—your partner should feel naturally curious and comfortable with the idea.
2Ensure the vibrators are cleaned well before your guy uses them.
If you own the vibrator that you’ll use on your man, make sure they’ve been deep cleaned first. Sharing sex toys without the proper cleaning before the activity can lead to a bunch of mishaps, like bacterial infections.
For a deep clean, start by washing the toy with a mild cleanser and warm water. Then, give it a second round of cleaning using a dedicated sex toy cleaner to ensure thorough sanitization.
During the sensual sesh, ensure that each toy is exclusively for the person it belongs to. It’s important not to share sex toys to maintain hygiene and prevent the spread of germs.
If you’re in a casual setup with your partner, such as friends with benefits, avoid sharing sex toys. Encourage your partner to purchase their own vibrators if they’re interested. Assure them that there are reputable online sex toy shops where they can discreetly find what they’re looking for, especially if they’re hesitant about shopping in person.
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3Start low and slow.
If you’ve been using vibrators for a while, you might have encountered the issue of using one that’s too powerful for your clitoris or vagina, resulting in overwhelming or uncomfortable sensations instead of pleasure. Similarly, your boyfriend or husband may also experience this if you increase the vibration level of the toy before he’s ready. To avoid this, keep the toy at its lowest setting when using a vibrator on your man for the first time.
4Explore male and multipurpose vibrators.
After delving into vibrator play with your own toys, consider gifting your partner a vibrator tailored to the male anatomy. These toys enhance his pleasure, providing him with various stimulating sensations.
Alternatively, you can opt for multipurpose vibrators in different erogenous zones. Not only are they enjoyable, but they also offer versatility, allowing you to explore various sexual activities without the need for multiple toys. Get more pleasure and savings!
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5Let your creative juices flow!
As mentioned earlier, the recommended types of vibrators in the techniques are just suggestions. You can explore these techniques with other types— as long it works, then go for it! We also recommend trying out these techniques with different positions, combining them with other sex toys, or mixing them up with other sexual activities. Let your imagination run wild.
Recommended Vibrators
Now that you’ve absorbed all the insights from this guide, you’re fully equipped to confidently use a vibrator on your man. Below are some of our bestselling vibrators that are worth playing with your guy. You can also check this page right here for more of these rumbly goodies.
Takeaway
As we conclude this guide, we hope you’ve gained valuable insights into using a vibrator on your man. Remember to prioritize communication, consent, and experimentation as you explore this form of play together.
And to the men reading this who wish their partners to incorporate vibrators into their intimate plays, this is your sign to share this article or express your interest directly to your partner. Open communication is key— good luck!
