5 Thrilling Sex Languages You Should Know About!

So you’ve heard about love languages, but how about sex languages? Yes, they exist!

If someone can speak and understand how you want to be loved, the same could be said about them learning more about how you want to be pleased. And vice versa.

If you’re intrigued to learn about these languages and perhaps figure yours out, then keep reading this short guide!

What is a Sex Language?

A sex language is the way someone prefers to give and receive sex. By understanding one’s sex language, you can strengthen your bond and have more fulfilling sex with one another. It can also create more clarity on one’s sexual interests and preferences.

Dr. Douglas Weiss, the author of the book 5 Sex Languages, made this concept more known to aid couples in the bedroom, avoiding sexual frustration and conflict. And when you’re capable of speaking your partner’s sex language, then you’ll be able to achieve their needs effortlessly.

5 Different Sex Languages

In Dr. Douglas Weiss’s book, he classified the 5 Sex Languages as the following:

1 Fun

This language is for the people who thrive on spontaneity and playfulness. You see the world as your oyster for sex. For one, any place can be a place to have sex as long as you’re cautious of your surroundings. Like sex in their car in the parking lot after watching a movie? That’s hot.

Aside from locations, people with this sex language are open to new, creative ideas to spice things up in the bedroom. Sensation play with ice on your body with scented candles in the air? Count us in.

2 Desire

The whole chase, playing hard to get with someone before they claim you or you claim them? Liking it means having this sex language. Furthermore, they like that they’re wanted and being pursued by someone. The sexual tension that builds up when the person they like is taking their time is also arousing. 

There’s no fun if things are achieved so quickly! Hence, they milk into the chase until they find the right time to strike.

3 Pleasure

If you’re a giver in bed, it’s probably because you have this sex language. 

Moreover, pleasure as a sex language means they’re eager to learn more about what makes their partner feel sexually good and satisfied. From their favorite sex positions, kinks, locations, sensitive spots, and even sex toys, exploring the pleasure of their partner thrills them. In turn, it makes the receiver feel so seen and desired.

4 Patience

Perhaps you’re the type to take your time in the bedroom, slowing things down and cherishing every moment you have with your partner. Well, this sex language is for you.

Moreover, you like maximizing the sexual experience. It’s not just to gain an o’, but really to be one with your partner. It can be through pillow talk, slow makeout sessions, massages, and gentle body caresses. 

You’re also the type to like slow mornings on the weekend, wherein there’s no hustle and bustle to catch up to. Instead, you’re with your partner, catching up for lost time.

5 Acceptance/Celebration

Quite in line with the praise kink if you think about it, having this sex language means you thrive on being appreciated in bed. Not just in terms of sex, having a good body, or being open-minded to all sorts of sexual activities, they value and celebrate every quirk about you. Hence, it makes the sex even more meaningful and heartfelt.

This sex language is even more valuable if you have high sex positivity.

Takeaway

Sex languages exhibit numerous, unique ways to understand someone’s needs and desires during sex. That way, they can respond with the right techniques for their partner and deepen their connection without encountering any unnecessary conflict. But at the same time, remember that communicating your needs and desires is still effective in enhancing your sexcapades.

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