Thanks to the sex-positive communities, sex educators, and other influential groups, the conversation surrounding sex, pleasure, and love toys is becoming more open. However, there remains a lingering stigma when it comes to men owning sex toys. While people see women owning sex toys as a normal thing due to the orgasm gap, men who own toys are seen as creepy, perverted, or “losers” who can’t get laid. This could be nothing further from the truth, as sex toy usage is a healthy and proactive approach to understanding and enjoying your sexuality. It’s okay to use a stroker, masturbator, fleshlight, prostate massager, cock ring, and other pleasure toys.
That said, for those who are interested in trying out male sex toys such as strokers, we gotchu! This guide will delve into the basic steps of using strokers, play techniques, and tips to enhance your solo plays.
What is a Stroker?
A stroker is a male masturbator that comes with an open-ended design. Strokers can be simple, hand-held devices or elaborate contraptions with vibrating, pulsating, or warming features. It’s typically made with silicone or another stretchy material, ensuring that it can accommodate most penis sizes.
In terms of design, some strokers can resemble anatomical parts like vaginas, but most strokers have an abstract look on them. This is a good thing for most men, as the more abstract a stroker is, the easier it is to store or bring it on their trips.
Benefits of Strokers
Wondering what separates strokers from fleshlights and masturbators? Here are the advantages of choosing a stroker over other options.
1They’re smaller than regular masturbators.
One of the major advantages of strokers is their portable size. Most of them don’t come with a separate plastic case like fleshlights and regular masturbators. Their smaller size makes them discreet, allowing you to conveniently store and take them when traveling. Whether at home or on the go, a stroker can be easily accessible whenever the mood strikes.
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2They’re easier to clean than fleshlights and masturbators.
Another great thing about strokers is they have fewer intricate parts (like separate inner sleeves) compared to masturbators and fleshlights. Some strokers don’t need to be disassembled; wash them in running water with soap or sex toy cleaner, and you’re good to go. So for those who don’t want to spend a lot of time cleaning and running their sex toy, a stroker is definitely a great choice for you.
3They’re versatile.
Most masturbators work in a pretty simple way: you push your penis in and move it back and forth. If the masturbator has a thrusting feature, you’ll just need to keep the toy steady. That’s basically it. While effective, it can get a bit monotonous. Traditional masturbators often can’t just stimulate your penis head or your shaft separately, and they don’t let you control the tightness manually.
Strokers, on the other hand, are way more versatile. Want to focus on just your shaft or just the tip? No problem—move the stroker to your preferred spot. Many strokers are squeezable, so you can easily adjust the tightness to suit your preferences. This makes for a much more personalized and enjoyable experience.
Plus, you can mix things up by using strokers with other toys like cock rings. They’re also great for solo and partnered play, giving you plenty of options to explore and enjoy— we’ll dive into more about partnered play in the next section.
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4You can use it with your partner.
Though a stroker is advertised as a self-pleasure toy, you can actually use this with your partner. For instance, your partner can use the stroker to stimulate your shaft while their mouth is sloppily stimulating the tip of your penis. What a fun idea, right?
How to Use a Stroker
Got yourself a stroker but need help with how to use it? No worries, we’re here to help! Check out the basic steps below and get ready to enjoy.
- Clean your toy with a sex toy cleaner or water and gentle soap. Check the manual to see if it’s waterproof. You can submerge it in water if it has an IPX7 rating or higher. If it’s splashproof, rinse it under running water, but avoid the charging port. If it’s neither waterproof nor splashproof, use a toy cleaner spray or a soapy towel.
- Apply water-based lubricant to your penis. This reduces friction between your skin and the stroker, making the experience more comfortable and pleasurable.
- Gently slide the stroker into your erect penis.
- Move it back and forth or experiment with different stroker play techniques— more details in the next section. If the toy has additional features such as warming or vibrating effects, turn it on for more pleasure.
- Done playing? Remove the stroker, clean it, then keep it in a storage pouch.Â
Stroker Play Techniques
Now that you’ve mastered the basics, let’s dive into some stroking techniques you can try. Remember that different brands offer unique toy designs, so not all techniques may suit your stroker. Don’t be afraid to get creative and experiment with your stroker to discover what feels best.
1Steady Stroke
Let’s start with the basics. For this technique, simply move the stroker back and forth. Begin by placing the device at the tip of your penis, then slide it down to the base. Glide it back up to the tip, and repeat.
2Ohhh-lercoaster
This technique is the same as the previous one but comes with a fun twist— you’ll change the speeds throughout the deed! The unpredictability adds excitement and makes the experience last longer.
While it’s great for solo play, we suggest letting your partner take over. Lie back, relax, and let them surprise you with varying speeds for an extra thrilling time!
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3Squeeze ‘Till Jizz
For this technique, start with the steady stroke method, but gradually tighten your grip on the stroker as you go. The gentle nubs and ridges will provide extra stimulation, making the experience even more intense.
Just a heads up: this only works with strokers that have a squeezable body. If your toy has a plastic casing, you can’t do this one.
4Tip Tease
We highly recommend this method for a stroker with vibrating features, but a non-vibrating one works, too. Place the stroker on your tip, letting the vibrations or your light twisting (for non-vibrating strokers) stimulate your penis.
The head or glans penis, especially the frenulum, is the most sensitive part of your penis, so focusing on this area will feel amazing. Give it a try and see for yourself!
5Stroke & Blow
This technique is for couples; you’ll have to skip this one if you’re flying solo. For the performing partner, slide the stroker along your partner’s shaft, moving it back and forth while leaving the tip untouched.
Meanwhile, use your mouth to stimulate their glans penis or tip. Continue until your partner reaches the big O. It’s straightforward but guaranteed to be an intense, body-shaking experience for your partner.
Stroker Play Tips
So, you’re all set to join the stroker club? Wel-cum aboard, buddy! You’re in for a fantastic time with your new pleasure toy. Before diving into the fun, here are a few tips to remember for the best experience.
1Get your strokers from reputable sex toy stores.
With the current state of our economy, it’s tempting to grab the cheapest stroker you can find online. But let’s be real—sex toys are not something to skimp on.
Sure, there are loads of cheap masturbators and strokers out there, but they’re often made with low-quality materials that aren’t body-safe. The risk of bacterial infections and other health issues isn’t worth it, buddy— treat yourself and your body to something better!
That said, go with reputable sex toy stores that have been in the business for years. You can also check forums and different sex blogs for unbiased reviews. They have a stricter process in sourcing their sex toys, ensuring each device is made with body-safe materials. They also partner with trusted sex toy companies such as Lelo, Womanizer, Lovense, Satisfyer, Svakom, and ROMP.
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2Use a warming lube.
Been using your stroker and want to instantly upgrade your experience? Get yourself a warming lube. As the name implies, they provide heating and tingly sensations that’ll intensify the sensations. Just apply the product on your penis, wait for a few seconds, then use the stroker as usual.
Not only does it emulate the warm feeling of being inside a vagina, but it also adds new sensations to your stroking sessions.
3Deep cleaning is a must.
The thing about strokers, and masturbators in general, is that they come with multiple nubs and ridges, making post-deed clean up a bit more tedious than with other sex toys like cock rings and prostate massagers.Â
After your session, you’ll need to rinse off any residue, apply gentle soap, and thoroughly scrub the stroker to remove fluids trapped in the crevices. Rinse it twice, wipe it with a towel, and then spray it with a sex toy cleaner. Wipe it again, let it air dry for a few minutes, and then store it back.
While it might sound like a lot, the extra effort ensures your toy stays in tip-top shape for future fun. Just check the toy’s manual to see the proper instructions on how to clean your stroker—the instructions above are sample cleanup instructions for non-vibrating strokers.
4Get creative with it!
Regarding stroking techniques, please don’t limit yourself to the methods we’ve shared above. There are countless other methods available in various resources—blogs, short-form videos, long-form videos, and even the manual that comes with your toy. You can also venture into different positions and see what works for you. Feel free to experiment on your own and discover the full potential of your stroker.
Just remember to keep things safe! If you experience intense discomfort or pain, stop immediately and give yourself a break.
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5Don’t overdo it—balance is key.
It’s hella fun to use a stroker, but keep things in moderation. Spending too much time masturbating and watching porn can negatively impact your perception of sex. It may even distract you from productive activities or building meaningful relationships. Masturbate responsibly!
Recomended Strokers
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