When it comes to teasing, there’s no better practice other than edging. From the term itself, it’s a methodological technique that involves bringing yourself or your partner very close to orgasm—stopping—then jumping right back to driving yourself or your partner on the brink of orgasm. Press the repeat button on this one as many times as you like. Think of yourself as a soldier who’s at war and using that tried and tested attack-and-retreat strategy to bring down the enemy’s walls.
It can sound frustrating, we know. But it’s that frustration that actually makes the sex, not just twice, but probably ten times even better. If you’re curious what edging has to offer, here are 9 reasons why you should incorporate edging to your bedroom activities.
1Oh-So-Hot-Damn Intense Orgasms
Just think of those times when you were feeling so frisky, you just wanted to get off, but for whatever reasons (maybe your parents were in the next room and you had paper thin walls, yikes), you just couldn’t. So you held off your orgasm and waited. When you finally have some alone time, you get back to business and find that O again. But you hear voices coming so you stop, only to start all over again. And once you finally hit that orgasm and reach climax, you’re in total bliss after frustratingly being held back twice. Now when you edge, imagine being held back many times over. You can, of course, expect mounting frustration. But no worries, your hard work isn’t for naught. The oh-so-hot-damn intense orgasms you find at the end is totally worth going through the experience again.
2Happy Partner, Happy Life
Some people can sleep like a baby once they already came, leaving their partners unsatisfied and having to finish themselves off under the sheets. Don’t be that person. Only someone cold and heartless pull stunts like that. And besides, an unfulfilled sex life can make for a miserable relationship. Even if you think you’re the best girlfriend or boyfriend by never forgetting to plan a surprise birthday party for your partner, or always sending sweet text messages every morning, you still suck as a lover if you can’t deliver in the bedroom. But if you practice edging, you get to have better control of your orgasms. Which means you can prolong the fun and make sure that you and your partner get the climax you both deserve.
3Bigger Harder You
This one goes to all the dudes out there. Check this out. Edging has been found to be able to increase your penis size. As the old saying goes, there’s always room for growth, especially in your pants. Since edging keeps you hard for extended periods, you get to stretch out your tissues. The improved blood circulation also aids in healing microtears which essentially helps promote growth, both in length and girth. There’s no doubt about it. Edging is sort of like a workout for your favorite muscle—the penis.
4The Hero Premature Ejaculators Need
Premature ejaculation is fixable. There’s no need for you to stay that way forever. Edging can save you from having another embarrassing moment in bed. Your penis is a muscle, and just like any other muscles, you can train it to build strength. You, my man, are a ninja in training, learning the not so hidden arts of edging. You can prepare yourself mentally and physically for those passionate nights of lovemaking. The more you practice edging, the better you become at gaining control over your ejaculations.
5Wards Off The Evil Of Erectile Dysfunction
It’s a sad thing to think about. But don’t worry, erectile dysfunction, just like premature ejaculation, is just among the list of things edging can help you out with. Edging gives you long erections, allowing you to exercise the smooth muscles on your penis. You are also at your peak size when you edge. This can give you the confidence you need to battle out the psychological issues that are causing your erectile dysfunction.
6Bringing You Two Closer Together
You may think you know everything about your partner just because you’ve been together for a long time. But that’s not always the case. There are still some sides to them just waiting to be discovered. Edging can definitely let you see a new side of your partner. Social layers are thrown out of the window. You can witness a side of them where they’re in their most vulnerable or most dominating self, depending on which role your partner wants to assume. This level of intimacy lets you explore and discover each other’s kinks, bringing you closer together.
7You’re The BOSS
For all my doms out there, edging is for you. Edging is practiced by seasoned members of the BDSM community, but it is also perfect for those who are only finding out their dominant traits. If you’re curious and interested in knowing whether you are going to enjoy the BDSM life, edging can give you that taste of dominance you are seeking for. You can have your partner begging for your mercy as they plead for you to let them reach orgasm.
8Delicious Rush Of Good Hormones
The fear, excitement, even the frustration, you experience in edging trigger your brain to release all sorts of hormones. There are the norepinephrine, adrenaline, and endorphins. These are all great for fighting off depression and help you find relief from stress. Anticipation, fear, and frustration, can increase your pleasure. Which can in turn release a large amount of happy hormones serotonin and dopamine.
9No One Does You Better Than You
The beauty of edging is that you can do it all by yourself. And really, no one knows your body better than yourself. If you did your training properly and finally reached master level in the not so hidden arts of edging, you can literally give yourself the best and longest erections and orgasm so hard without anyone’s help. Be proud of yourself. You are a self-sufficient individual.