Why Do I Have A Small Penis?

Dear Dr. Sex,

I am a 23-year old virgin male. It was when I was 16 and fooling around with some of my friends that I discovered I have a small dick. It is about 1 ½ inch when it’s flaccid and only 3 inches when hard. Since I was still young that time, I thought it will still grow longer and larger. But even at 23 years old, it didn’t change. My penis size has affected me mentally and emotionally. I can’t date girls because I’m afraid they will laugh at me when they find out about my small penis. I tried everything from pills to eating foods that supposedly would make my dick bigger. Nothing has changed. Please help me. I don’t know what to do anymore. Why is my penis so small? What can I do about it? I’m so depressed because of it.

Yours,

A

Dear A,

First of all, your feelings are totally valid. Many guys who have penises on the smaller end are reporting bouts of depression and anxiety. So, I want you to know that you are not alone in that. I know it’s hard to believe but your penis has nothing to do with who you are as a person or as a man. The size of your penis depends on your genes, just like the size of your hands, feet, and eye color.

The sad reality is that we can’t really do anything to change the size of your penis. There are so many rumors about making it bigger but that’s all they are. Rumors. Nothing more.  You can’t increase the size of your member.

Despite what you may hear, no exercise, pill, lotion, equipment or diet has been proven to increase the size of your penis.

If you’re afraid to date women because you’re embarrassed about the size of your dick, don’t worry. Not all women are turned on by a large penis. In fact, some are even scared of it. And I know you can’t go around asking women if they’re terrified of a large dick. So what I will suggest is for you is instead of focusing and worrying about your dick size, focus on learning how to be better in bed. There are lots of things you can do in the bedroom that could satisfy your partner. Most women don’t achieve orgasm through penetration alone. Improve your oral and fingering skills.  You can also try to experiment with anal sex. The anus is a lot tighter than the vagina. With this in mind, a small dick is more of an advantage when going through the backdoor.

There are also a variety of sex toys available in the market now. Vibrators, Dildos, strap-ons. The list goes on. You have so many toys to choose from. Plus, there are lots of sex tips to improve your bedroom skills even with a small penis. In fact, you can read 9 Ways You Can Have Fun with a Small Dick  for more detailed answers.

There are just so many things that you can do. A small dick isn’t the end of the world, A. I hope you realize that.

Yours,

Dr. Sex