May Mabahong Discharge si GF. Paano ko Sasabihin?

Dear Tita,

I am in a relationship with (M26) my gf (F25) for about 9 months now. Pagdating sa sex, hilig ko talaga kainin yung gf ko, and nasasarapan rin naman si gf. Kaya lang may isyu. nung una di ko pinapansin kaso kapansin pansin n tlaga. Naiilang na ako sa mabahong discharge niya.

Hindi naman ako nag-expect ng walang amoy o amoy bulaklak, tsaka may karanasan rin naman ako dati sa ibang gf kaya alam ko naman yung amoy, pero yung kanya matapang eh. Nahihiya naman akong sabihin sa kanya kasi baka she may get offended. Ano p pwede gawin o sabihin? Salamat!

– Milo

Dear Milo,

Hi Milo, thanks for dropping by our inquiry page! 👋 You’re the first ka-tsaa ko, hopefully I can help you out. 🍵 I would love to know more details, pero here are my thoughts on the matter based on initial info you’ve given me.

First and foremost, vulvas and vaginas are supposed to have mild odor in them, pero if distracting na talaga ang amoy, you can start muna with asking her to shower with you before the deed.

Meron kasi healthy bacteria na bahagi ng ating microbiome sa vagina, tapos meron ring sweat glands sa vulva, which is the outer part of the female genitalia. Kung ang girlfriend mo ay madalas pawisin, naku, maaaring mas intense ang amoy niya paminsan-minsan. 😩

Kapag inaya mo siya maligo, no need to address agad yung concerns mo about sa mabahong discharge, kasi baka naman kailangan lang hugasan ang vulva niya.

Pag napansin mo na wala na ang strong smell, encourage her in having pre-game showers or tell her how you love eating her out kapag bagong hugas siya. You can even eat her out during the shower— wala na yung strong smell, tapos nag-enjoy pa siya lalo. Besides, mas magaan kaya ang sex kung pareho kayong malinis at fresh ang feeling. ❤️

Kung nasubukan mo na ito at talagang hindi nawala yung strong odor. It’s time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with her. You’ve probably heard this numerous times, but communication is key talaga. When telling her about the issue, focus on your concern about her sexual health instead of saying how distracting the smell is. Be as gentle and supportive as possible, and let her know you’re coming from a place of care.

Pwede mong sabihin na you’ve noticed something different and baka kailangan niya kumonsulta sa doktor. Mahalaga rin kasi talaga na malaman niya ang mga possible reasons kung bakit strong ang vaginal odor niya. Maaaring ito ay senyales ng infection tulad ng bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection, o sexually transmitted infections. In some cases, dulot rin ito ng hormonal changes. Kaya’t importante na magpa-check sa doktor upang malaman ang root cause at mabigyan ng appropriate treatment.

I understand na you’re hesitant to do it because the conversation is gonna be awkward, but think of it as a good opportunity to practice open communication with her. Parte talaga ng relasyon ang uncomfortable conversations, but having convos like this help you move forward in the relationship and learn more about your partner.

Sana maging maayos ang lahat para sa inyong dalawa. Stay safe and take care! ✨

Lovelots,
Tita

Note: This article has tweaked names and details to protect everyone’s privacy. Also, my advice is not a substitute for professional help. Please talk to specialists for more specific cases. Mwa! – Tita