Finally, you’re entering the world of sex toys as a beginner. We’ve all been patiently waiting for you to come to the dark side *evil laughter*. Whatever it is that got you jumping down the rabbit hole, you’re very much welcome to join our empowered group of women. It may be because of your friend’s review of our vibrators. Or maybe it’s because you got curious of our Facebook page. Whatever it is, we aren’t shy about expressing our self-love and we take charge of our orgasms! Yes, girl. In short, we rock.
We know you can’t wait to buy your first love toy. But don’t jump the gun just yet. There’s just waaayyy too many love toys in our sex toy shop—from vibrators, kegel balls, massagers to suckers and glass dildo—that it’s easy to get overwhelmed. For beginners, it’s best to take your time in choosing your first sex toy. As they say, first impressions last. We want to make sure your first-time experience with sex toys in bed is totally worth all the hype you’ve been hearing about.
If you’re feeling nervous or excited or both, that’s totally fine. Even strong independent women shake at the face of unknown territory sometimes. Look, there’s no shame if you’re feeling anxious. We get where you’re coming from. We’ve been beginners before too and we understand you got a few concerns. As such, it is with the greatest of pleasure that we’re going to help you address some of those concerns of yours and help you pick the right sex toy for beginners like you.
Pack on some lube
Lube is like the ice cream on your halo-halo. It just makes everything so much better in bed. If you’re a newbie to love toys, we definitely recommend that you get yourself a good quality lube. It’s especially useful if you’re someone who experiences vaginal dryness. And if you’re into butt stuff, remember that the anus doesn’t produce its own lubrication, so lathering lube on your backdoor definitely make things slide in so much easier.
Here are our recommendations:
The Lux Silk Lube has a neutral flavor so if you prefer scentless and unflavored lubrication, this one is just the right fit for you. It makes way for a slicker insertion, letting you slip your love toys in and out of yourself without hitching or irritating your skin. If your partner is wearing a condom, you don’t have to worry about damaging its material because the Lux Silk Lube’s formula is gentle even on condoms.
A multi-purpose lube, the Strawberry Shortcake Lube provides you with that slippery feeling without being sticky. You can use it revitalize your dry leather-made sex toys and latex-made clothing. You can use it for your sensual massages. Rub it all over your body and let your sex toy glide all over you. What’s really cool about the Strawberry Shortcake Lube is that it’s a strawberry-flavored lube which means you get that boost of fruity flavor in your sexual plays.
To up your lube game, get the Midnight Touch Massage Oil for deluxe lubrication. Unlike the other two lubes previously mentioned, the Midnight Touch Massage Oil is first and foremost used as a massage oil. It’s 100% natural and organic with a sweet scent of ylang-ylang. It is made from the perfect blend of pure grapeseed oil, sandalwood oil, rosa rugosa flower oil, ylang-ylang flower oil, and mixed with the healthy benefits of tocopheryl acetate. Its formula is very gentle that you can use it on your genitals to serve as lubrication.
Time for some good vibes
Vibrators are up there when it comes to most popular sex toys for women. How can they not be? These bad boys are compact, mobile, and our favorite part—they vibrate. They’re also very versatile. You can use them for solo masturbation and also for foreplay and double penetration during couple plays. They may come with different vibration patterns, speed, remote control, and even temperature control.
Here are our recommendations:
It’s a suuuuper adorable vibrator in the shape of a duck. As a beginner, it’s important that you feel comfortable using your new sex toys. And that’s what makes the Ducky Vibrator highly recommended for newbies. You’re going to fall in love with its charming design. Its pink color and pointy beak make it very non-threatening and attractive toy for first-time users. And it’s not just cute to look at, it also has 8 powerful speed that you can easily switch from.
• Emma Vibrator
Emma Vibrator is another sex toy that’s great for beginners. It has a clean and sleek design that gives it a classy look. And its hot pink color just adds to its beauty. The creators of Emma Vibrator also thought of putting ridges on its shaft so you get that extra texture when your vaginal muscles are being massaged. Its operations are very straightforward so you can easily navigate through its different vibrations.
When it comes to aesthetics, the Pastel Bunny Vibrator is a sure winner. It’s in the shape of a beautifully-crafted rabbit with cute long bunny ears. And its color is a pretty pastel pink. Just looking at the toy is already a treat in itself, it’s just that cute! To make it even more of a knockout, it has remote control functions which means you can play with it even if you’re on the other side of the room. You can give the remote to your partner and let him switch through the different intensities.
Clit suckers for the virgins out there
So you’ve never had sex before. But the adventurous soul in you wants to try out love toys. The thing is, you’re scared of breaking your hymen. If that’s the issue you’re most scared about, then we’re telling you right now to set aside your fears. Because there are actually love toys that you can use without having to insert inside your vagina. And they’re just as great as your classic vibrators. These toys are commonly called clit suckers. Their job is to stimulate your clitoris till you orgasm so hard you forget your name.
Here’s what we recommend:
The Bratty Princess Sucker also has that hot pink color that’s easy on the eyes. It’s also very user-friendly. It has a powerful suction technology that can have you singing praises. It feels like you’re getting an oral as its small opening on its head delivers you 5 different twirling sucking waves of pressure. And to give you the experience of your classic vibrations, the Bratty Princess has 10 different vibration functions you can choose from.
Wand Massagers that get you sore and throbbing
Wand massagers give your intimate parts the sensual massages you deserve after a hard day from work. They’re used externally so just like the clit suckers, if you’re concerned about your hymen breaking, wand massages are the toys for you. You can use them for solo masturbation and as part of your foreplay during couple plays. They can be battery-operated or rechargeable.
Here’s what we recommend:
With its mint green color and compact build, the Yoga Wand Massager just spells out luxury in its form. Beginners are going to love it not just for its aesthetics but also for its very flexible body. Its head can be bent to help you easily reach your sensitive spots and to accommodate the curves of your womanhood. It also has a whirlwind-shaped ridge on its head to serve as added texture when the wand massager is doing its job.
Again, if you’re a beginner, the aesthetics of the sex toy has a big impact on you. The Aphrodite Massager is just the toy for you if the design is what you’re going for. But aside from its suave built, it also has 10 kinds of different vibrations to give you deluxe sensual massages. It’s made from silicone + ABS so you can be sure that it’s going to be soft and gentle on your skin. Plus, it’s gonna be very easy to clean!
Realistic dildos—for close to the real thing experience
For some beginners, they’re more comfortable with using sex toys that closely resemble the familiar appearance of a real penis. Realistic dildos are just what you need if that’s what you’re into. These toys are painstakingly designed to mimic the shape and feel of a penis to make sure that the user gets the experience she wants out of the toy.
Here’s what we recommend:
As a beginner in sex toys, you may wanna start with something not too big or too small. The Bid Dick Energy Dildo is a 6.6 inches love toy that comes with a tapered end for delicious G-spot stimulation and veins protruding out of its shaft. It has balls that you can bounce up and down with and a suction cup that you can stick on any smooth surface if you want to go hands-free.
Kimi Dildo looks like a penis—with veins and tapered end—but with an added twist. It also functions as a vibrator so you get to be pampered by a love toy that not only looks like a dick but also has several vibrating options.
These are the sex toys we highly recommend for beginners like you. But in case there’s a specific concern you want us to help you with when choosing your love toy, don’t hesitate to shoot us a comment down below and we will get to you right away!