10 Clear Signs That You Found Your Sexual Soulmate

A sexual soulmate is someone with whom you feel deeply connected to on a sexual level. The more you spend time with them sexually, the more special they become to you. They simply have a strong impact on you when it comes to sex and intimacy, and it’s inviting and safe to welcome into your life.

If you want to know more signs related to this type of soulmate, you may want to keep reading. Because there may be a chance that you’ve already met them or you can already have a clearer idea of what to expect in the future.

1 You’re sexually compatible with each other.

This first sign is important! You need strong sexual compatibility to achieve sexual satisfaction. Such compatibility means you share mutual interests and knowing what you both need in the bedroom. It can be verbal through communication or non-verbal based on body language. Moreover, you’re both also in sync with one another in the bedroom. If one wants it slow, the other can follow that pace.

2 You feel safe and comfortable around them.

Sex is a vulnerable activity, may it be with a one night stand or a long-term partner. You’re exposing yourself to them, having no control over how they react even if they reassure you and all. But with your sexual soulmate, they’re like a breath of fresh air that releases any stress and tension over your mind and body. You just know that they have your back and vice versa.

You also know that if you want something, they’ll give it to you. For example, you need a break mid-sex, they’ll pause until you’re ready to go again. Or if you need water to re-energize, they’ll gladly give you a glass. Overall, you can put your full trust in them.

Furthermore, any nerves or anxieties related to sex or your body can vanish instantly the moment your clothes are off and you’re kissing. You can be authentic without trying to please people or tweak your personality.

3 You respect each other.

You treat each other as equals, valuing each other’s sexual interests and preferences. You hear each other out when you want to make changes, never taking them negatively. The respect can extend until the aftercare stage, which is important because it shows that you honor each other’s time and presence.

4 You can make it through any hangout without being touchy.

With a sexual soulmate, you can freely spend time with one another without the urge to rip their clothes off. You’re both aware that there’s a place and time for everything and that your unique bond goes beyond the bedroom.

5 You praise and compliment one another.

As you do the deed, your sexual soulmate will praise you right away if something feels good. That way, you feel more driven and motivated to please you even more. For example, they liked the way you pinched your nipples as you thrust inside you with their penis or strap-on because it made them moan and convulse more. 

You can even get them riled up when you compliment them with words like sexy, handsome, pretty, and more affirming adjectives.

6 You’re easily turned on around them.

Even the lightest graze of their fingers on your arms as your sexual soulmate hugs you from behind can send you reeling! Aside from the physical aspect, their words towards you (especially suggestive compliments) can make you melt and aroused in no time.

7 There’s nothing to be fake about.

From orgasms to certain types of kinks, you can be honest and real with your sexual soulmate. If something isn’t working out, you’d let them know, and vice versa. As a result, you two would use those words to improve and further enhance your future sexcapades.

8 You’re patient with each other.

If one wants to be a receiver first, the other is willing to wait their turn and give them the pleasure they crave for. There’s also no rush to switch roles; quality over quantity with your sexual soulmates wins every time.

9 The sex always gets better.

Combining the two previous points together, every sexcapade you have is always unique and magical on its own. It makes you anticipate doing the deed whenever the opportunity arises because you’re excited to make more good memories and have a good time.

10 Even other people can sense your chemistry and bond.

When you and your sexual soulmate are together, people can observe the way you act around one another. And how smitten you are with them. As a result, they can compliment you two on what you share because it’s something beautiful, healthy, and strong.

Takeaway

Having a sexual soulmate means that you have a secure and healthy bond with someone in terms of sex and intimacy. You’re able to be yourself around, ensuring safety and comfort. At the same time, you share mutual interests and are open to exploring various other sexual activities. Just make sure to value protection, communication, and your individual boundaries for safe fun!

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