Paddle
A Paddle is a flat surface made from leather or wood that you commonly use to hit the sub’s body. You use this to discipline the sub when they refuse to be obedient. As a sub, you’re expected to obey the commands of your dom. There are established rules agreed upon before the play. Subs follow the rules and commands. Failure to do so is meted with punishments.
To carry out the consequence of disobedience, this is one of the BDSM tools used. Spanking can go from light to intense depending on the severity of the mistake or whatever threshold the sub can take.
They used for spanking are available in a variety of types, designs, and materials. Aside from that, not all of these items are created equal in terms of function. Some can give you light and stingy hits. Others can give you thuddy blows. That’s why it’s vital to talk with your sub first before buying a this item. They’re the ones that’ll be hit by the paddle, so they have to be involved in the decision-making. Talk about their pain threshold and the material and design they prefer for the play.
- What is a paddle in BDSM?A Paddle is a flat surface made from leather or wood that you commonly use to hit the sub’s body. You use this to discipline the sub when they refuse to be obedient.
- What are the types of this item?There are two main types of paddle. The first one is the straight paddle. It’s basically the one that you’re most familiar with. It’s sleek, straight, and usually has some novelty accessories in it, such as studs. The next type is the slapper. It’s designed to have two paddles that are put together in layers. When you spank someone with this type, the top layer will slap the bottom layer, creating more impact on the overall slap.
- How to clean this item?Unlike other BDSM toys, they are relatively easy to clean. All you need to do is wipe your paddle with a damp towel with soap in it, wipe it with a dry towel, then let it air dry for a bit. You can also use a sex toy cleaner for a more convenient cleaning process.