How to Use a Double Ended Dildo (Go for Dual Pleasure!)

With so many dildos available in the market, many sex toy companies are beginning to up their game by giving birth to the out-of-the-box dildos, such as the double ended dildo.

Unlike most dildos, double ended dildos can be used in many ways. You can use them in lesbian sex, heterosexual sex, and even solo play. They can please you in any way possible. They’re big, long, and sexy. Plus, they feel fantastic!

It’s no surprise that many people are trying out double ended dildos to spice up their bedroom play. Learn more about this unique and versatile sex toy here!

What is a Double Ended Dildo?

A Double Ended Dildo is called by many names—double-sided, double-headed, double dildos. But whichever term you prefer, they are one of the most incredible types of dildos ever invented. It has a long shaft of smooth, sturdy rubber with a molded head at both sides for penetration. It is flexible and can be bent to fit you most comfortably.

As we’ve mentioned earlier, double ended dildos can be incorporated into various types of plays. You can use it whatever your relationship status or sexual orientation is. It can also be easily mixed with vaginal or anal sex. Aside from its versatility, most double dildos come in stunning designs with flesh-like textures— a must-have in your sex toy collection!

Factors to Consider When Buying a Double Ended Dildo

Before discussing how to use a double ended dildo, let’s talk about what you should check when buying this love toy.

As we’ve said, there are many kinds of double ended dildos available in the market. So how are you going to decide and choose the best double ended dildo for you? We’ve compiled a list of criteria to make things easier for you. With this list, making the right choice will be easier than you think.

1Size

Going huge is a thrilling thought indeed, but you shouldn’t underestimate the length and thickness of these toys. They can be much bigger than what you can handle. You might not be able to use your double ended dildo if they prove to be too much for you.

With that, it’s essential to check the size. Consider what you like in dildos. Do you like the experience of fullness and getting stretched? If you don’t, choose something smaller. Then you can move your way up from there.

2Design

It’s up to you to decide which design fancy your interest. Maybe you would like to use a double ended dildo made of glass… Or perhaps you want one of those intriguing dildos that are fists on both ends.

Whatever you decide, it’s all a matter of personal preference. Many women prefer a more realistic dildo too. Imagine two lifelike dicks in one toy? That sounds like an adventure anyone would like to try. Be careful with what you choose and make sure you like what you pick. The overall design of the dildo plays a considerable part in foreplay and arousal, so choose wisely!

3Material

Never ever forget taking note of this one, hun. It’s essential that your double-ended dildo material is made with a body-safe material and doesn’t contain the following: phthalates, jelly rubber, PVC, and vinyl. These mentioned materials are toxic and can be absorbed into the body’s mucous membranes, causing headaches, cramps, nausea, and other alarming side effects. Not only that, long-term use of toxic sex toys can jeopardize your overall health.

Aside from checking the things that shouldn’t be in your double-ended dildo, it’s also essential to note the suitable materials that should be included in your love toy.

If you use a double ended dildo that’s made with body-safe silicone, you’re on the right track. This material is non-toxic and non-porous. This means that once you’ve sanitized your love toy, bacteria wouldn’t have the chance to thrive in there. On the other hand, if your toy is porous, no matter how much you clean your love toy, bacteria and fungi can still stay in there.

4Budget

Let’s be real here… As much as we’d like to get the best double ended dildo money can buy. It will still depend on your budget. Purchase something that you have the budget for, don’t be too extravagant with it. Yes, treat yourself, but you have to treat yourself responsibly.

Getting a double ended dildo is an investment into your personal well being and happiness. Don’t go in too cheap, as cheap toys are guaranteed to smell horrible and break quickly. Plus, you’re also not sure if the material will be safe.

Try to get a double-ended dildo in the medium range as they bring good quality without costing a ton. If you want to get something more advanced and high-end, you can always go up in value, but if you don’t really need the extra features, stick with what you can afford.

How to Use a Double Ended Dildo

Now that you’re fully aware of what a double ended dildo is, as well as the factors when picking one, let’s head over to the main topic of this guide. Here are five easy steps on how to use a double ended dildo.

1Find the dildo that works for you.

There are so many kinds of double ended dildos to choose from. You can double ended dildos that are shaped like fists on each end. They come in countless shapes, sizes, and colors. They don’t have to be used with a partner only. You can also use double ended dildos on yourself. You just have to bend them the right way. Check the previous section to learn the vital factors when purchasing your own double ended dildo.

2Set the mood.

If you really want to use your double ended dildo with ease, it’s essential to set the mood. Light some scented candles, indulge in erotic films, listen to audio erotica, give yourself or your partner a sensual massage— go with something that works for you.

By setting the mood, you’re not just bringing yourself (or your partner) to arousal. You’re also warming and relaxing your body on what’s about to come. This will prevent unnecessary discomfort during the deed.

3Use an ample amount of water-based lube!

It’s important to moisten each end of your dildo with water-based lube to make penetration as comfortable and enjoyable as possible. Emphasis on the term “water-based” using other types, such as silicone-based and oil-based, can either harm your body or damage your dildo.

4Go for the perfect position.

Try different positions when you’re using a double ended dildo. You might like to try having both of you kneeling on all fours and backing onto each end of the dildo, one at a time, so you can take the dildo at your own pace.

Or you can sit facing each other than bring yourself onto a semi ‘crab’ position with your hands and feet. Then, slide the toy between you and insert it slowly. With this position, you can enjoy the full length of the dildo as you thrust forwards and backward and still maintain eye contact.

5Insert the dildo.

If you’re flying solo, get a double ended dildo that’s flexible so it’s easier to use. They may be wobbly at first, but if you bend and twist it, it’ll become firmer, and you can use it on your vagina and anus. If you’re a beginner with anal toys, choose one that has one slimmer end for easier penetration.

If you’re with a partner, find a position that feels easy. Rock back and forth and find a rhythm that suits you both. You can put the other end inside you, and you can do the thrusting to your partner. You can also take turns thrusting. Either way, it’s guaranteed pleasurable.

Also, keep in mind that double ended dildos are designed to be used with no harness at all. You just have to use your body to keep it in place. As much as this frees you from the “bonds” of strap-ons, this can require a bit of practice. Tone those pelvic floor muscles if you are more in control of this dildo. With that, we highly suggest engaging in Kegel exercises (for females only).

Solo Play Positions With Double Ended Dildo

You’ve learned the basics of using a double-ended dildo, now let’s get to the fun part. We’re sharing some of the solo play positions that you can do with this trusty toy.

But before we move on to the first position, here’s a reminder to look for a double ended dildo that is soft and flexible when engaging to solo fun. Of course, not too soft that it’s too wobbly on your hands. You need something bendable but at the same time firm and cooperative for your needs. Let’s get started!

1Solo Missionary

It’s your good ‘ol missionary, minus the partner! What’s great about using a double-ended dildo for this position is that you can have deeper thrusts than other types of dildos. It’s also a beginner-friendly position, so for our first-timers there, make sure to check this out!

How to do it: Use a cushion and lie on your back. Put the pillow under your hips and then spread your legs comfortably. Slowly, insert one end of the dildo and then bend the other end towards you. You can use that end as a handle. Since double ended dildos are longer, this gives you a better and longer “hold” on the toy. You will be able to penetrate yourself far deeper than a typical dildo. But at the same time, make sure you’re still comfortable with the “depth.”

Don’t force the dildo in too far, or it may hurt you. If you’ve reached a comfortable and pleasurable depth, stop there and work on the thrusting. With a longer handle, you will be able to properly guide your toy’s thrust and maximize the pleasure.

2Double Penetration

So you wanted to feel as if you’re in the middle of a threesome… Well, a double ended dildo can help you with that. You’ll just need some tricky maneuvering when doing this position, but we promise– it’s all worth it! Don’t also forget lube on this one, especially that anal penetration is involved.

How to do it: Since the double ended dildo is flexible, bend it into a ‘U’ shape and put the toy on a surface (the floor or the bed). Each end should be facing upwards, and then you can sit on it. Gently guide each head into your anus and vagina. You will be able to bounce on the dildo and have mindblowing double penetration all by yourself!

3Thrust & Suck

Who says double sided dildos are only made for anal or vaginal penetration? Whether you miss giving someone a sloppy BJ or want to master your cock-sucking skills, this dildo is ready for you!

How to do it: Gently bend the dildo, with the other end right at your crotch while the other end is on your mouth. While inserting the other end in your vagina, you will play the other end with your mouth. Ensure the toy is fully sanitized (we recommend water and gentle cleaner) before inserting the dildo in your mouth.

Couple Play Sex Positions With Double Ended Dildo

Since double ended dildos have two penis heads, people think it’s only for lesbian couples. Well, that’s not the case! Double ended dildos are for everyone! Gay, straight, whatever you are, you can enjoy adding double ended dildos for your couple play. Since you’re planning to use it with another person, use a double ended dildo that’s firmer and less likely to bend.

You can use double ended dildos for any kind of contact, such as vagina-to-vagina, vagina-to-anal, anal-to-anal, oral-to-oral, oral-to vaginal, and oral-to-anal. Here are some sex positions that you can use a double ended dildo with:

1Doggy Style

Want to give a frisky twist to the good ‘ol doggy style? You can do just that with a double ended dildo. This position is ideal for vagina-to-vagina, vagina-to-anal, and anal-to-anal plays.

How to do it: Both of you have to be on all fours on the bed or floor. Then, you face opposite sites; your butts are the ones facing each other, then you both back up into the dildo. Or one of you must insert the dildo first in the vagina or butt, whichever you prefer. Then, when you’re already comfortable with the depth of the dildo, the other partner will start inserting their end of the dildo in their vagina or butt. From there, you can just work on the rhythm that suits your doggy style sex.

2Face to Face

This is probably the most common one you’ll see in porn. This is because the Face to Face position is one of the most comfortable couple play positions when you use a double ended dildo. Unlike the doggy style, you’ll get to control the thrusting with so much ease.

How to do it: Both partners are lying down and facing each other. Then, they insert the dildo and thrust the toy inside. They move their pelvises in tandem to use their hips to push the toy in and out of each other’s bodies.

3Love Triangle

This one is pretty tricky, but if you’re up for a challenge, go for it! The Love Triangle is perfect for experienced couples who want to try playing the double ended dildo without using hands. However, one person can get penetrated beyond their limits if not careful enough. That said, this position isn’t recommended for beginners.

How to do it: Both of you are lying on the bed, with the dildo pointed at your vaginas or anuses. You will gently insert the toy into each other’s genitals, then you will both lift your legs. It should be slightly bent, with your soles pressed on one another. It then results in a “diamond-like” formation. You and your partner can then move your hips, keeping the challenging position throughout the deed or whenever you’re ready to move on to other positions.

4Doggy Squat

Another tricky position on the list, the Doggy Squat is a perfect position for those who want something primal… A position that evokes wildness instead of romantic passion. The only challenge with this is you and your boo may have some difficulty coordinating the thrusting, especially since you’re not facing each other with this one.

How to do it: Your partner must lie on their stomach, with their hips pointing upwards, just as someone would do in a prone bone or lazy variation of doggy style. Get behind your partner in a squatting position, facing the opposite direction. With both of you holding the other ends of the dildo, gently insert the toy into the vagina or anus. Once it’s secured inside, stop holding the shaft and do a rocking or thrusting motion. To avoid the dildo from slipping out of your genitals, we recommend following through with a single motion.

5Rowdy Rodeo

Okay, we’ve been through two wild positions… We’ve got something that’s on the easy side. The Rowdy Rodeo is similar to the cowgirl position, letting your gaze into your partner’s eyes as you both unleash each other’s fervent desire.

How to do it: Have your partner lie down on their back while you’re straddling right on their crotch or thigh area. Gently insert the end of the dildo into your vagina while the other is inserted into your partner’s vagina or anus. Once positioned, start rocking!

Tips When You Use a Double Ended Dildo

As you’ve learned what a double ended dildo is, as well as the best sex positions when using this exquisite toy, we can sense your excitement on purchasing here in our sex toy shop, but don’t head to our product page yet. There’s still some information that you still need to know about. Here are some of the essential tips when using a double ended dildo.

1Invest in ambiance.

You’ll never go wrong with a few rose petals and scented candles here and there. You’re getting twice the pleasure with double dildos, so you might as well make an effort in upping the ambiance around you. Lock the door. Spread those sheets clean and make sure they smell nice. The mood can intensify your arousal.

2Masturbate and lubricate!

You can use double dildos for all sorts of positions. You can use it for anal to vaginal or anal to anal. You’re free to mix it up. But before you engage in any kind of play, whether solo or with a partner, make sure you’re wet enough. Most especially if you’re planning to use the dildo for some anal stimulation. The rectum has a thin lining, and you don’t wanna risk tearing your ass apart for some action.

3Maintain open communication when using it with a partner.

Any kind of sex with a partner requires consent and open communication. If you’re planning on using a double dildo with someone else, you have to level up and step up further, as double dildos require teamwork. You have to find a rhythm that works well for both of you. Find a position and angle that feel good for the two of you.

To do this, you need to check in with each other while you’re exploring each other with the double ended dildo. Ask how the other person feels and be honest with each other. If it hurts or it’s not working for you, speak out. Don’t force yourself to enjoy it when you’re hurting. You’ll only have fun if you remain open and keep honest feedback with one another.

4Experiment with different positions.

You can experiment with different positions. For example, one can be on all fours while the other can lie down propped with a wedge or any other furniture piece. The one on all fours will thrust the toy in and out of their partner who’s lying down. It will definitely take some time to explore and figure out each other’s bodies. As they say, “practice makes perfect.” Take some time to practice to get the perfect rhythm for both of you.

Once you get the hang of it, it can be the most pleasurable sex you can experience with your partner. Play around with your partner, and don’t be afraid to experiment with different combinations. You’ll eventually find a position that works for both of you.

5Don’t interchange the ends!

You’re using a dildo with two ends. Whether you’re going for some solo or partnered play, make sure you also don’t interchange the ends. If you used one end for anal, make sure it stays on the butt only. Don’t risk infections by getting too hasty and putting the one you used on your ass to your vagina. We want you to be down and dirty when you use double ended dildos but not that dirty you risk getting sick!

Frequently Asked Questions

As you’ve learned all the things you need to know about a double ended dildo, you’re now ready to use this trusty toy. However, if there are questions still lingering in your mind, we’ve answered some of the frequently asked questions about this pleasure toy.

1Can I use a double ended dildo for standing sex positions?

We got some bad news for that, sis. You may try using a double ended dildo on your standing sex plays. However, it’ll just slide down. We suggest going for sex positions that involve lying down, such as missionary and spooning.

2Why does my double sided dildo keep slipping off during the deed?

If you’re using a classic double ended dildo, keeping it inside you might be a challenge since there are no harnesses for this one– the only thing that keeps it in is your vagina/anus. That’s why we recommended for women to strengthen their pelvic floor through Kegel exercises.

3Is it okay to just glue my existing dildos, or do I really have to buy a double ended dildo?

Please, don’t DIY your sex toys. Gluing dildos to make a double ended dildo would be risky for your body. Using hardware glue isn’t body-safe, and there’s a chance that the toy would break during the deed. So for the love of your body, keep it safe by purchasing quality double ended dildos.

4How to clean and store a double ended properly?

You can clean it with warm water and mild soap. You can also use a sex toy cleaner– it’s more convenient to clean your sex toys with it. As for storage, make sure that your double ended dildo is stored inside a satin pouch to minimize exposure to dust and dirt.

5Can I use a double ended dildo to achieve cervical orgasm?

Due to the lengthy size of most double ended dildos, it’s possible to use it to achieve cervical orgasm. However, you need to fully warm up your body before doing this, as the only way to stimulate your cervix is by having deep vaginal penetration.

Takeaway

Double ended dildos feature not one but two insertable ends for double the fun. You have one toy for twice the pleasure. If that doesn’t sound like a steal for you, then we don’t know what is! All in all, keep an open mind, think about your decisions carefully before choosing. Double ended dildos can be your next best sex toy to keep beside your bed.