Just a Not-So Little Pinch: How to Play around With a Clit Clamp

Desiring to take clit play or achieve clit pleasure to a new level? Then it’s time to explore and experiment with a clit clamp! These pinchers are ready to pinch and squeeze yours into pure sexual bliss!

In this article, we’ll discuss what a clit clamp is and how to use and play with one, whether it be for solo or partnered play. We’ll also share the different benefits of playing with one and safety tips that’ll prevent any hurt and discomfort along the way.

What is a Clit Clamp?

A clit clamp, or clitoris clamp, is a sex toy that pleases the clitoris by pinching and squeezing it. This clamp comes in a small size that pinches over your clitoral hood. 

Material-wise, a clit clamp is usually made with stainless steel, which is non-porous. That kind of material means that they don’t hold on to bacteria and avoid infection or contamination. Hence it’s recognized to be safe to use and have contact with your body, especially in a sexual manner. 

It also looks like a great hidden accessory, but it’s especially pleasing when you’re naked and eager to pleasure yourself due to its varying designs. We’ll get more into that later on. 

The highlight of this sex toy is the involvement of some pain and sting in it. However, the gradual build-up of pleasure of it can blind and numb that pain. So if you love clit play or have an open mind on how you want your clitoris to receive pleasure, this kind of sex toy is perfect for you. But mind you, it’s also an ideal sex toy for the more experienced ones as things can become intense and strong, so it’s important to be careful and cautious.

Aside from sex, a clit clamp is a tool for BDSM plays. It’s worn by the submissive under the control of their dominant as punishment, pleasure, or a bit of both. These clamps get to test different pinch levels on the user and even make it possible to multitask with other BDSM activities. 

Variations of a Clit Clamp

A clit clamp has different appearances. One variation has beads on each clamp, adding more cooling textures and stimulation to the user.

There’s also a clit clamp with soft rubber on the tips to protect the clit from friction and oversensitivity. This one is great for beginners in this activity.

For something that’s packed with more animation and delight, clit clamps can have bells or cute charms attached to it. The bells make a tinkling sound that adds vibration to the user’s body and also turns on the dominant as they order their submissive around. As for the cute charms, they can be in the shape of a heart or diamond.

Another variation of a clit clamp is that it can be attached to a set of nipple clamps through a chain. Quite the blended combination of clit play, breast play, and nipple play in one go!

Benefits of Using a Clit Clamp

What’s so charming about playing with a clit clamp? We’ll give you the rundown on just that through this section below.

1 It unlocks new sensations.

A clit clamp highlights the sensations of pinching and squeezing, which may not be common in sex toys. At the same time, pinching or squeezing your clit is not the usual default pleasure technique that vulva owners do to get off. Maybe they’ll just do a fleeting pinch or squeeze to rile themselves up then move on to other techniques. 

But if you know your limits and figure out your tolerance level since pinching can be painful, a clit clamp can take you to cloud 9 in no time. Plus, it’ll give you a better perspective and feeling of pinching and squeezing as something that can be properly prolonged for your clit until it’s time to let it go.

It’s key to have an open mind here! 

2 It makes your clit more sensitive and erect.

Like with nipple clamps, pinching a certain area of your body traps the blood circulating there. As a result, it becomes more sensitive and erect to touch when you release the clamp. In the context of clit clamps, it makes your clit more responsive and puffy. From here, it makes its succeeding plays more enjoyable while using the clit clamp itself provides hands-free stimulation. 

3 It’s a hot way to spice things up.

Nobody wants a boring sex life that feels like routine, which is why it’s important to try new things every now and then! With clit play, there’s more to it than just playing with your clit with your hands, the classic sex toys, and even your partner’s mouth. Clit clamps put pinching and squeezing on the spotlight even more, alongside possibly having charms and bells for textures can please the rest of the vulva area. 

4 It can be done alone or with your boo.

Gotta love how flexible a clit clamp can be! It’s great to use during your solo sexcapades as again, it provides amazing hands-free stimulation. Simply lay back, relax, and fully be attuned to the power of a simple pinch or squeeze. As for partnered play, your partner can dominate you with this toy by watching you tremble, playing with the different pinching levels, and even giving you extra dirty talk.

5 You can achieve blended orgasms with it.

If you’re feeling more feisty, it’s possible to play around with other parts of your body whilst the clit clamp stays put and does its job. It can be your breasts, g-spot, anus, etc., By experiencing blended pleasure, you’re able to reach blended orgasms from all the sensations happening all over you!

How to Use a Clit Clamp

Finally into the action-packed part! Browse through this step-by-step run-through on how to use and play with this sex toy in this section.

1 Communicate with your partner about it.

This first step is applicable if you have a partner and want to explore a new aspect of sex with them. It’s likely that a clit clamp can be intimidating or too bold of a sex toy to try in the bedroom, so it’s key to discuss with them before escalating things further. Talk about what this toy is about, why it’s fun to use, and how to play with it properly. 

Give your partner some time to think about it, and be patient with them too. Once they make a decision, accept whatever it may be. If it’s a no, then don’t pressure or try to change their mind.

But if it’s a yes, then you can continue on this guide!

2 Do your research.

It’s crucial that you gain more familiarity with clit clamps if you are to use one for either solo or partnered sexcapades. First, indulge in various content about it aside from this guide. Perhaps search for erotic videos and pictures for a more vivid demonstration and showcase how the toy is used. Watch content that shows more ways to play around with it, videos and pictures that feature blended pleasure.

Second, look up different clit clamps in the market. If you’re a beginner to any kind of pinching toys on your body, search for clit clamps with rubber tips so the sensations won’t overwhelm or hurt you. Aside from this, fervently read up on what material the toy is made of, checking if it’s non-porous and body-safe.

Once you find your ideal clit clamp that also fits your budget, time to check it out of your cart!

3 Get in the mood.

The moment your clit clamp arrives in the mail, it’s only right to play with it immediately! If you’re playing solo, play some mood-making music in the background and even dress up sexily as you prepare your bed. 

If you got a boo, schedule a sexcapade that very day or night with them. Carve out time when you can! Once you’re together, dim the lights of your room. Lock eye contact with one another as you two grab a drink or talk about your day. Have some scented candles or freshener sprayed all over to calm your nerves. Just like with solo play, have a sexy playlist on shuffle in the background. 

These are just some of our examples of how to set the mood. Get creative and feel free to explore what works for you solo or with your partner. 

4 Lock the door.

Some people still forget this! The last thing you want to occur when you engage in a bold activity like this one is someone walking on you. It’s even more so possible if you live with other people, like family, friends, roommates, or your kids. But lucky you if there are no extra guests!

Regardless, this tip applies to upholding your privacy and dignity. Double-check it, too, before proceeding.

5 Make the most during foreplay.

As you (and your partner) get cozy, it’s to get all warm and let your arousal build up! One way of engaging in foreplay is to explore your erogenous zones. Make out with one another, cup your breasts, using a clit sucker on your nipples, finger yourself or get fingered, and receive neck kisses from your partner! Oral sex like cunnilingus and fellatio is another way to do foreplay. 69 in various positions counts too as joint foreplay to get your both bodies moving! 

6 Put the clamp on.

With open legs, slowly and properly position the clit clamp above your clitoral hood. Spread some lube over it or your own wetness to make it slippery, avoiding irritation and friction. And when you’re ready, open the clamp to make way for the clit then close it again. Explore different pinching levels and see which fits your mood at the moment.

7 Move at your own pace.

As soon as the clit clamp is on, take your time to adapt to the sensations. And when you do, moan and touch other parts of your body to amplify the experience. If you’re the one who put the clit clamp on your partner, pay attention to their reactions. See which they want more of and less of. Don’t rush this session especially if it’s your first time adding a clit clamp. Let it be the star of the show, understanding how it works best for you.

8 Be mindful of the time!

Unlike most sex toys, using a clit clamp comes with a time limit to ensure the safety of the user. For starters, it’s best for beginners to use clit clamps for up to 10 minutes maximum. And as for experts or those with more experience, they can go as long as 20 minutes max. It’s important to set a decent time limit on your clit clamp play to avoid any long-term discomfort.

9 Remove it safely.

When time’s up, your clit is filled with sensitivity. Hence, you have to be careful and cautious as you unclasp the clit clamp. Do it slowly and monitor your breathing patterns too. Don’t be haste or else you’ll experience oversensitivity or irritation, which can disrupt your playing session.

10 Engage in other sexual or BDSM activities.

As mentioned earlier, a clit clamp is ideal for blended pleasure and orgasms. As you have the clit clamp on, try engaging in breast play or giving head to your partner. Or in BDSM-related activities, add in impact play wherein your partner spanks you on their lap while the clit clamp remains on or even roleplay! The ideas here are endless, so get creative and imaginative!

Clit Clamp Safety Tips To Remember

Safety first before any kind of activity, including sex and BDSM! Read through our list of tips to remember to ensure protected fun all throughout your usage of a clit clamp.

1 Understand that each clitoris is different.

Don’t be fooled by what porn shows or dictates to be a “prettier” or “more pleasing” clit. Often, they like to show a usual pink, puffy clit on camera as the standard one.

However, clitorises come in different appearances and sizes. Some can be a bit more hidden by the clitoral hood, some simply stick out, while others can either be bigger or smaller than a pea. No nub is the same; hence, it’s quite common for some people to not seem to find or please it right.

As the clit owner, it’s beneficial to study yours. Have a handheld mirror and place them in between your legs to catch a better view of what your clit looks like. That way, you’d be more familiar with how to position a clit clamp when it’s time for you to use it. The last time you want is to pinch the wrong area or overpinch it.

2 Adjust the clamp when necessary.

Using a clit clamp requires you to fully listen and be attuned to your body. If you believe that the pinch you set on your clit is too much, you can change the pressure or move the clamp to another part of your clit. The same applies if you believe your clit needs more pressure, wherein you make that pinch a little tighter than the last. But all in safe discretion!

3 Have a safe word.

Playing with a risqué sex toy like a clit clamp can elicit pain as it follows the whole “pleasure is pain” mantra. However, it would be advisable to set a safe word beforehand in case things don’t work out well or if you need to pause and rest your body before trying again. 

You can follow the traffic light system, wherein green is to keep going, yellow is to pause or readjust the clamp, and red is to fully stop the session. Aside from this system, you and your partner can make your distinct safe word to pause and/or end things. It can be watermelon, mango, purple, bunny, and many other words you both can think of.

Set the safe word right away after receiving your sex toy in the mail.

4 Use lube. 

Lube makes any sexual experience more slippery and fluid. That way, you avoid unnecessary friction and irritation on the body part that’ll be stimulated. This tip is extra useful with a clit clamp, wherein applying prior to using it can make the experience more enjoyable and comfortable. It can be tasty too if you’re into flavored kinds of lube! Moreover, we advise using water-based lube for sex toys.

For more info on lube, you can check our personal favorite lubes from the past year here!

5 Know your limits.

A sex toy like a clit clamp can be dangerous if you don’t have proper knowledge of it and if you don’t establish boundaries and limits. Aside from picking up various information on the toy, you must be aware of your pain tolerance, likes, and dislikes regarding the clit clamp. 

6 Clean before and after usage.

Our peak safety tip when using sex toys such as clit clamps! It’s important to clean your clit clamp before and after playing with it to avoid any bacteria interacting with your body, possibly harming you with infection. Cleaning a clit clamp can be done with warm water and soap or a designated sex toy cleaner.

Takeaway

Playing around with a clit clamp works for a lot of people. It can be from beginners to the experienced, and from those who enjoy the more vanilla side of sex to those who like it rough or go full-on BDSM style. What’s important when playing with it is to be familiar with your clitoris, pain tolerance, and limits to ensure overall protected fun.

And with that, we wish you a fun and safe time when playing around with clit clamps!