Interested in using sex toys in public but unsure of what toys to get? Whether you go solo or have a significant other, the market is packed with toys designed for discreet outdoor play. To help you explore your options, we’ve compiled a list of the best sex toys for public play, including specific recommendations that we’ve personally tested and are flying off the shelves in our shop.
We’ve divided the toys into two categories: first are the wearable sex toys, which you’ll need to put on before heading out, and second, portable toys that are small and discreet enough to carry and use wherever your erotic adventures take you.
Wearable Sex Toys
As the name suggests, wearable or insertable sex toys are designed to be worn with your underwear and controlled via an app or remote, ensuring discreet public play.
1Panty Vibrator
Panty vibrators come in two types: one is the lay-on or flat shape designed for clitoral stimulation, while the other features an insertable shaft to stimulate the G-spot. They typically come with a magnetic clip to securely attach the toy to your underwear.
To use it, place the toy and clip it in the gusset (the center part) of your panties, wear the underwear, adjust if needed, and control the toy using its designated remote.
Though you wear this toy comfortably with your undies, the vibrations can become more noticeable when sitting in certain types of chairs, like plastic or stainless steel. To avoid awkward moments, it’s a good idea to test the toy at home first and see which chairs amplify the buzzing.
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2Love Egg
Also known as an egg vibrator, a love egg is designed to stimulate the vagina, specifically the g-spot. It has an egg-shaped body with an attached silicone string for easy removal. Most love eggs come with a remote or can be controlled via an app, although some rare models don’t come with a remote function.
Since it’s designed to be inserted in the vagina, you can easily wear it with your undies and use it in public. And unlike lay-on panty vibrators, there’s less risk of the vibrations being amplified since the vibrator doesn’t come into contact with the seat you’re in—it’s literally inside you!
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3Couple Vibrator
Couple vibrators are more known for being a reliable aid for penetrative sex. It has a c-shaped body and is inserted by a female individual to stimulate their g-spot and clitoris, helping her reach orgasm just as quickly as her partner and creating a more satisfying experience for both.
But did you know you can also use it for public play? Although it’s not specifically designed as a panty vibrator, you can easily wear it with your underwear. You or your partner can wear the vibrator while the other takes control, adding a cheeky twist to your date.
This toy’s ability to stimulate two pleasure zones simultaneously makes it extra special. That’s why it’s best to start with gentle vibrations; too much intensity can shorten the delicious build-up of anticipation.
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4Cock Ring
A cock ring (or tension ring) is designed to be worn at the base of the penis, restricting blood flow to help maintain a firmer, longer-lasting erection. Most of the time, they’re made from stretchy materials like medical-grade silicone, but you can find some solid ones made from wood or stainless steel—those are usually for kinkier plays like edging, ruined orgasm, or BDSM.
This toy isn’t usually meant for public play, but some guys enjoy the feeling of restriction while walking around in public. If you’re one of those peeps, apply some water-based lube, slide it onto your flaccid or semi-erect penis, and you’re good to go. Please note that cock rings should only be worn for about 20-30 minutes at a time. Any longer, and you risk not just discomfort but a potential injury to your penis. So, take it off after that time for good measure.
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5Butt Plug
Another favorite sex toy for public play is a butt plug. It’s a cone-shaped toy with a flared base that’s inserted into the anus, but there are variations like the prostate massager, which the toy has more of a segmented body.
Apply water-based or hybrid lubricant to the toy, gently push it on the anus, and then put on your clothes as usual. If it’s a vibrating plug, keep the remote or paired app handy for you or your partner. While experienced users might enjoy longer sessions, it’s best for newbies to start by wearing it for just a few minutes to get comfortable.
What makes this toy perfect for public play is its incredible discretion. The plug gets snugly covered by your butt cheeks, making it hard for anyone to notice, even if it’s vibrating.
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Portable Sex Toys
Let’s now talk about portable toys, which are handy devices that easily fit in your purse. Unlike the previous type, you can’t use them when there are people around, but they’re great when you’re doing them in small and secluded spaces, like your car, a discreet camping spot, and the like.
6Mini Vibrator
If there’s a pageant for discreet vibrators, mini vibrators are definitely getting the crown. They usually come 3-5 inches long and have designs that mimic regular items, like lipstick and makeup brush. It’s also versatile, as it can work for clit, nipple, and penile stimulation. Plus, you can easily play it with a partner since it’s lightweight and not as distracting as other sex toys.
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7Tip Vibrator
Another versatile vibrator that you can use in public is a tip vibrator. Unlike the mini, this one has all the vibrations at the tip. This is great for those who like vibrating-free handles and those who love stimulating small, specific erogenous zones, like the u-spot, labia minora, frenulum, and perineum. It’s also pretty small and lightweight, making it convenient to bring in your bag.
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8Finger Vibrator
If you want something a lot smaller, you should check out finger vibrators. They’re designed like a ring and thimble, often equipped with one control button. Attach it to your finger, turn the toy on, and play it with yourself or your partner. Its design lets you use both of your hands freely, as opposed to the other portable sex toys in this list.
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9Egg Masturbator
Unfortunately for the men reading this guide, there’s a limited assortment of male toys that can be used in public. It’s because most masturbators and fleshlights are pretty big since it comes with a sleeve and a plastic case. You can still bring them if you really want to play them discreetly, but they’re a lot riskier compared to the small vibrators or butt plugs.
However, there’s a type of masturbator that could work for discreet plays, and that is the egg masturbator. This one is as small as an egg, but they’re incredibly stretchy to accommodate most penis sizes. Some are reusable, while some are for single use only.
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Tips
After reading this guide, some of you are probably super excited to try sex toys in public, but before you do just that, please take note of the following tips:
1Choose your location and time wisely.
When it comes to public play, timing, and location are everything. They can affect how risky it is to get caught and how comfortable you and your partner feel during the session.
For the best spots, consider adult-oriented and busy places where people are likely distracted, like bars, nightclubs, concerts, or festivals. These places are loud, and there’s so much going on that nobody would notice your naughty reactions. Not only that, but these places are associated with having some romantic or sexual activities going on, like kissing, cuddling, and so on, so being able to get playful with your S.O. seems more appropriate in this setting.
On the flip side, places like churches, temples, schools, restaurants, cafes, or cemeteries should be off-limits. Some of these locations are incredibly quiet and sacred, while others are inappropriate due to the presence of children.
When it comes to timing, it depends on the location. Some spots are ideal for late-night or early-morning fun, while others might be better during the day—just not during rush hour when there’s a crowd. That said, you and your partner must visit the planned spot beforehand just so you can figure out the best areas and times for some discreet fun.
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2Buy toys from reputable shops and brands.
Public sex is definitely the kind of activity where mistakes need to be kept to a minimum. Any slip-up can lead to awkward situations—or worse, legal trouble.
That’s why you need to get sex toys from well-known and reputable brands like Satisfyer, Lovense, Svakom, We-Vibe, and Lelo. They might be a bit pricier compared to other pleasure devices, but when it comes to sex toys you’re using in public, quality matters.
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3Try the remote or app-controlled sex toys at home first.
If you want to avoid any mishaps from happening in your public sesh, make sure to do a “test drive” first.
For instance, if you’re using a wearable panty vibrator or love egg, wear the toy just like you would outside, then have you or your partner control the app or remote. Try it out in different spots around the house and check if you can hear the vibrations. If the buzz is still noticeable even when there’s ambient sound, you may need to opt for another wearable vibrator, or you might end up putting other people in an awkward situation.
You should also sit in various types of chairs—sofas, wooden chairs, stools—to see how discreet the vibrations are. This will help you feel more confident when you step out.
4Be considerate with other people; keep it lowkey!
You need to be considerate of your surroundings and other people. Everyone has their own fantasies and kinks, and if wearing an insertable vibrator in public is yours, there’s no judgment in that.
But you shouldn’t make others feel awkward or uncomfortable for the sake of fulfilling your sexual desires. So keep things low-key during public sessions— no loud moans, excessive touching, or inappropriate behavior.
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5Not feeling it? Don’t pressure yourself.
As people become more open to sexual wellness, it feels like everyone’s eager to try new things in the bedroom to keep things exciting.
But here’s the thing: if you’re not comfortable with certain activities, like using sex toys in public, you don’t have to force yourself. There’s no shame in sticking to what feels right for you—what matters most is that you and your partner are completely comfortable with whatever you’re doing.
Get Discreet Sex Toys at Lauvette!
As we’ve reached the end of this guide, we hope that you’ve taken notes not just on the recommended sex toys but also on the safety tips when engaging in public fun.
And for those interested in getting some app-controlled, remote-controlled, or portable love toys to kickstart their public plays, there’s a trove of toys waiting for you on this page— our shop ensures discreet packaging, secure shipping, and reliable customer service.
