Saw an interesting sex toy while passively watching Fifty Shades of Grey? Planning to engage in BDSM and using the said trilogy for inspo? We gotchu! This guide will list down all of the sex toys featured in the Fifty Shades trilogy.
Wait, What is “Fifty Shades” Again?
You probably have an idea of what we’re talking about, but if you happen to stumble upon this guide in our blog and have no idea about these films, here’s a quick rundown:
The Fifty Shades Trilogy is a series of films adapted from erotic romance novels by author E.L. James. It consists of Fifty Shades of Grey (2015, directed by Sam Taylor-Johnson), Fifty Shades Darker (2017, directed by James Foley), and Fifty Shades Freed (2018, directed by James Foley).
The story revolves around Anastasia “Ana” Steele, a literature student, and Christian Grey, an incredibly wealthy businessman with a traumatic past. They have an intense yet tumultuous relationship due to Christian’s preference for BDSM, delving into themes of control, commitment, and emotional vulnerability.
Though the Fifty Shades trilogy has earned a reputation for being problematic, subpar, and inaccurate to the realities of BDSM, there’s no denying that it has garnered a lot of interest in the BDSM community. It became so mainstream that it hard-launched the two leads (Jamie Dornan and Dakota Johnson) to stardom.
If the movie has been your introduction to BDSM, we’re not here to judge! However, we would love for you to check the following guides first to understand what this kink truly means.
- What is BDSM
- Psychology Behind BDSM
- Soft BDSM
- Ways to Have Submissive Sex
- BDSM Equipment
- Best Beginner Bondage Set & BDSM Toys
Sex Toys Used in Fifty Shades Trilogy
Now that we’ve talked about the trilogy, let’s dive into the sex toys featured in the Fifty Shades movies. Throughout the series, there are some fun kinky tools and accessories shown in some of its most sizzling scenes.
However, the specific brands of sex toys weren’t featured in the show. Don’t worry! We’ve got alternatives just in case you would want to buy these BDSM toys, including products from the Official Fifty Shades of Grey Collection (E.L. James-approved!)
1Blindfold or Eye Mask
One of the notable things Christian does during his sensual play with Ana is to cover her eyes with whatever is available, whether it’s an eye mask or her shirt. This builds anticipation, as Ana has no idea where his hands or lips will go next.
Now, you can always go the Christian Grey route and use a random piece of garment as a blindfold, but for a better experience, we highly recommend using BDSM blindfolds. These are designed like regular blindfolds but are often made with luxurious materials like silk or leather, giving them a sensual vibe. Plus, they come with a stretchable strap at the back, ensuring a secure and comfortable fit.
2Ben Wa Balls
Even if you haven’t seen Fifty Shades Darker, you probably heard about the infamous “ben wa balls” scene.
Christian and Ana stood before the mirror, their gazes locked in a shared moment of intimacy. “Tonight might be more stimulating if you wore these…” he whispered, reaching into his pocket and taking out a set of gleaming Ben Wa balls, holding them up for Ana to see.
He then asked her to wet the Ben Wa balls by inserting them into her mouth—quite frankly, we don’t recommend this approach. Not only is it unhygienic, but saliva isn’t effective in providing additional lubrication; consider using water-based or silicone-based lube instead.
Going back to the scene, Ana was hesitant to try the balls at first since she assumed it was inserted in the butt, but eventually caved in since Christian assured her that it was for the vagina. She would then enjoy wearing these balls as they attended the masquerade ball.
Now, Ben Wa balls are indeed quite stimulating when used vaginally, but pleasure isn’t their primary purpose. These sexual wellness tools are designed mainly to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, preventing urinary incontinence and other conditions caused by weak pelvic floor muscles— it’s like weights but for the vagina. Depending on the model, they may come with deep vibrations, toning down your pelvic floor muscles and stimulating your G-spot— it’s like having two sex toys for the price of one!
3Butt Plug
There’s another scene where Ana is exploring Christian’s playroom, and she spots a set of glass-made butt plugs. Her immediate reaction is a firm “Hell no…” And honestly, we get it. Butt plugs aren’t for the faint of heart. The anal opening can be quite tight, and unlike the vagina, it doesn’t self-lubricate. It takes courage and preparation to venture into this type of play.
But for those who are ready to explore anal play or have already experienced rimming or anal fingering, we highly recommend trying out butt plugs. This egg- or spade-shaped toy is designed with three essential components:
- Body – The part inserted into your anus.
- Neck – Connects the body to the base.
- Base – Prevents the plug from going all the way through your anus.
Most people use this toy because it provides a “fuller” feeling, which can enhance pleasure, especially when used during vaginal penetration. However, some people simply enjoy the sensation of having something in their butt. Additionally, there are butt plug models with built-in vibrations, offering even more stimulation for an intensified experience.
4BDSM Rope
Another Fifty Shades staple, BDSM rope is specifically designed for the dominant to restrain their submissive, amplifying the tension and power exchange during the session. Once the submissive is all tied up, it’s up to the dom to decide what to do with the sub’s body.
Contrary to popular belief, not all ropes are suitable for BDSM play. Ropes from hardware stores can be too harsh on the skin and may cause injuries during the session. We recommend purchasing ropes from sex toy stores, as they offer products specifically made for kinky play.
Aside from getting ropes from sex toy shops, it’s important to note that rope bondage is better suited for seasoned users. Experienced partners are familiar with the preferred tightness and the basics of restraint play. If you’re new to this, consider starting with handcuffs instead—more on that in the next section.
5Handcuffs
Another staple in the trilogy is handcuffs. They even make an appearance in a non-sexual scene in the third film: When police officers realize they’ve forgotten their handcuffs while trying to secure a suspect (redacted to avoid spoilers), Ana casually mentions that they have some but quickly stops herself, realizing how awkward it sounds— it caused some chuckles in the cinema.
Made from various materials such as metal, leather, velcro, faux fur, or padded fabrics, handcuffs are designed to worn in your wrists to restrain your mobility. What makes them more beginner-friendly than ropes is that they come with quick-release features or easy-to-remove straps. So, in case of an emergency, you can easily untie your submissive. You can also easily adjust the tightness of the rope, ensuring your sub’s comfort and safety.
6Whip
Whether you’ve seen the first film or not, you’ve probably stumbled upon the classic “whip” scene in the movie. Ana found herself in a classic submissive position, gazing at the wall while Christian busily prepared his “tools.” He then instructed her to hold out her hand. After that, he seductively traced a crop whip across Ana’s shoulders before lightly striking that hand.
Now, if you’re interested in rekindling that scene’s intensity or want to try consensual spanking with your partner for some kinky fun, consider getting yourself a BDSM whip.
Aside from the crop whip shown in the mentioned scene, whips come in flogger and bullwhip forms. In fact, floggers were introduced in the scene where Ana explored the playroom. She noticed a whip with tassel-like strands at the end. Christian then explained that those are called “floggers.”
Whips serve as a primary tool for spanking the submissive’s body, often used as a form of punishment in BDSM play. Typically featuring a slender handle and flat or tassel-like strands at the end, they’re considered one of the classic must-have BDSM toys, offering a wide range of sensory stimulation. From gentle teasing to more intense sensations, a whip can definitely add an electrifying element to your play session.
For dominants planning to incorporate a whip into their next kinky encounter, it’s essential to familiarize yourself with the Impact Play Safe Zones; these are areas of the body that are safe for spanking, as they’re protected by fat or muscle, such as buttocks and thighs. On the other hand, avoid spanking your submissive’s unsafe zones, such as the neck, calves, ears, and head. These areas aren’t protected, so whipping them can cause serious harm.
7Restraints
Restraints are a big deal in the Fifty Shades trilogy. Remember how Christian always had Ana tied up in different ways? Ankles, wrists, neck—you name it, he had a cuff for it. They might have different names, but they all fall under the “BDSM restraint” category.
These kinky sex toy keeps someone in a certain position, whether it’s bending over, getting into a hogtie position, or spreading eagle. Some are customizable for different poses, while others are more specific.
8Tickler
If whips aren’t your thing, but you still want to dive into the kinky world of Fifty Shades, consider starting with a tickler. Featuring a slender handle, it ends with a feather or faux fur instead of a flat crop or sleek strands. As the name suggests, a tickler is designed to provide ticklish and tingling sensations across the submissive’s body, adding a playful element to BDSM sessions.
9BDSM Spreader Bar
In Fifty Shades Darker, there’s a sizzling moment where Christian ties Ana to a spreader bar right before things heat up. The way Ana gasps when Christian unpredictably widens the bar certainly made hearts race.
However, this specific BDSM toy gets even more creative use in another BDSM-themed film, Secretary, starring Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader. In the opening scene, Lee (played by Gyllenhaal) is seen wearing a spreader bar on her wrists while performing mundane office tasks like stapling documents and making coffee. It’s unique, fun, and sets the tone for the rest of the film.
Now, a spreader bar is a sex toy that comes with two cuffs that are tied on an adjustable stainless steel bar. Once the submissive has worn the cuffs, the dominant can adjust the width of the bar, making the sub get into a vulnerable “spread out” position. You and your partner can explore various sexual activities with it, or you can have the submissive wear it while you “punish” them. Just get creative and enjoy the added dimension it brings to your play.
10Stimulants
In another Fifty Shades Darker scene, Christian pours something all over the restrained and blindfolded Ana, making her moan as the liquid touches her skin. While it’s never explicitly stated what he uses, our best guess is a warming or tingling stimulant.
For those wondering what a stimulant is, it’s a gel, cream, spray, or oil that provides cooling, warming, or tingling effects on the skin or genitals. Depending on the product, it can enhance sensitivity or prolong an erection. What’s great about stimulants is that both vanilla and kinky couples can easily incorporate them into their sexual play. Just pick a stimulant that aligns with both partners’ preferences and sexual activities, and you’re all set!
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And that wraps up our rundown of the sex toys featured in the Fifty Shades Trilogy. We hope you found something that you and your partner would enjoy exploring together. If you’re interested in diving deeper into the world of BDSM, there are plenty of other exciting toys to discover. From mouth gags and sex swings to paddles and more, there’s a whole array of options waiting for you.
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