16 Vigorous Oral Sex Tips That’ll Make You Come Loads

Want to amp up your oral sex game? Well, these oral sex tips may be just what you need!

Oral sex is a sexual activity that involves your mouth pleasing the genitalia. It’s also a type of outercourse, meaning that penetration isn’t involved. Oral sex can vary from cunnilingus or “eating pussy” (for vulva owners), fellatio or “blowjob” (for penis owners), and analingus or rimming (anus). 

With this brief review, keep reading this short guide to better your oral pleasure game.

Oral Sex Tips For Vulva Owners

Listen up to those with vulva owners as their partners! This section is for you.

1 Pay lots of attention to the clit.

The clit is the most sensitive part of a vulva owner’s body. Literally called the pleasure nub because that’s its main purpose. Thus, going down on a vulva owner means locating the clit. It varies per vulva owner, so one should be diligent in their search. And when they find it, the easiest way to stimulate it is by lightly flicking it with the tip of your tongue. Think of a kitten licking their water bowl and how gentle and patient they are. That’s the kind of energy you should bring while eating your partner out.

Alongside this, lift the clitoral hood up! For some vulva owners, their clits are hidden by the hood. Pulling it back gently gives you a better view of their puffy nub as you please.

2 Suck their clit!

Flicking and licking are top-tier techniques, but sucking deserves more attention! This oral sex tip can give your partner’s clit some hot and buzzing vibrations that’ll curl their toys into an o’! Plus, it makes the clit as wet as your partner’s folds, especially when they add some tongue into their sucking.

3 Try inserting your tongue.

Some people like such a sensation while being eaten out, even briefly. You can thrust in and out, almost like mild penetration, then resume to keep the tongue action externally. Mixing and matching can definitely spice things up.

Oral Sex Tips For Penis Owners

For those who want to better their head game for the cock-owning partners, keep reading this section on how to learn that.

1 Go for the tip.

Literally a classic oral sex tip, but it always does the job. The tip or head of the penis aka. the glans is filled with nerve endings, making it very sensitive and easily erect upon touch. Hence, make use of your mouth to take it fully and your tongue as well to lick it real good. Especially kitten licks, those can easily get your partner weak at the knees.

2 Satisfy the frenulum.

Cleveland Clinic defines the frenulum as “a band of tissue found where your foreskin (prepuce) intersects with the head (glans) of the underside of your penis.” This body part is very sensitive, so giving attention here can definitely cause a strong reaction to your partner. Think of it as like licking a lollipop.

3 Play around with their testicles.

The testicles are always ideal to be pleased with while giving a blowjob. Cupping and massaging them are bold yet effective techniques in satisfying them as your mouth swirls around their cock.

General Oral Sex Tips

Enhance your overall oral sex game through these crucial tips for guaranteed, maximum fun and pleasure.

1 Use your hands.

This oral sex tip can go a bunch of ways. For those pleasing a penis owner, use your hand while giving them a blowjob. Stroke it up and down while your mouth plays with its tip. Then for those pleasing a vulva owner, 

These kinds of techniques result in a blended orgasm.

2 Be gentle with your tongue.

A lot of oral stimulation requires the tongue, which can often move unhinged if you’re not mindful. As a result, things can feel sloppy and not so good. By being gentle and controlled, you’d be more cautious of how you please someone and more attentive to what they need at the moment. You’d also avoid going overboard and overstimulating them.

3 Get vocal!

Don’t be afraid to make some noise when they make you feel good! Moan, groan, whimper, scream profanities if you have to! One hot thing you can even do is moan their name as they please you.

4 Add sex toys.

Sex toys are a great addition to your oral sexcapade, being able to explore and please your erogenous zones while you go down on someone. If you’re licking your partner’s clit, you can then switch to a clit sucker so you can suck on their boobs. Then if you’re giving them a blowjob, you can add a cock ring around their shaft for those extra vibes!

5 Eat genitalia-friendly food.

Doing this oral sex tip can sweeten your unique taste down there. Healthline highlights eating any of the following foods:

1. Pineapple
2. Papaya
3. Nutmeg
4. Cinnamon
5. Celery

Alongside this, it’s important to be cautious of what you’re eating to avoid a pungent smell and taste. 

6 Try flavored lube.

Sure, your mouth is all wet and ready for action. But adding some lube never hurt anyone; in fact, it makes things more fluid and smooth. Then, with flavored lube specifically, the experience becomes a lot tastier on both ends.

7 Go for the backdoor.

With proper communication in place, playing around the backdoor with your tongue can be a fun adventure. As long as it’s cleaned beforehand, then licking and pleasing it can be just as fun as the other oral sex activities.

8 Utilize your breath.

Aside from your mouth and tongue, your breath is a strong tool in oral sex. The hotness and moistness of it can tease and send them over the edge, especially over their genitalia. 

9 Don’t forget aftercare.

Post-oral sex, don’t just end it as it is by dressing up and walking out. Help each other unwind and relax and even clean up after one another through sexual aftercare. It’s part of being respectful and decent towards one another.

10 Stay protected.

Just like with penetration, you’re still at risk of STDs when you do oral sex. For cunnilingus and analingus, trying a dental dam (an actual one or DIY) acts as a great shield. As for fellatio, putting a condom on can decrease any chances of contracting any viruses.

Takeaway

And that wraps up our short guide on oral sex tips! We hope you enjoyed learning them and even apply these tips in your future oral sexcapades. Always make sure to listen to one another and explore safely.

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