The Wagging Perks of a Golden Retriever and Black Cat Relationship

If you haven’t heard of the trope or pairing “Golden Retriever and Black Cat”, you’re in for a real treat! It’s a unique duo of contrasting people that create harmony when together. Think of Wednesday Adams and Enid Sinclair from Wednesday or Wade and Ember from Elemental. 

Such strong personalities yet they blend well together, right? With that, let’s delve a little more into it.

In this article, we’ll talk about what the pairing is, what each character is like, and exactly how and why such a pairing works.

What is the Golden Retriever and Black Cat Pairing?

This Golden Retriever and Black Cat Pairing is derived from Tiktok as a theory related to relationships and their compatibility and also a type of pairing dynamic. Specifically, it’s a more trendy and youthful way to describe an opposites-attract relationship. 

First, let’s describe each animal separately as they are. When it comes to golden retrievers, they’re viewed as vivacious, friendly dogs that you’d naturally approach and play with if you see them. As for black cats, they’re mysterious and quiet as they mind their own business. They can perceive you as serious and judgemental, but most of the time, that’s not the case. Deep down, they have a lot of care for their owner, following them around and cozying up to them with relieved purrs. 

When you put those two animals side by side, some immediate impressions can be, “They look weird together” or, “I don’t think they’ll have a great bond.” However, you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover just yet. Because sometimes, your differences from one another can complement each other. For example, the hyperactivity of a golden retriever can match the usual calmness of a black cat.

This analogy can also apply to people. If you’re lively and sociable, you’re the golden retriever. Then, if your friend or partner is more laidback and selective about who they want to be around with, they’re the black cat. Call it also the modern yin-yang duo.

Because of this intriguing theory, many users and content creators enjoy producing content about the dynamics of the golden retriever and black cat pairing. They can show their significant others or simply explain why it’s their dream relationship—in other words, #relationshipgoals. As a result, it raises a lot of people’s standards in a relationship.

Why A Golden Retriever and Black Cat Pairing Works

Let’s discuss just why such a pairing brings out the best in each other.

1 Opposites attract.

We mentioned this earlier, but let’s expound on it a bit. A golden retriever and black cat pairing shows how people with contrasting personalities and styles connect and bond as friends or a couple. Most of the time, the end result is cute and funny! Take these TikTok videos from arlindaxnyward and gilliani22.

In the first one, the girl in black (black cat) was minding her business when her friend (golden retriever) accidentally bumped into her. The first girl’s reaction was mellow but glad to see her friend, while the other girl felt cheerful and jumpy as she didn’t hold back in hugging her. It may be staged, but it’s one of the best descriptions of the pairing and how their differences bring them together.

For the second video, the couple may be lipsyncing to an audio, but the energy exchange can be felt. For the girl (black cat), she lipsyncs with conviction, and her eyes have a strong glint, implying that she’s not one to be messed with. As for the guy (golden retriever), he’s all smiles and lipsyncs with a hopeful expression on his face. Even with different intentions, they blend well together. 

2 It’s inclusive.

The golden retriever and black cat dynamic isn’t limited to cisgender, heterosexual relationships. Those who identify within the LGBTQA+ community can have relationships with the golden retriever and black cat dynamic. It’s all about personality and aesthetic choices that determine which animal resonates with you the most anyways. 

3 They balance each other out.

Just like how the sun needs the moon to ensure balance, the same goes for a golden retriever and black cat pairing. It’s how they fill in the missing gaps in their lives. When a black cat partner runs out of social battery, their golden retriever partner takes care of them and/or gives them the space they need. Or if a golden retriever partner finds them in a tough situation, their black cat partner would fend for them.

4 It can be for any kind of relationship.

The golden retriever and black cat pairing isn’t just romantic. It can also be platonic, wherein a duo has the right amount of hyperness and calmness. 

For example, a golden retriever friend can be very affectionate while their black cat friend allows the affection. Maybe hug back a little bit. And no, the golden retriever friend wouldn’t be offended because they just instinctively know that their black cat friend appreciates it. Plus, they know the different ways their black cat friend gives and receives love.

This pairing can also be familial. A golden retriever sibling buys food for their black cat sibling, who’s solo binge-watching a TV show in their room.

5 The chase behind it is cute.

In a romantic context, how does a golden retriever and black cat couple get together? Well, it’s often the golden retriever who makes the first move. They flirt and go after the black cat because of their enigmatic energy. It contrasts their bright one, but they do like the allure and are eager to know this person more.

A black cat would play hard to get, yet over time, they give in because it’s not everyday someone would vibe with their energy. Because even with their differences, they show that if they wanted to, they would!

Traits of a “Golden Retriever” Person

Let’s break down the popular traits of this type of person that highly resonate with the beloved animal.

1 They like being around people.

Just like an actual golden retriever, someone who radiates that energy enjoys the presence of other people around them. They thrive on social interactions like parties, which makes them appear more outgoing and approachable. They can also be the life of the party, the mood maker of the space. Even kids would gravitate toward them and play with them too.

2 They’re sociable.

In line with the first point, someone who is like a golden retriever can interact and hold meaningful conversations with others. In other words, they’re chatterboxes who enjoy meeting new people who are potential friends and acquaintances. Maybe a significant other like a black cat. That’s because of their inviting charm and charisma, which attract people towards them.

3 They’re expressive.

They are not afraid to show their emotions to anyone! 

Happy? They can show you by the way their eyes light up, their voice changes in pitch, or even have an extra skip in their step. 

Sad? Their shoulders are slumped, and they act all sulky and pouty.

Angry? They’ll get loud and almost physical if not for their black cat companion to hold them back.

4 They radiate sunshine energy.

In need of an energy boost? You can rely on a golden retriever person to provide just that! As feeling expressive comes naturally to them, their positive and happy energy is contagious, freely allowing your mood to perk up. It’s not a coincidence that they have the word “golden” in their name.

5 They give into their Black Cat companion’s humor.

Black cats enjoy teasing and sarcasm, especially towards their Golden Retriever companion/friend/partner. Even if they get riled up and annoyed, they like seeing their Black Cat companion happy. And the humor and teases are all in good fun with respect and boundaries in tact.

For example, a Black Cat friend can tease a Golden Retriever friend’s taste in music. Maybe for the black cat, it’s because they like RnB while the Golden Retriever likes pop. They can go “I don’t understand the hype” or “Why this song out of others”. But again, it’s all in good nature, and they don’t go to the extreme by roasting them or hurting their genuine feelings.

6 They’re optimistic.

A golden retriever person chooses to see the good in people and in things. They also trust easily and have a positive outlook on life.

Traits of a “Black Cat” Person

Let’s unravel what it means to be this feline in this section.

1 They’re selective.

Like how cats only prefer certain hoomans in their circle, a black cat person properly selects the people they want to be around with. Too many people can overstimulate them and quickly drain their energy and social battery. Thus, they want to be around with the right people who they’re fully comfortable with to be themselves. But that doesn’t mean they’re anti-social. Again, they just get socially tired easily.

2 They’re great listeners.

Black cats prefer to blend with the background and are more interested in learning more about others and absorbing new information. In addition, they come off as quiet and private.

3 They’re nonchalant.

It’s not that they are immune to feelings. They prefer to exhibit them subtly, keeping them to themselves mostly. But deep down, they’re softies!

That side is only shown to or caused by their golden retriever partner. If their partner makes a joke, they can give a subtle yet happy smirk. But internally, they love the humor. For example, if their golden retriever partner gives them a kiss on the cheek after a date, they’re definitely over the moon in the privacy of their room.

Alongside this, they’re unbothered by any minor inconveniences around them.

4 They come off as intimidating.

This is usually the first impression people can get from a Black Cat. Whether it be by their quiet and composed stance or even their facial expressions, some people wouldn’t want to approach them. Afraid to say the wrong thing, then get roasted after. Well, it can happen so just mindful of your words!

5 They like to tease their golden retriever companion.

Teasing is one way a black cat expresses fun and humor with a golden retriever. Through playful jokes and sarcasm, a black cat enjoys messing with a golden retriever. For example, a golden retriever can buy a new hat, and their black cat friend/partner can say, “You look like an egg.” 

Of course, there’s no intention to hurt anyone or cause any kind of conflict! Yes, the golden retriever would get sulky, but a black cat smiles and then gives its real, honest opinion.

6 They’re great judges of character.

A black cat can smell lies and deception right away in the same way they can detect the good traits out of someone too. They also have a keen eye for observing those around them out of security. 

Ways The Golden Retriever and Black Cat Pairing Work

As we tackled each personality in the trope, keep reading this section to gain knowledge on just how such a pairing is compatible.

1 The Golden Retriever gives a Black Cat a lot of affection.

With proper boundaries, of course! In a romantic setting, a Golden Retriever partner initiates a cuddle and kiss with their Black Cat partner. Sometimes, a Black Cat can playfully reject, but they usually cave in, especially when their partner carries so much charisma. 

In other words, a Golden Retriever partner enjoys giving and doing cute stuff for their Black Cat partner. Or rather, they know each other’s love language!

2 A Black Cat is extra protective over their Golden Retriever.

As mentioned earlier, a black cat can sniff any bs or sense any bad situations that can potentially harm their partner/friend/companion. 

And when they do, best believe that they will defend and protect them from whatever that bs is. It can be from a person full of malice wanting to take advantage of a golden retriever’s kindness or a scary situation like an injury. So don’t believe that a black cat doesn’t care for a golden retriever; they do on a deep level!

Also don’t think that a golden retriever doesn’t return the energy; they most definitely do!

3 They care for each other in different yet balanced ways.

Quite in line with the previous point! While a black cat is often discreet and relaxed when they express their love and care for their partner, a golden retriever can be quite loud and striking. Also, the way they respond varies too! A black cat is discreet and chill but deep down, their hearts are racing and overall losing their mind from the thrill! Then with a golden retriever, they can be noisy and overactive like they’ll make it known to those around them that they’re over the moon. Quite like their animal counterparts, right?

For example, a golden retriever partner gives a back hug to their black cat partner. The initial reaction of the black cat can be an eye roll with a hidden smirk as they hug back.

Another is when a black cat gives a cheek kiss to a golden retriever out of the blue. Because a black cat isn’t usually a physically affectionate person, their golden retriever partner is taken aback with red cheeks, jumping up and down from such affection.

4 A Golden Retriever gives a lot of reassurance to a Black Cat.

A Black Cat keeps their guard up, easily apprehensive of any possible danger in order to protect themselves and those they care about. So to ease their worries, a Golden Retriever provides them with constant care and reassurance to give them peace of mind.

5 A Golden Retriever’s silliness brings out the silly side of a Black Cat.

Black Cats are the ones teasing, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be teased back! Or rather, receive playful marks from their Golden Retriever companion. For example, a Golden Retriever can ask a nonsensical question such as “Would you still love me if I was a worm?” and the Black Cat lets out a laugh, perhaps even giving a just as nonsensical response to it that lightens up the mood even more. 

A Golden Retriever is successful in getting through the usual hard and tough exterior of a Black Cat.

Takeaway

In our hopes of finding the best relationship for ourselves, we’d refer to pairings such as the golden retriever and black cat duo. As we figure out which one of the two animals we are can we find the person who fits our standards well. But let’s not forget that a successful relationship doesn’t automatically equate to an opposites-attract trope. It’s based on respect, proper communication, and honesty. We hope you find your match, fellow reader!