Urine or Out? 5 Ways to Have a Mind-Blowing Golden Shower

Wait, there’s a sexual act that involves urine? In a world of kinks and fetishes, having urine in the mix may seem odd, but it’s actually quite common. And that, my dear, is called a golden shower.

In this article, we’ll be discussing what a golden shower is, why people are into it, and 5 ways on how to engage in it. We also listed a few crucial safety tips to remember before getting deep in urine.

What Is a Golden Shower?

Vice defines a golden shower as “the act of urinating on your sexual partner.”

Like think about it: urine is usually seen as a yellowish, golden liquid that is then splashed (or showered rather) on another person. Thus, getting the name of its activity. Quite unique and witty, right?

A golden shower can serve as an act of foreplay or sex itself. It’s a kinky activity that requires discussion and trust before doing it. Hence, this activity is best done by people in long-term relationships, who know each other’s bodies, have a lot of sex together, and trust each other completely.  

This activity goes by other names, such as piss play, water sports, and urophilia.

Why Are People Into a Golden Shower?

Keep reading this short section to learn a few top reasons why people are into this wet activity.

1 There are BDSM dynamics involved here.

Some BDSM elements present in giving and receiving a golden shower are power exchange and control. In other words, both dominant and submissive are present. The dominant finds it thrilling and powerful to urinate on their submissive, who loves the degradation from such actions. 

Speaking of degradation, it’s highly possible both the dominant and submissive want to venture through this activity alongside doing a golden shower. To see how far they’d go to be properly degraded without crossing any boundaries.

2 They find pee arousing.

There’s a fetish for pee or urine called urolagnia. It also means that someone stems sexual enjoyment in watching someone getting urinated on or being involved in the act itself. So if you have this fetish, engaging in a golden shower should be a no-brainer. All you have to do now is find the right partner with an open mind for the act. Or bonus, they have the fetish too.

3 It’s inclusive to all orientations.

It doesn’t matter how you currently identify yourself or what your anatomy at birth is like. Everyone pees; it’s natural! Thus, anyone can try a golden shower as a giver or receiver. 

Ways To Act Out a Golden Shower

Onto the fun part! Here are 5 ways on how to have an enjoyable golden shower with your partner.

1 In an actual shower

This route is perfect if you’re a newbie to engaging in a golden shower or if being directly peed on feels like a big step. At least here in the shower, you receive a security blanket in the form of shower water. It’ll wash away the urine right away, wherever in your body it’s at. Plus, it may feel quite natural because we’ve peed in the shower at some point in our lives.

2 Towards each other’s bodies

The common route most people would often go for in case they’ve always been sexually adventurous! The receiver of a golden shower can be kneeling or lying down on a flat and preferably comfy surface. The giver is above them, hovering over them at their chosen body part. 

Some safe and common body parts for a golden shower can be the receiver’s back, stomach, legs, neck, and the outline of their butt. If face, the receiver must close their eyes and mouth. The giver must also avoid the nostrils.

3 Towards the anus

Aligned with the previous point, the anus is the only safe orifice to spritz a golden shower in.

We don’t encourage the mouth here as it’s hygienically questionable, and it may result in health complications or infections. As for the vagina, it’s a big no-no to have a golden shower in as it can mess with the pH balance and may result in a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis.

4 Using non-urine liquids

If using pee still intimidates you, there are alternatives you can rely on before taking that next step. There are both pee-resembling water-based lube and flavored ones available in the market if you’re still eager to try a non-urine golden shower. Using clean, warm water is okay to use as well.

5 A squirting dildo

Yup, this kind of sex toy is ideal for the job! Fill up your squirting dildo with any of the aforementioned non-urine liquids, and enjoy your golden showers ahead!

Safety Tips Before Doing a Golden Shower

Engaging in such an act requires a lot of safety for it to be successful, especially with a human discharge like urine involved in the mix. Keep reading the section to learn some of our key tips before giving a golden shower a try.

1 Discuss it beforehand.

Any kink or sexual practice you’re interested in yet never done before with them is best communicated during your free time. Open communication is key to being on the same page as your partner at all times, especially in regards to sex. Boundaries must be specifically stated, especially for a bold and rather intense activity like this.

And most importantly, get each other’s consent! This kind of activity heavily relies on such, especially when it’s a strong activity.

2 Prepare everything you need.

Golden showers, or any kind of new sexual activity, require proper preparation if you want it to turn out successful. In this case, some essentials for a golden shower include:

• Towels
• Fluidproof blanket
• Non-urine liquids (if not using pee)
• Goggles (double protect your eyes!)
• Mask (if you don’t want your face splashed on)
• Squirting dildo (in case you want to switch things up)

3 Hydrate!

It’s a golden shower. You’ll need a lot of urine here, so stock up on water or juices beforehand.

4 Take your time.

Golden showers take a lot of experience and time to excel in. Don’t pressure yourself to do anything you’re not comfortable with yet, or you lose the fun and comfort of doing the idea in the first place. Don’t skip steps in your journey, and simply enjoy the flow you’re on. Alongside this, please respect each other and have patience for one another as you navigate this practice together.

5 Cleanliness is a must.

Whether it’s actual pee or any resembling substance used for your golden showers, you need to clean it right away. Regardless of where you’re doing the activity, from the shower, the bed, or the floor, cleaning is essential to maintain proper hygiene and safely remove any bacteria and germs from the bold deed. This safety tip also applies to sex toys, specifically a squirting dildo when used.

6 Shower before and after.

Still in line with cleanliness, a golden shower doesn’t actually count as an actual shower. Bacteria are present as the urine loses its sterility when it leaves the bladder. Plus, it’s important to maintain proper hygiene all throughout the process. And even after! So ensure to have a good shower before the deed as a way to be presentable, and after so you can eliminate any sweat or dirty discharges from your body.

Takeaway

And that wraps up our mini beginner’s guide to a golden shower! It’s an activity that may feel weird or intimidating at first upon hearing about it. But if you’re into it and keep consensually practicing it with your partner, it’ll become easier and more enjoyable. If you want to learn more about sexual practices like this, you can either read our Sexual Wellness Dictionary or browse more Lauvblogs guides here!