Sex Furniture 101: Types, Benefits, and Buying Tips for Beginners

What comes to your mind when you hear the term “sex furniture?”

Playroom? BDSM? Sex Dungeon? Fifty Shades of Grey?

If that’s your initial thoughts, you’re not alone. Most people connect sex furniture with sex rooms and kinky sex. However, sex furniture isn’t solely made for people who are into unconventional sexcapades. It can work for almost all kinds of sexual activities.

In this guide, we’ll discuss the different benefits of sex furniture and the types of equipment available on the sexual wellness space today. For those who’ve already decided to get sex furniture and only wanted a buying guide, we’ve also included some purchasing tips and recommendations below.

What is Sex Furniture?

Sex furniture, also known as erotic furniture, is solely designed for sexual purposes. It helps couples navigate the mobility challenges in the bedroom, helps them fulfill their kinky desires, or brings some much-needed spice to their sexual activities. The material ranges from leather to stainless steel, depending on the equipment.

Types of Sex Furniture

Sex furniture comes in various shapes and sizes, but they’re usually divided into the following types:

1Sex Pillow

A sex pillow provides support and direction to the body during the deed. It comes in two kinds— inflatable and foam pillows. A foam sex pillow is firmer and more durable, but an inflatable sex pillow can be brought to your vacay rips; deflate the pillow, fold it, and you’re good to go.

Sex pillows are mostly recognized for their ramp-like shape but can also come in cylinder, round, dome, and u-like shapes. There are also hybrid-style sex pillows combining two shapes for added versatility.

Some sex pillows are also mountable; you can attract a dildo or vibrator on the pillow and then ride it as you would do when having sex in a cowgirl position.

2Sex Blanket

A sex blanket is a mat or cloth made with waterproof material, protecting your bed sheet from those sweaty and squirty moments. You don’t use it like a regular blanket; it’s usually placed on your bedsheet before you do the deed.

Since the bed is covered with a waterproof blanket, you won’t have to worry about ruining your mattress or bedsheet, eliminating your worries and letting you go fully wild in the bedroom. If you or your partner is a certified squirter, this sex furniture is a godsend.

3Position Strap

A positioning strap comes with leather or nylon straps and cuffs, providing extra support in certain sex positions.

For example, if you’re into doggy style, some straps can help the giver (the person penetrating) some support in thrusting in and out of your vagina. There are also position straps that let the receiver (the person getting penetrated) fully stretch out their legs, making it easy for the giver to access their vagina or anus.

4Bed Restraints

Bed restraints turn your regular bed into kinky sex furniture within minutes. It consists of four adjustable straps and cuffs, which will be attached to the four corners of your mattress. The cuffs will be worn on the person’s wrists and cuffs, fully spreading out their body.

Their partner can then tease their body using other kinky toys like ticklers and whips or have sex with them while they’re in a vulnerable position (with informed consent, of course.)

5Sex Swing

A sex swing is designed to lift one or two people, providing extra support on certain sex positions and activities. Some sex swings are attached to the ceiling, others require steel frames, and some models can be mounted at your door.

It comes with multiple purposes, including trying out standing sex positions without the need to lift the receiver and using it to amplify bondage sessions.

6Love Couch

If you’ve been in love motels before, you probably noticed a curved couch chilling at the side of your room— the love sofa or love couch. It has an S-like shape, directing the body into an optimal position for penetrative sex.

The receiver can lie down on their back or kneel at it (using the headrest as extra support) when doing doggy style. There are also a whole lot of sex positions you can explore with this sofa; you just need to keep those creative juices flowing!

7Sex Bench

If you consider yourself a pro in bondage play, impact play, and other BDSM-related sextivities, consider adding a sex bench into your bedroom.

It consists of the main bench, and several pads and cuffs are on the side. Its sole purpose is for the submissive or receiver to lie on their stomach or go on all fours (depending on the model) and then get their wrists and ankles tied up so they can’t move around or escape once they’re being spanked or teased— keep in mind that the submissive or person who’ll be lying in the bench must give informed consent and must be able to stop the kinky session immediately once the safeword (unconventional word that triggers to stop the session) is said.

It’s bigger and bulkier compared to the other sex furniture, which is why it’s mostly used by BDSM pros.

Benefits of Using Sex Furniture

Wondering why it’s worth investing in your own sex furniture? Here are some benefits of adding new equipment to your bedroom plays.

1It helps people with mobility issues.

Sex furniture is great for people with back pain, knee problems, and other health conditions that affect their mobility. Even though a regular sex session only lasts for a few minutes, it’s still a physically demanding activity. Having some extra support through a sex pillow or love sofa can be a great help to provide more accessibility for people who have challenges moving during the deed.

2It’s great for people who are into BDSM or kinky plays.

Erotic furniture can enhance and expand your bondage sessions. There are so many ways to tie and restrain the submissive, giving the dominant more ways to tease and please their sub.

For instance, the dominant can demand the submissive to wear a position strap or climb into a sex swing where they’ll fully spread out their body. Being in a vulnerable position where their body is in full view can certainly bring some spice to the session, especially since they’re cuffed and can’t get out of the position (unless the sub has given the safeword, which ceases the whole activity.)

3It can help you try out unconventional sex positions.

Did you see a sex position that you would love to try but are not confident if you can pull it off? Sex furniture to the rescue!

Sex swings, sex pillows, and other erotic furniture can definitely help you get into those unconventional positions, letting you do the deed with less work. Less effort also means you and your partner won’t get tired easily during the deed.

For example, if you’re solely lifting your partner for a “stand and carry” sex position, you’ll likely falter within seconds, especially if you don’t lift weights regularly. On the other hand, by getting a sex swing, you won’t need to lift your boo, letting you focus more on giving them pleasure.

4It’ll spice up your bedroom sessions.

Is your sex routine getting a bit stale? Aside from engaging in bedroom games and using sex toys, you can also get yourself some sex furniture to bring more excitement to your sensual sessions.

As mentioned earlier, these tools let you explore more sex positions and sexual activities and even provide better ways to please your partner. The added novelty alone makes erotic furniture worth trying out!

Tips When Shopping for Sex Furniture

Getting your very first sex furniture? We’re so excited for you. Now, before you click the checkout button or head out to a sex toy store nearby, here are some pointers to note.

1Assess your space first.

The first thing you need to do is assess your apartment, bedroom, or wherever you’re planning to place your sex furniture. If you have a small space, you’ll need to stick with items that can be folded or tucked in a closet. If you have a spare room (and a lot of moolah to splurge on), you can go all out and get bigger items.

Another thing to take note of is the people you’re living with. Even if you have a bigger room, if you’re still living at your parents’ house, you obviously can’t just prop a sex bench or other big sex furniture in there. Ultimately, you still need to respect your parents’ space— go with small items that you can discreetly store in your room, then go all out once you’ve moved to your apartment.

2Communicate with your partner.

If you are using your sex furniture with a partner, communicate with them first. Different folks have different strokes, and some people may not be comfortable with using a love sofa, sex swing, or sex bench when having sex. That’s why it’s incredibly important that you and your partner talk about it first and get on the same page.

We also highly recommend shopping together for sex furniture— not only does this ensure you’re getting the furniture you both like, but it can also serve as a way to tease each other. As you check on the different furniture in the sex toy store, you can whisper into each other’s ear the things that you’ll do to each other if you get this specific item or toy.

3Start with a few simple items.

It can be tempting to start purchasing a bunch of sex furniture and turn your bedroom or spare room into a “red room.” However, economically speaking, it’s not ideal. You might end up with a bunch of sex furniture and toys that you don’t actually like. Not only are you wasting some moolah, but the unwanted equipment can take up most of the space, especially if you have bigger items.

That said, start off with simple and easy-to-store items, such as a positioning strap or those over-the-door sex swings. See if it works for you and your partner. If it’s something you enjoy, you can then upgrade your collection. Not only is this good for your wallet, but it’s also good for your space, especially if you only have a limited room for your sex furniture.

4Choose materials that are easy to clean.

When the deed gets all too heated up, sweat, vaginal secretions, cum, and other bodily fluids may end up in your sex furniture. That’s why your erotic equipment should be made with easy-to-clean materials such as vinyl and polyester. For position straps and sex swings, opt for washable ones, so you won’t have to deal with the sweat or cum smell on your next session. As for sex pillows or sex benches, make sure the cover is also removable and washable.

Lauvette’s Top Recommendations

Interested in getting some sex furniture but unsure what to get? Below are some of our top picks. You can also check more erotic equipment on this page.

1Fifty Shades Of Grey – Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

Unleash the sultry dom in you with this luxury bed restraint set. The durable straps can easily be placed under your mattress, while the velcro cuffs are comfortable on the skin. Not only that, but it also comes with a sleek eye mask to amplify the experience.

 

2Rock-a-Bod Over The Door Sex Swing

Whether you want to try out standing sex positions, interested in suspension play or want to bring something new to your sexcapades, you can count on the Rock-a-Bod Over The Door Sex Swing. This 900-gram adjustable sex swing can fit any regular door and can hold up to 150 kilograms.

To use it, hang the ends of the swing right at the top of the door, then close and lock the door. Once you’re done, if the swing is fully secured, you can climb into it or lift your partner and place them in the designated straps. You’ll love it!

 

3Enslaved Bed Restraints Set

If you want the HHard Limits restraint kit earlier, but it’s way over your budget, go with this one instead. The Enslaved Bed Restraints Set can also turn your regular bed into a sensual space, featuring neoprene straps and Velcro-fastening cuffs. The straps are also adjustable, so whether your bed is single or super-king size, you can easily attach this restraint kit.

 

4Domm Under-Mattress Restraint Bedcuffs Set

Here’s another affordable option for those looking for bed restraints. The Domm Under-Mattress Restraint Bedcuffs Set has fabric straps and velcro cuffs, ensuring durability and comfort. It’s easy to install and adjustable to different bed sizes.

 

5Over the Door Wrist Cuffs

Tie and tease your partner with these beginner-friendly wrist cuffs. They’re made with durable, body-safe polyester and fit any regular door. You hang the weighted ends at the other side of the door, close it, and then tie your partner’s wrists with the cuffs. Watch them squirm as you stimulate their most sensitive zones, as they can’t fully escape due to being tied up on the door— both of you will definitely have a good, orgasmic time.

 

Takeaway

Sex furniture may not be as portable or affordable as sex toys, but if you consider yourself a true explorer, it’s worth investing in! Ensure you get the equipment that fits your space, budget, and preferences. Seriously, you don’t have to turn your bedroom into a kinky playroom to have some extra fun. Sometimes, a simple sex pillow or position strap can make all the difference.