How To Use A Vibrator: G-Spot Vibe, Love Egg, And More

Wanna know how to use a vibrator of a particular type? Looking for suggestions on the best vibrators for beginners? We got you covered.

Lauvette has been handling hundreds of vibrators over the past few years, so we’re confident in bringing you tips that’ll elevate your experience. For this guide, we’ll be breaking down the different types of vibrators and how to use them, their features, and additional tips to enhance your pleasure. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned user, you’ll learn something new in this one. Let’s dive in!

What is a Vibrator?

A vibrator is a sex toy that, as the name says, vibrates! It typically consists of a handle or base, a motor, and a vibrating “head” or “tip,” which comes into contact with the body for stimulation. It’s used in the genitals, particularly on highly sensitive areas like the clitoris, glans penis, and prostate.

This pleasure device can be powered through disposable batteries, rechargeable batteries, or directly through a power outlet. It offers a range of vibration modes and intensities to cater to different preferences, all of which you can cycle through these modes using the control buttons. There are also different types of vibrators, with each type having a specific shape and function. For instance, a love egg can is inserted in the vagina for g-spot stimulation. At the same time, wand massagers are designed to not only please the clitoris but also serve as body massagers.

Why It Feels Good Using a Vibrator

You’re probably wondering… “Why do vibrations feel good when pressed against our genitals?”

Erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, nipples, or perineum, are rich in nerve endings. Vibrators deliver vibrations to these sensitive areas, heightening arousal and triggering pleasurable sensations. The stimulation can also increase blood flow in the area, making the erogenous zone more sensitive and providing more pleasure for the user. The increased circulation and sensitivity in the area can result in a blissful burst of orgasms! And yes, we added an “s” there as vibrators can help women achieve multiple Os. ‘

How to Use a Vibrator: Guide for All Types

You do not need to beat yourself up for wanting to use a vibrator in bed. Knowing that having a sex toy is normal and is great for your well-being. Sexual pleasure is a natural human experience common throughout a person’s lifespan. That said, we’re sharing a step-by-step process on how to use a vibrator— all vibrator types are included!

1How to Use a Classic Vibrator

They’re real OGs in vibrator town. Look at this bad boy; you know it can pack a punch. Classic vibrators have a classic structure—straight and sleek—with tips that are usually rounded and tapered. Some have been enhanced and may now come with textured and ribbed surfaces.

Basic Instructions

1. Get into a comfortable position to easily access your vulva and vagina.
2. Press the vibrator’s tip in the clitoral hood or gently insert it into the vagina.
3. Turn on the vibrations. Switch to your preferred mode.
4. For better sensations, move the toy back and forth, as you would do with a dildo.

Other Ways to Play

• Lit the Clit – Press the vibrator’s tip against the clitoral hood. Turn on the vibrator and gently move the toy in an up-and-down motion.
• Thrust the Vibe – Gently insert the toy inside your vagina and move it back and forth. Increase the pace and depth, depending on your preference.
• G Vibe – For this one, you’ll be inserting the shaft, but the tip should give gentle pressure on the upper vaginal wall, as this is where the g-spot is located. Once you feel a tingly sensation on a certain spot, keep stimulating that spot with rubbing or swirling motion.

Best Positions: Since you’ll need to constantly hold your vibrator, the best positions are those where you can comfortably access your vulva and vagina, like lying on your back and your side. You can also use this for pillow humping; put the toy in the middle of your chosen pillow, sit down, and start rocking it.

Bonus tip: Press this OG vibrator on your erogenous zones, including the nipples, inner thighs, neck, and buttocks. This will make you more aroused and more pleasured during the actual play.

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2How to Use an Egg Vibrator

It’s one of the cutest types of vibrators out there. It has the shape of an egg, like its namesake. Sometimes, it comes in the shape of a teardrop. They’re usually smooth devices you can insert into your intimate parts for a hands-free orgasm.

Basic Instructions

1. Apply water-based lubricant and gently insert the vibrator in your vagina, about 2-3 inches deep.
2. Keep the string hanging outside for removal.
3. Turn on the vibrator through the remote control. If the love egg isn’t remote-controlled, turn on the vibrator first through the device itself before inserting it in your vagina.
4. Change the vibration modes depending on your preferences.

Other Ways to Play

• Clit Rub – Hold the egg and rub it in your clitoris. Move it in an up-and-down, side-by-side, or swirling motion. Note that your hand may feel numb after a few minutes of holding the egg since this toy doesn’t have a non-vibrating handle like others.
• Egg Edging – For this one, you’ll be exactly following the basic instructions, but instead of keeping a steady stream of vibrations, you’ll be activating the highest vibration mode. Once you feel about to cum, turn off the toy or put it into its lowest setting. Calm your body down before turning up the intensity again. Keep doing this until you’re ready to experience that intense O! PS. This technique is a looooot better if your partner controls the love egg— unpredictability is thrilling!

Best Positions: Since this toy can be controlled with a remote or app, you can basically try any sex position you would want. Lying on your back? Doggy style? Lying on your back? Standing up? Sitting on the sofa? This lovely vibe has got you covered.

Bonus Tip: If you have a wireless egg vibrator, why don’t you try getting frisky and risqué in public? Pop the egg vibrator in your undies and give the remote to your partner. As you go on your date, let him take control of your pleasure and play with the remote. You’ll surely love the thrill and the pulsating sensations.

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3How to Use a Realistic Vibrator or Vibrating Dildo

Many women may like the smooth and cylindrical design of the usual vibrators, but some say there’s nothing like the real thing. And maybe they’re right. The Realistic vibrators are a type of vibrator that looks like a real penis—complete with veins, a slightly bent shaft, and a tapered end. Some even have balls attached to them. They can be modeled after some famous porn stars.

Made from Cyberskin or silicone, it doesn’t only look like a penis but also feels like one. Their sizes have a wide range, so it’s totally up to you. With these love toys in your collection, you always have an erect, vibrating penis at hand.

Basic Instructions

1. Find a comfortable position and prepare the vibrator by applying a water-based lubricant on its shaft.
2. Insert the vibrator gently in the vagina. If the vibrator is curved, the curved tip should be pointed upwards, targeting the g-spot located about 2-3 inches from the front wall of the vagina.
3. Activate the vibrations, starting with the lowest setting. Gradually increase the intensity to your liking.
4. Move the vibrator back and forth or in a circular motion while it remains inside. The curved tip will provide enhanced stimulation to your sensitive g-spot.

Other Ways to Play

• Clit Rub – Wanna warm things up before inserting the dildo in your vag? This is the one. All you need to do is apply the lubricant at the tip of the dildo, then gently rub it up and down your clitoris, a small nub located at the upper part of your vulva. You can use this technique with or without the vibrations. The titillating caresses, plus the realistic design of the dildo, will definitely set the mood.
• Short Strokes – Insert about 1/3 of the dildo inside your vagina or anus. Move it back and forth. Don’t fully penetrate it yet, and increase the pace gradually.
• Inch by Inch – You will start with stimulating your vaginal opening, then inserting about 1-2 inches of the dildo inside. You will make back-and-forth motions with it, increasing the depth by 1-2 inches. Keep gradually increasing the pace until the vibrating dildo is fully inside you. This method helps prepare your vagina or anus for full penetration since pushing the whole shaft in one go can be uncomfortable, especially for beginners.
• G Vibe – As mentioned in the ‘how to use a classic vibrator’ section, you’ll point the tip into the upper vaginal wall. By applying gentle pressure on the upper vaginal wall, you’ll also get to stimulate your g-spot, which is known to unlock intense orgasms.
• Sensual Swirl – Move the dildo vibrator back and forth while doing circular and rotational motions. It stimulates the entire vaginal wall, which can be highly pleasurable and may even result in an incredibly satisfying orgasm.

Best Positions: This works best while lying on your back and side. However, if the toy has a suction or mount base, you can basically try other hands-free positions like doggy style or cowgirl.

Bonus Tip: Lube is your friend! If you’re using bigger and bulkier toys, such as realistic vibrators, we suggest spreading lube on this bad boy before putting it in your vagina. We get that your vag can self-lubricate, but putting extra lube brings smoother and painless insertion.

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4How to Use a G-Spot Vibrator

It’s easy to spot a g-spot vibrator. All g-spot vibrators have a curved tip, making them stand out, as other vibrators usually have a round or tapered end. Your g-spot can be hard to find as you must be aroused to find that area. Stimulating that delicious nub of nerve endings may also take some time and consistency—which can be tough if you’re only using fingers.

Luckily, there’s a way to get around this dilemma. The bent shape of g-spot vibrators isn’t there by coincidence. It’s purposely built that way so it can easily reach and stimulate your G-spot.

Basic Instructions

1. Get into a comfortable position and apply water-based lubricant on the vibrator’s shaft.
2. Gently insert the vibrator with the curved tip pointing upwards. The g-spot is located 2-3 inches from the anterior vaginal wall.
3. Turn on the vibrations. Start with the lowest setting, then work your way up.
4. Move the vibrator back and forth or in a circular motion while it’s inside. The curved tip will then further stimulate your sensitive g-spot. Enjoy!

Other Ways to Play

• Steady & Sweet – This is one of the underrated but effective techniques to do with a g-spot vibe. Instead of moving the toy in different directions, simply locate the g-spot and let the tip be pressed against it. Since the toy is naturally curved to hit the g-spot, you don’t need to point the tip upwards or apply extra pressure on the area.
• Lit the Clit – Send your body into a heated frenzy with this technique! Press the tip in your clitoris; the tip should be pointing downwards. What’s great when using this toy is it perfectly covers your whole clitoral region. You get to comfortably hold the toy during the deed (since you won’t be pointing the tip anymore since it’s curved.)

Best Positions: Lying at your back is the best position for this toy since you’ll need a position to easily access the vagina.

Bonus Tip: Ever heard of the A-Spot? It’s located on the anterior wall just by the cervix, a few inches deeper than the G-Spot. It’s packed with enthralling nerves that could make you reach the heavens in just a few minutes. Now, one of the perks of a G-Spot vibrator is that you can use it to stimulate that spot as long as your vibrator is long enough. Stimulate that area if you can.

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5How to Use an Anal Vibrator

Any vibrator built for backdoor use can be called an anal vibrator. These vibrators are designed to be shorter and thinner than your regular vibrators. Their structure usually has segments and a grip at the end for easy insertion and removal.

Generally, anal vibes measure 4 to 6 inches long with a girth that varies from .75 inches to 1.25 inches. Some anal vibrators are made for prostate stimulation. These prostate anal vibes have a large tip that curves.

Basic Instructions

1. Make sure your body is relaxed. Give it a few minutes to warm up. You can do that by taking visual and audio cues. If you’re with a partner, you can ask them to give you a sensual massage, start a make-out session, etc.
2. Apply water-based lubricant to the vibrator. This is a must since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate.
3. Gently push the vibrator inside your anus.
4. Turn on the vibrator and let the vibrations stimulate your bum.
5. If the vibrator is designed to be moved back and forth, do just that, but most anal vibrators aren’t supposed to be kept in place.
6. Do other sexual activities, such as fingering or handjob, to amplify the experience.

Other Ways to Play

• Perineum Tease – Use the tip of the vibrator to rub your perineum, a sensitive spot in the middle of your anus and vagina. It’s a great way to warm your body before inserting the toy into your bum.
• Butt & Forth – This works well for anal vibrators with elongated shafts. You’ll move the toy in and out of your anus. You aren’t necessarily going to pull it out; keep the tip when pulling it, then gently push it back into your anus. Since your anal opening has numerous nerve endings, it’ll feel incredibly good and may even make you cum!

Best Positions: If you’re going solo, you can lie on your side or stomach to easily access the butthole. You can also wear the vibrator in your anus, then lie down on your back to stimulate your other pleasure zones, like your clitoris and nipples. You can try Doggy Style, Plug and Play, and Bulldog with a partner.

Bonus Tip: When doing any butt play, lube is a must! As for the type, we highly suggest using water-based lube as it doesn’t ruin the toy nor risk your bum area with infections.

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6How to Use a Prostate Vibrator

Prostate vibrators tap on the usually forgotten pleasure spot of men. Just insert them in the anus to hit the prostate. It’s a super erotic and sensual experience for your bud of a walnut-sized organ. It’s great for playful butt-stuff games in the bedroom.

Basic Instructions

1. Locate your prostate gland with your fingers with a lubed-up finger(s). It’s a small walnut-shaped gland located between the bladder and the penis. It’s firm and incredibly sensitive to touch.
2. After finding the prostate, apply water-based lubricant on the tip/vibrating end of the massager, then gently insert it in your anus. Don’t insert the other end of the massager that includes the buttons.
3. Turn on the vibrations and gently adjust the toy to your liking. Enjoy!

Best Positions: Since the prostate massager is worn in the penis, you can try different positions with it. Squatting? Lying down? Standing up? You’re free to experiment!

Bonus Tip: Spice up your solo or couple plays with edging! This sexual act involves withholding your orgasm so that you’ll be able to have a more intense orgasm later on. To do this, you only need to stop using the toy once you feel like cumming. After calming your senses, you start it repeatedly and stop once you get to the edge. Keep doing that at least 2 times, then enjoy the blissful orgasm!

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7How to Use a Mini Vibrator

It’s one of the original vibrators that hit the adult toy market. Mini vibrators are probably the easiest vibrators to use. Their operations are pretty simple—usually, just an on and off button—and have motors powered by 2 AA batteries that are small but powerful.

Measuring 3-5 inches, they are often called mini-vibrators because they are smaller than the other types of vibrators. The latest models of bullet vibrators now come with a wired remote control with a built-in selection of different speeds and patterns. Design-wise, their shape is like their namesake. They look like bullets—slim, long, and mini.

Basic Instructions 

1. Turn on the vibrations and rub the vibrating tip all over your external erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, nipples, vaginal opening, inner thighs, and more.
2. If the mini vibrator can be used for vaginal penetration, gently push the toy inside the vagina and move it back and forth.

Other Ways to Play

• Nip Tease – As the mini vibrator delivers pinpointed stimulation, it’s great for nipple stimulation. To do this, start by making large circles on your areola. Don’t press it on the nipple yet; build that sweet anticipation. Make the circle go smaller and smaller until it hits your nipples.
• Sensual Swirl – This is the same as the previous technique, but you’re doing it to the clitoris. Start with making big circles around the clitoral nub. Don’t touch the clit yet, as you’ll need to warm it up. Slow circles… then make it smaller and a lot smaller. Do this until the vibrator touches your clitoris.
• Rowdy Rub – In this technique, press the device’s tip in the clitoris, then move it up and down. Keep the pace until you reach the big O or are ready to try other playing techniques.
• The Clit Quickie – If you’re pretty busy and want that sweet release as quickly as possible, keep the vibrating tip in your clitoris, then switch the vibration modes until you reach the highest intensity. Keep the tip steady until you reach the big O.

Best Positions: Anything works with a mini vibe! Since they fit in the palm of your hand, you can easily try lying down, sitting, or standing positions with this one.

Bonus Tip: Want your man to get extra sensations? Use a bullet vibrator to amp it up. Place this vibrating toy on their perineum or balls as you give him a slow, sensual, sloppy blowjob.

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8How to Use a Finger Vibrator

Finger vibrators can give your fingers that added magic. You can wear them like a ring, and you can be sure your every caress can send an exciting jolt to your partner or any part of your body. Finger vibrators are powerful sex toys that, once you experience the joys of using them, you won’t want to get your hands off of you.

Typically, they are powered by a small battery inside the vibe itself. There are more advanced designs that have separate controls that you can wear around your wrist.

Basic Instructions

1. Wear the device like a ring or thimble, depending on the design of your finger vibrator.
2. Turn on the vibrations, and press the vibrating tip to your external erogenous zones, such as the nipples, clitoris, u-spot, perineum, and more.

Other Ways to Play

• Nip Tease – Same with a mini vibrator, a finger vibe works well with nipple stimulation. You can make large circles around the nipple, then it gets smaller and smaller until it reaches the center. You can also do rubbing motions using this love toy.
• Rowdy Rub – Move the toy up and down, applying gentle pressure on the area. Keep the pace to reach climax, or try other techniques to spice it up.
• Sensual Swirl – We’ve already mentioned this method in the other sections. Start making circular motions around the clitoris, then make the circle smaller until it touches the clitoris.
• Feel the Frenulum – Using this vibrator with your man? Try this technique! If you’re unfamiliar with the frenulum, it’s the elastic band at the underside of your penis that connects the glans penis and shaft. It’s incredibly sensitive, which makes it the perfect spot to send some good vibes! Press the finger vibrator into the area and gently rub it up and down or side by side.

Bonus Tip: Finger vibes are great for nipple play! If possible, get 2 finger vibes and play with your breasts and nipples. With enough practice and experimentation, you can possibly hit the nipple orgasm in no time.

Best Positions: Due to its portability, it’s easy to try out different positions with this vibe. Whether you wanna lie down, kneel, or squat, you can easily navigate this pleasure device.

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9How to Use a Wand Massager

It’s hard to beat wand massagers in terms of raw power. They have heavy-duty motors with vibrations that can send powerful external stimulations on your sensitive spots. They’re shaped like ice cream cones and consist of a rod with a soft, large, almost flexible head at the tip.

The most distinguishing characteristic that separates it from all other vibrators is that the head is the only part that vibrates with wand massagers. The earliest versions of the Wand massagers were electric-powered. Still, they now include rechargeable units to make them more portable.

Basic Instructions

1. Hold the wand massager and turn on the vibrations. Stick to the lowest setting first, as the vibes are stronger than other vibrators.
2. Press the vibrating head to your external erogenous zones, such as the clitoris and nipples. We recommend applying water-based lubricant on these areas for better sensations.
3. You can also use the vibrating as a body massager. Just press it on areas with tensioned or sore muscles. Adjust the vibration intensity accordingly.

Other Ways to Play

• Pound the Mound – This is a great technique to warm things up. Instead of directly pressing the vibrating head to the vulva or the clitoris, you’ll press the head into the pubic mound close to the clitoral nub. The strong vibrations will surely reach your clit, just enough for teasing but not enough for cumming.
• Nip Touch – The intense vibrations may overwhelm some, but a wand massager can deliver sultry sensations to your nipples. Press the head to the nipples and watch your breasts subtly jiggle with the deep vibes.
• Lit the Clit – Let the plump head rest on your clitoris. You can either keep it steady or move in different directions. Enjoy the orgasmic vibrations!
• Touch My Body – Do you want to relax your muscles before playing with the toy down there? This vibrator has got your back. Press it to your chosen area, such as your legs or back, and let the rumbly vibrations relieve your sore muscles. Note that this toy may not reach every inch of your body due to its head size, but you can try a mini wand massager.

Best Positions: Since the wand massager is pretty big, playing with this toy while lying on your back or side is best. You can also try out other positions but expect to hold some extra weight.

Bonus Tip: Whether you’re going solo, duo, or trio, dressing for the deed is essential! Slip in your laced undergarments or even wear a sexy costume. The sexier you feel, the more pleasure you’ll experience.

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10How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit vibes are the rockstars in the vibe world; its design is iconic because of its unique rabbit head. All rabbit vibrators are dual-action sex toys that have two vibrating heads. One is in the curved shaft, while the other is in the rabbit head.

Some rabbit vibrators have shafts that can rotate. They may also include rotating beads inside to serve as additional sensations. The latest rabbit vibrators don’t even have rabbit ears anymore. Their style changed a little.

Now, rabbit vibrators can be any two-pronged vibrators with a long end for internal stimulation, a shorter end for external stimulation, and a special function to operate both ends.

Basic Instructions

1. Before using the toy, please note that the rabbit vibe comes in two parts. First is the main shaft, which is often shaped like a penis. At times, it’s curved upwards to ensure g-spot stimulation. Second is the clitoral stimulator, a smaller attachment next to the main shaft to stimulate the clitoris.
2. Apply lubricant on both shaft and clitoral stimulator.
3. Take a few deep breaths and relax your body. Without turning on the vibrator, gently insert the main shaft. The clitoral stimulator should be pressing against the clitoris. Adjust depending on your preferences and comfort.
4. Once everything is positioned properly, turn on the vibrations. You can move the toy back and forth for further g-spot stimulation, but keeping steady can bring those orgasmic sensations.

Other Ways to Play

• Power Play – Quite frankly, there’s only one ideal way to play a rabbit vibe. It may not be as versatile as the other toys, but it does its job of providing blended orgasms. If your toy has a remote control or dedicated app, you can ask your partner to control it during a cybersex or mutual masturbation session.

Best Positions: It works well with lying at your back or side since you’ll need to easily access the vulva and vaginal regions.

Bonus Tip: When storing your vibrators, such as rabbit vibrators, put them in a satin or velvet pouch. This prevents dust and other contaminants from getting inside the vibrating toy.

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11How to Use Vibrating Ben Wa Balls

Ben Wa or Kegel balls are tiny and weighted balls used for pelvic floor exercises, a type of exercise for women to strengthen their pelvic muscles, resulting in stronger and longer orgasms. Some brands have been making new developments for this device, adding a vibrating feature.

This resulted in vibrating ben wa balls, an exercise tool, and a sex toy in one. If the vibe is turned off, you can use it as a ben wa ball and do the kegel exercises as usual. If you turn it on, you can use it as a love egg/ egg vibrator.

Basic Instructions

1. Apply water-based lubricant to the ben wa balls.
2. Gently insert the balls into your vagina.
3. If you’re using them for kegel purposes, proceed with doing your kegel exercise set. You can check here to learn more.
4. If you’re using them as a vibrator, turn on the vibrations.

Other Ways to Play

• Clit Rub – Hold the device and rub it in your clitoris. You can try it in different directions if you follow a certain pace.
• Egg Edging – Since this vibrator works similarly to a love egg, we recommend this technique. You’ll need to insert the device in your vagina, activate the strongest mode, and lower it once you feel you’re on the edge of orgasm. Do this multiple times until you’re ready to get the big O!

Best Positions: Since this toy can be controlled through a dedicated remote or app, it’s easy to try different positions. You can lie down, sit, or go on all fours. Go with something you’re most comfortable with.

Bonus Tip: If you’re new to kegel exercises, we highly recommend checking this guide. It comes with a full set of instructions for the activity.

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12How to Use a Couple Vibrator

Women think of their vibrator as a pleasurable substitute when their partner isn’t around or if they’re living a single life at the moment. But this toy is made for couples’ sex life to be more fun and exciting. This sex toy can allow you to try a new sensation or play with your partner.

Basic Instructions

1. The couple vibrator comes with two massagers. First is the internal massager; it’s the slimmer part of the vibrator. Next is the external massager; it’s usually chunkier and has all the control buttons.
2. Apply water-based lube on the internal massager and gently insert it into the vagina. At the same time, the other end is pressed against the clitoris.
3. Turn on the vibrator and adjust the vibration modes and patterns. You can then start having intercourse with your partner or proceed with other sex-tivities.

Other Ways to Play

• Master Beater – Stretch out the vibrator until your partner’s erection can slide in the middle of the toy. You can then use it as a stroker while performing a handjob or blowjob.
• Solo Os – Though the name “couple” is in it, ladies can use them independently. They only need to insert the toy as instructed, control the vibrations, and enjoy the sensations.

Best Positions: Since this pleasure toy is inserted in the vagina and controlled by an independent remote or app, you can try various sex positions with it!

Bonus Tip: Before using adult toys during sex, ensure clear and thorough communication with your partner. Though most people are open to erotic toys, some tend to form insecurities about them. They think you’re not pleased enough, nor are they being replaced by sex toys. If the latter is your case, explain and reassure your partner that sex toys enhance your sexual activities and not replace them in any form.

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13How to Use a Cock Ring Vibrator

Cock ring vibrators are the type of vibrators that are built for men. A man can wear it around his penis like a ring. It wraps itself on the penis and restricts the blood flow, which creates a feeling of tightness and pressure on the veins, giving the wearer a hard and thick rod. Add the benefits of the vibrations, and you’re heading straight to cloud nine.

Basic Instructions

1. Using a water-based lubricant, apply a small amount to the inner surface of the cock ring.
2. Slide the ring into your flaccid or semi-flaccid penis.
3. Once the cock ring is in the base, turn on the vibrations and proceed with the deed.
4. Don’t keep the vibrating penis ring for more than 20 minutes. Turn off the toy, then gently slide the cock ring off your penis.

Best Positions: Since this kind of vibrator is worn on the penis, you can try out different sex positions. You can go with classics such as Spooning, Doggy Style, or Missionary.

Bonus Tip: For our dude readers, you can also use vibrating cock rings when masturbating! Slide one over your fingers or the palm of your hand. Keep on wearing it as you give yourself a handjob. The vibrations will send extra sensations to your cock, making you reach climax in no time.

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14How to Use a Panty Vibrator

Panty vibrators, just like the name says, are vibrators that can be worn with underwear. Either by you or another willing participant (don’t forget to always ask!), these vibrators work using different remotes and modes like Bluetooth, Wi-Fi, or via an app. Depending on the toy and the manufacturer, they also work at different distances (same room or long distance), which opens or limits your sexual horizons. Depending on the model, the toy can stimulate the clitoris, g-spot, or both.

Basic Instructions:

1. Place the vibrator at the crotch area of your underwear or insert it in your vagina. Depending on the model you’re using, you may need to turn on the device to pair it with the app or remote control.
2. Wear the underwear as usual.
3. Turn on the vibrations through the remote control or its designated app.

Other Ways to Play

• Naughty Humpy – Into pillow humping? A panty vibrator with a flat design will work best with this! Place the toy in the middle of your pillow, then sit on it. Turn on the vibrations and start rocking the pillow. Enjoy the good vibes!
• Clit Rub – Use the tip of the vibrator to stimulate your clitoris. You can use the soft edge for pinpointed stimulation or the flat shape for broad vibrations. Move the toy in different directions for further pleasure.

Best Positions: Since you can wear the panty vibrator, it can work in various positions! We recommend keeping the undies on to secure the device in your vulva. However, if the toy is designed to be inserted in the vagina, then undies-off is okay!

Bonus Tip: Spice up your cyber sex sessions with this vibrator. Using an app-powered vibrator, pop in the device with your undies and let your partner take control of your pleasure! This toy also works well with public play; keep it discreet, or you may be charged with public indecency.

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15How to Use a Tip Vibrator

Meet the magic wand that’ll grant your erotic wishes! A tip vibrator is designed for targeted stimulation. It has a small, pointed attachment at the end, allowing precise and direct stimulation of specific erogenous zones or pleasure points.

Basic Instructions

1. Please turn on the vibrator and press it on your external erogenous zones. Use water-based lubricant if needed.

Other Ways to Play

• Nip Tease – Gently press the tip around your nipple, and do it in a circular motion. Keep the circle big, then make it smaller and smaller until it reaches your nipple. Enjoy the titillating sensations!
• Glorious Meatus – If you’re using the tip vibrator with a male partner, we recommend this one. See that slit in your partner’s glans penis (head)? Try teasing it with the vibrator. Please note that the tip should only be pressed outside the slit and not inserted.
• Buzz the Labia – You see those vaginal lips in your vulva? Give them a taste of rumbly vibrations through this technique. Press the pointed tip in either labia majora (outer folds) or labia minora (inner folds). You can do a gentle tap or rub it up and down.

Best Positions: Since a tip vibrator is pretty light, you can try different positions. Standing up? Sitting down? Lying down? This dainty vibe has got you covered. You can also use this with ease in partnered plays.

Bonus Tip: Use it for couple plays! Aside from providing precise stimulation, it’s also small and lightweight, so it wouldn’t be distracting during the deed.

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Additional Tips

As we reach the end of our comprehensive vibrator guide, we hope our “how-to” has helped you learn more about your vibrator. But before you start shopping for vibrators or trying out your first-ever vibe, here are some tips you’ll need to note.

1Find the right vibrator for you.

There are way too many vibrators out on the market nowadays. It’s best to pick something within your preferences to buy the right thing. If you want to know how to use a vibrator and find the best vibe, research the types of vibrators first. You have to take note of its different functions, design, price range, and even its size, whether they fit your lifestyle or not.

2Shop at reputable sex toy stores.

It can be tempting to buy the cheapest vibrator online. Still, most of the time, cheap toys are made with questionable materials. Remember that vibrators come in contact with such sensitive zones in your body. We recommend getting pleasure products from reputable shops, such as Lauvette. Check the reviews to see if the shop offers top-notch toys.

We also suggest researching the best materials for sex toys so you’re 100% sure you’re getting a quality vibrator. Shady shops can easily say that their toys are the best when made with low-quality materials. Below are some of the best and worst materials for vibrators:

Best materials:

• Silicone
• ABS plastic
• Stainless steel

Worst materials:

• Polyvinyl chloride (PVC)
• Thermoplastic rubber (TPR)
• Jelly latex
• Jelly-rubber

3If you have the extra budget, choose rumbly vibrators.

Contrary to popular belief, not all vibrations from vibrators are the same. There are buzzy and rumbly vibrations. Buzzy vibrations are louder compared to rumbly vibrations. Aside from the buzzing sound, they can only stimulate a small body region. For instance, if you’re pressing a mini vibrator on the clitoral hood, it only stimulates the clitoris.

Meanwhile, a rumbly vibrator is quieter and has a wider reach for stimulation. The only downside is it’s more expensive compared to buzzy vibrators due to the quality of the motors used. But hey, they’re worth every penny!

4Don’t forget to set the mood!

Like any other sexual activity, a sensual warm-up is essential. The vibrations may only end up feeling uncomfortable for you if you’re not actually turned on. Arousal is key to enjoying self-pleasure. Take deep breaths, rub your inner thighs and nipples, and let your hands linger wherever you please.

Picture yourself being in your most sensual fantasies. Are you kissing someone? What do you want that person to do to you? Whatever gets you turned on or helps you get aroused, this is the moment to immerse your mind and body in it. Once you’re ready, turn on the vibrator and tease those pleasure zones!

5Use lube for a better groove!

Lubricating down there can help you get comfortable with your vibrator. Applying lube can also help your muscles prepare for penetration, making sensual play comfortable and safe.

If your natural lubricants are insufficient, you can always avoid dryness by lubing up! You don’t want the shaft of your sex toy to tug or catch on your skin. Especially if you plan on using it on your anus. Water-based lubes are highly recommended for silicone toys as silicone lube can degrade the toy’s quality. Avoid oil-based lubes as they can cause irritation down there.

6Try using it with a partner.

Once you’re done using the vibrator for self-pleasure sessions, we highly recommend trying it out with your partner to elevate your bedroom plays. Not only will you help your partner reduce their “workload” in the bedroom, but it can also create sensations you and your lover haven’t experienced before!

When introducing sex toys to your bedroom plays, you and your partner both understand that sex toys are not a substitute for a partner but rather tools that provide additional stimulation. In that way, conflicts and future resentments are prevented.

7Experiment with different types of vibrators.

Though we highly suggest getting a toy that 100% suits your preferred stimulation, it doesn’t hurt to try vibrators out of your comfort zone. If you’ve been using vibrators for your vagina, like classic vibrators or love eggs, try exploring toys that are made for other erogenous zones, such as wand massagers and finger vibrators.

8Strictly follow the cleaning and charging instructions.

Vibrators are there to help you get satisfying pleasure, so you want your toys squeaky clean before, during, and after playing with them. Cleaning your sex toy is vital to let it last long and a way for you to avoid infections. Though most vibrators can be sanitized with gentle cleanser and water, you may want to try a sex toy cleaner for further cleanup.

It’s also best to keep your sex toy in a linen or satin storage pouch. It would help if you did not put your toy in plastic or a box because those containers tend to collect dirt and are incompatible with silicone. Some toy materials can react with one another, causing the materials to become unsafe and even degrading the toy quality.

Lauvette’s Top Vibrator Picks

So you now know the ways how to enjoy yourself with a vibrator, and you’re now likely to be itching about which ones to try out. Check out the vibrators that will guarantee blissful pleasure.

Je Joue Classic Bullet

Je Joue Classic Bullet Features Say yes to satisfying Os with the Je Joue Classic Bullet! This alluring love toy comes with a free finger sleeve attachment, turning this bullet into a finger vibe. Along with the sleek design and innovative attachment, this pleasure device comes with 5 vibration speeds and 7 powerful patterns, allowing you to have a unique experience

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Satisfyer Mini Wand-er

Satisfyer Mini Wand-er Features Wanna bring a wand vibrator on your trips, but everything's too long or chunky? Meet your perfect match. The Satisfyer Mini Wand-er features a uniquely designed vibrating head with a straight shape. You can use it as a sex toy or body massager; get two wellness products in one! It's also waterproof, so you can easily clean or

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Satisfyer Rrrolling Explo...

Satisfyer Rrrolling Explosion Features Deliver intense sensations to your g-spot with the Satisfyer Rrrolling Explosion! It's the ultimate g-spot vibrator, featuring 12 deep vibration modes, a rolling ball that moves back and forth to stimulate your g-spot, and an s-shaped design that fits your sensual curves. It's made with body-safe silicone and ABS, giving that velvet-smooth feel. This pleasure toy is also

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Satisfyer Rrrolling Pleasure

Satisfyer Rrrolling Pleasure Features We know you're craving pure pleasure, so we've got you the Satisfyer Rrrolling Pleasure. It'll make you roll and shake in your bed, as it features a special s-shaped design with a rolling ball at its tip. The ball moving back and forth to stimulate your g-spot, along with deep vibrations, will surely take your body to

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Cloud Nine Rotating Rabbi...

Cloud Nine Rotating Rabbit Vibrator Features The Cloud Nine Rotating Rabbit Vibrator is a beautiful baby blue rabbit vibrator that will leave your head spinning. It's rechargeable and waterproof for your convenience. The 360° rotation feature is maximized with the 10 different vibration modes, 5 rotation modes and feels even better thanks to the ultra-smooth silicone. The flexibility of this vibrator means

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Lovense Lush Gen 3 App-Co...

Lovense Lush Gen 3 App-Controlled Vibrator Features Level up your sexual plays with this hi-tech vibe! Lovense Lush Gen 3 App-Controlled Vibrator is ideal for erotic cam performers, long-distance lovers, and even those who wanted to try something advanced for their self-pleasure plays. It’s packed with powerful vibrations-- four times more than your regular love eggs. You’ll also get unlimited vibration

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Satisfyer Little Secret

Satisfyer Little Secret Features Discreetly stimulate your own or your partner's clit with powerful vibrations through Satisfyer Little Secret! It's specially designed to be fastened comfortably in your panties, as it features an ergonomic shape and a sophisticated gold magnetic clip. Made from medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic, this alluring panty vibe comes with 11 powerful preset vibration modes, ensuring to

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Lovense Gravity App-Contr...

Lovense Gravity App-Controlled Thrusting and Vibrating Dildo Features Challenge the law of gravity as you stick the Lovense Gravity App-Controlled Thrusting and Vibrating Dildo in any part of your home, bound to give you addictive hands-free pleasure. With its independent sensations of thrusting and vibrating, this silky dildo is crafted with body-safe silicone that can last up to 4 hours of

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Lelo Loki Anal Vibrator

Lelo Loki Anal Vibrator Features The Lelo Loki Anal Vibrator definitely lives up to its name. The soft, velvety surface will have you feeling ready to risk it all. This mischief-inspiring vibrator has 6 different vibration settings that will pleasure your prostate! It's rechargeable and user-friendly. You can experiment in the bedroom or the bathroom thanks to the fact that the

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Lelo Mia 2 Lipstick Mini ...

Lelo Mia 2 Lipstick Mini Vibrator Features Using the Lelo Mia 2 Lipstick Mini Vibrator is the perfect way to keep your pleasure truly to yourself! This rechargeable vibe possesses hidden power and looks perfectly at home in your makeup bag, purse, or bedside drawer. This exquisite love toy comes with an optimally designed shape, specifically molded to target the clitoris

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Frequently Asked Questions

As you’ve learned the different types of vibrators, you’re now ready to start your vibe shopping. But if you still have some doubts or questions lingering on your mind, don’t worry, as we’ve answered some of the frequently asked questions about vibrators.

1Will the vibrator desensitize my clitoris?

A vibrator cannot make your clitoris lose feeling or damage it permanently. It can temporarily go numb once you’ve used it for a few rounds, but that only means you’ll need to take a break on stimulating your clit.

2Can I use a vibrator after a hysterectomy?

According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), those who’ve undergone hysterectomy can’t insert anything in the vagina for 6-8 weeks. That means using a vibrator like love eggs and g-spot vibrators is prohibited. Use the vibrator for clitoral or nipple stimulation instead.

3Is it okay to use a vibrator while pregnant?

It’s safe to use external vibrators while pregnant. As for internal vibrators, you can use them for the initial trimesters. If you’re in your last trimester and want to use a vibrator for vaginal penetration, please consult your healthcare provider first.

4Can I use a vibrator after a C-section?

Medical professionals say you’ll need six weeks to recover from a C-section. During this time, please refrain from using any vibrator.

5Can men use vibrators?

Yes! In fact, some masturbators come with vibrations for added sensations. The glans penis (head) is an incredibly sensitive area, making it the best place to use a vibrator.

6I’m struggling to orgasm with my vibrator. What should I do?

It’s good to set your intention when you’re exploring self-pleasure. But when you struggle to climax, remember to focus on having a good time too.

You could lubricate more, explore angles you haven’t tried, focus on calm breathing, or imagine a steamy sexual scenario you’d want to be in. Experiencing orgasm is one thing, but exploring your body is something you should enjoy too.

7Can a vibrator hurt my genitals?

Not really, unless you’re rubbing the vibrator in your genitals without proper lubrication. That said, always have a bottle of water-based lubricant ready during your vibe plays.

8I’m thinking about giving my partner a vibrator. Is that weird or offensive?

It depends on what your partner thinks of pleasure devices and how deep the sexual connection is. It may be thoughtful to give them a gift for pleasure. If you and your partner haven’t built up that sexual rapport, it may be uncomfortable for them to receive a vibrator for you.

In that regard, know what types of sensations your partner likes. Do they want blended vibrations or a patterned rhythm? Going the extra mile for your boo is always a cherry on top when gifting them a toy.

9Can a vibrator get stuck in my vagina or anus?

Vibrators for penetration usually have a flared base, so the chances are rare. However, be careful with inserting vibrators not meant for penetration, as you may have difficulty removing them.

10Can I use my vibrator while I’m on my period?

Yep! The only issue with using your vibrator while on your period is the mess. With that, make sure to put some towels on your bed and condoms on the vibrator (if you’re using it to penetrate your vagina) for easier cleanup.

Takeaway

As you begin this erotic journey with your vibrator, please use these vibrator tips and remember them close to your heart. Take it slow and be patient. Find a pace and rhythm that resonates with your desires, allowing the pleasure to build at your own comfortable tempo. And don’t forget the importance of cleanliness—ensure your vibrator is thoroughly cleaned before and after each use, maintaining both hygiene and longevity.

Think of your vibrator as a trusted best friend, a reliable confidant ready to accompany you in moments of intimate pleasure. But just like any meaningful friendship, take the time to bond and explore. Play with the various patterns and settings, letting curiosity be your guide. Embrace the journey of discovering what brings you the most joy, and allow yourself to fully indulge in the pleasure a vibrator offers. Enjoy!