10 Renter-Friendly Tips for Creating a Sexy Bedroom

So, you’re itching to transform your regular room into a sexy bedroom, but you’re stuck in a rental and can’t go all out with paint and decor. No sweat! We’ve got your back. In this guide, we’ll explore 10 renter-friendly tips to help you make your sensual sanctuary. From luxury bedding to mood lighting, we’ve got all the tricks to help you create a room that’ll make you swoon every time you walk through the door.

1Enhance the ambiance with proper lighting.

Lighting is a big deal when it comes to setting the vibe in your room. It can make your space feel like a cozy nook or as cold as a hospital room. That’s why if you want to create your very own sexy bedroom, lighting should be the first thing on your agenda.

First, check your ambient lighting. It’s your room’s main lighting source and sets the overall tone and brightness. If you haven’t had it yet, consider warm lighting as your main light, and if you have an extra budget, go with dimmable lights. These gems give you full control over the vibe, allowing you to dial up the romance or dial it down for a cozy night.

Remember to sprinkle in some decorative lighting, like bedside lamps or candles, to amp up the sultry vibe of the room. These beauties add a touch of charm and warmth, casting a soft, flattering glow that makes your space feel more inviting.

2Minimize electronic distractions like TVs and computers.

As much as possible, remove all electronics from your bedroom. If your workspace is right next to your bed, it’s hard to switch off the productivity vibes and switch on the romance vibes. And wait to get us started on the TV. It’s so tempting to cozy up and binge-watch your favorite series, but that’s precious time you could spend connecting with your partner.

We understand that only some have the luxury of a spacious pad with designated work and play areas. If you’re rocking a studio apartment where everything happens in the same room, consider using dividers or curtains to create a visual and mental boundary between your work and relaxation zones.

3Maintain cleanliness and organization.

A messy room might not be a total turn-off, but it’s definitely not doing your sex life any favors. There’s less space to move around, plus strange smells lurking in the corners. Not only that, but too much dust and grime in your room can lead to more sneezes than orgasms. It’s not exactly the recipe for a steamy night in, is it?

That said, cleaning your room regularly is a must. Bust out the vacuum, change those sheets, and treat yourself to some room sprays while you’re at it for an extra sensuality. Believe it or not, a little bit of cleaning can go a long way in ‘sexifying’ your space.

4Invest in a high-quality bed frame and mattress.

Let’s talk about the heart of your bedroom—the bed. This is where all the action happens, so it’s worth investing in a top-notch bed frame and mattress. When it comes to the frame, durability is key since you’ll be doing a lot of bouncing and rocking.

Now, if you’re into a little kinkier play like bondage or restraint, consider opting for a bed frame with side railings or a headboard that’s built for it. This way, you can easily tie up your partner and dive into a whole new realm of pleasure without any worries.

As for the mattress, if you’re all about sinking into a cloud-like embrace, foam models are where it’s at. They’re cozy, they contour to your body, but here’s the catch—they might not offer the bounce you’re craving, especially memory foam.

On the flip side, mattresses with innerspring and pocketed coils? They’ve got bounce for days, but they might not be the comfiest for those who’ve gotten used to the plushness of foam.

Enter the hybrid mattress—the best of both worlds. They combine the support of innerspring with the plush comfort of foam, hitting that sweet spot between bounce and coziness. If you’ve got the budget, trust us, it’s worth the splurge.

5Opt for luxurious bed linens for added comfort.

Alongside that sturdy bed frame and dreamy mattress, you’ll want to invest in top-notch bedding to elevate the experience.

For ultimate protection and comfort, consider a dual-layer approach. First up, a waterproof mattress cover to keep things clean and pristine beneath the surface. Then, layer on the luxury with satin sheets. With this winning combo, you’ll be all set for nights filled with passion and pleasure without worrying about stains.

While darker hues like maroon and deep purple are popular for hiding spills, feel free to follow your heart’s desire when selecting your sheets.

6Leave an extra space for your naughty plays.

While your bed might be the heart of your sexy bedroom, sometimes you want to spice things up and take action beyond the sheets. Whether you’re diving into a more complicated sex position or exploring your kinkier side, having a designated spot outside the bedroom can add a whole new level of excitement to your playtime.

We recommend setting up a small nook or corner for those special moments. It could be a cozy corner with plush cushions or a discreet alcove with soft lighting—whatever floats your boat.

7Go with simple and personalized decor.

Consider hanging up posters or artwork that speaks to your interests and passions. It could be a gallery wall filled with concert posters, movie prints, or even your own artwork. The key is surrounding yourself with things that make you happy and inspired.

If you’re a plant lover, why not bring some greenery into your bedroom? Not only do indoor plants add a pop of color and texture to your space, but they also help purify the air and create a calming atmosphere perfect for relaxation. Just make sure to do it sparingly, or it might look cluttered.

8Room sprays are a must!

Now, let’s talk about scent—the secret weapon in creating a truly sexy bedroom ambiance. Aromas can transport you to a state of relaxation and arousal, so it’s worth paying attention to what’s wafting through the air.

Consider using room sprays, humidifiers, or scented candles for an instant boost of sensuality. Opt for fragrances like jasmine, vanilla, ylang-ylang, lavender, and other natural aphrodisiac scents known to ignite passion.

9Ensure easy access to your love toys and kinky accessories.

A sexy bedroom isn’t complete without love toys, but let’s face it, they can be a tad awkward to have out in the open. The last thing you want is for Tita Susan to stumble upon your collection of restraints or a friend to spot your sex swing the moment they step into your room.

To keep things PG-friendly yet ready to rock somebody’s world, consider investing in a discreet cabinet or storage box to stash all your naughty toys. This way, they’re easily accessible when you need them but hidden from prying eyes when you don’t. There are also sex toys that could easily blend into your space— check out some suggestions in the next section.

10Consider bringing feng shui to your bedroom.

If you’re unfamiliar with it, Feng Shui is an ancient Chinese practice focused on arranging elements within a space to align with the natural energy flow, promoting harmony and balance in your living environment.

Now, for those who are open to incorporating Feng Shui to transform their space into a sexy bedroom, here are some of the things to take note of:

• Position your bed so you’re facing the door, but the bed should not be directly in line with the door. This creates a sense of command and security in your bedroom.
• Clear out the clutter under your bed, including those storage boxes. This ensures that the qi, or life energy, can flow freely and evenly throughout the room, promoting balance and harmony in your space.
• Strive for symmetry in your bedroom by arranging items in pairs or symmetrical patterns. Think of two bedside tables flanking the bed, four identical pillows for a balanced look, or two hanging plants adorning each upper corner of the room.
• Steer clear of aggressive or somber decorations in your bedroom. While you might be a fan of war movies or darker themes, placing such posters or decor in your bedroom can unintentionally bring negative energy. Instead, opt for uplifting and calming decorations that promote a positive atmosphere and support restful sleep.
• Opt for love colors, such as red and pink.

Spice Up Your Space With These Love Toys

Done with redecorating your space? Great! But before diving into sultry fun, why not add more toys to your collection? They will bring an extra dose of playfulness to your bedroom and open up a new world of pleasure for you to explore.

Below, we’ve rounded up some bestsellers to spice things up in the bedroom. From vibrators to restraints, there’s something for everyone to enjoy.

1Loveboxxx I Love Diamonds

For those who love a touch of glitz and glamour, this sex toy kit is sure to hit all the right spots. Bedazzled to perfection, it includes handcuffs with keys, a mini vibrator, a g-spot vibrator, a cock ring, an eye mask, and a tickler—everything you need for an unforgettable night of pleasure.

Perfect for beginners dipping their toes into the world of BDSM or couples looking to add some excitement to their sexcapades, this kit offers a little something for everyone. So go ahead, unleash your inner diva with this one!

 

2Loveboxxx BDSM Box

If bedazzled sex toys aren’t quite your style, but you still want to level up your sexy bedroom with a versatile BDSM kit, look no further. This kit has all the essentials made with premium-grade materials, ensuring quality and pleasure.

Inside the box, you’ll find a wand vibrator for intense stimulation, bondage rope for tantalizing restraint play, a pair of handcuffs for that added element of control, an eye mask for sensory deprivation, a flogger for a bit of spanking fun, and a convenient toy storage bag to keep everything organized and discreet.

 

3Iroha Temari Kaze Clitoral Vibrator

Looking for a vibrator that can easily blend in with your bedside table? You’ll love this clitoral vibrator. With its unique round body nestled in a sleek white base, it’s more like a chic room decoration than your typical sex toy. But don’t let its appearance fool you; this rechargeable vibrator packs six vibration modes. Plus, it’s crafted from premium-grade silicone, ensuring a velvety-smooth touch.

 

4Domm Under-Mattress Restraint Bedcuffs Set

Sexify your bedroom by turning your good ‘ol bed into a kinky playground. Perfect for beginners, this restraint set features four adjustable straps and easy-to-install clip closures, ensuring that you or your partner can get comfortably tied up and explore new levels of pleasure together.

 

5Rock-a-Bod Over The Door Sex Swing

Remember when we suggested leaving some space for non-bed activities? Here’s a game-changer: the Rock-a-Bod Over The Door Sex Swing. This nifty sex equipment easily attaches to any regular-sized door, holding up to 150kg without breaking a sweat.

Perfect for couples looking to spice things up with standing sex positions—minus the heavy lifting—or for those adventurous souls craving an elevated sultry session, this swing delivers both excitement and convenience.

 

6Iroha Kushi Clitoral Vibrator

Are you looking for a vibrator that’s as stylish as it is satisfying? Feast your eyes on the Iroha Kushi Clitoral Vibrator. With its charming seashell design, this sleek toy is so aesthetically pleasing that you’d hardly guess its true purpose at first glance.

This little gem packs a powerful punch with 7 deep vibration modes. Plus, it comes with a USB charging storage case that doubles as a chic display piece, resembling a shell adorning your bedside table. A true stunner!

 

7Gildo Ocean Ripple Glass Dildo

Now that we’ve introduced you to the seashell, it’s time to dive into the ocean with the Gildo Ocean Ripple Glass Dildo. It features a unique design inspired by ocean waves, adding a layer of visual appeal to your pleasure experience.

With its extra-wide tip, this dildo provides intense stimulation, making it perfect for more experienced players looking to take their pleasure to the next level. It’s versatile, too, suitable for both vaginal and anal stimulation and ideal for those who enjoy temperature play.

The toy’s flared silicone base ensures comfortable insertion and removal and adds safety and ease of use.

 

8Magical Sakura Glass Dildo

Here’s another stunning dildo to add to your sexy bedroom. While the Gildo reminds you of the beauty of ocean waves, the Magical Sakura Glass Dildo is all about bringing some fairycore into your sanctuary.

Made from premium-grade borosilicate glass, this glistening dong is temperature-resistant. It has a charming glass handle and a curved body for added stimulation.

 

9Fifty Shades Of Grey – Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

Still on the hunt for the perfect bed restraint set? Look no further than the one approved by none other than E.L. James herself—the author who brought BDSM to the mainstream with the Fifty Shades trilogy. This set features adjustable straps and cuffs, all crafted with premium-grade materials.

The padded cuffs ensure a snug and comfortable fit, while the inclusion of a blindfold adds an extra layer of sensory deprivation, heightening anticipation and arousal.

 

10Je Joue Naughty Gift Set

Meet the Je Joue Naughty Set, the perfect introduction to sensual exploration.

It comes with a luxury massage candle, designed to infuse your space with sensual vibes and create the perfect ambiance for intimate moments. Next, spice things up with the included card game set, providing playful opportunities for you and your partner to connect and explore each other’s desires. Last but not least, it has the bestselling Je Joue Mimi clitoral vibrator, a must-have for any pleasure seeker.

 

Takeaway

As we wrap this guide to creating a sexy bedroom, remember that building a sensual sanctuary doesn’t have to break the bank. Whether you opt for the DIY approach or focus on simple, cost-free efforts like decluttering and minimizing electronics, even small changes can significantly affect the mood.

The key is prioritizing comfort, intimacy, and personal style, tailoring your space to reflect your desires and preferences. So feel free to get creative and experiment with different ideas until you find what works best for you.