How to Pull Off the Helicopter Position (Soar to Higher Heights! )

Wanna take your sex life to better and higher heights? The helicopter position is the way to go. If the mile-high club is too pricey, this sex position is a cheaper option. But it’s not for the faint of the heart, and requires physical strength to pull it off.

In this position, we’ll discuss the ins and outs of the helicopter position, alongside its 2 different variations. That way, it’s accessible to be done by everyone. Not only that, we brainstormed a few ways on how to spice things up in that position and stay safe all throughout it.

What is the Helicopter Position?

This position can spark many possible ideas that all lead to pleasure. But to get it out of the way, it’s a penetrative sex position. It can be done between a penis owner and vulva owner, 2 penis owners, or 2 vulva owners with a strap-on dildo. Regarding penetration, it can either be vaginal or anal.

It’s often labeled as one of the hardest sex positions to do, as it requires flexibility and strength to pull it off. Yet modifying some aspects of it can be done to achieve the maximum pleasure it delivers. Both partners are facing opposite from one another, almost like a 69 position. The only difference is that they’re focused on providing and experiencing deep penetration rather than oral sex.

The helicopter position is also often joked around other people due to its difficulty and often weird angling, especially with your limbs going all over the place. Toppling one over the other and even possibly falling over! However, with proper strength and/or applying modifications, the helicopter position can be done.

Why Do People Enjoy The Helicopter Position?

Browse through this enticing section to learn just why people spice things up in the bedroom with this escalating position.

1 It’s a fun challenge.

For those who want to take their sex lives up a notch, trying the helicopter position can definitely take them to different heights! Sex shouldn’t feel like a routine, sticking to the same sex positions, activities, or kinks all the time. It’ll only dampen the sparks between you and your partner. It’s also an adventure to know more about each other. So, by being constantly repetitive in sex, neither of you would unlock new aspects or things about yourselves and each other.

Hence, we emphasize the importance of spicing things up every once in a while. It can be through small or big changes, depending on your mood. But definitely, the helicopter position is a major shift if you want to try a feisty position that’ll elevate your intimacy and passion for one another.

And when you pull it off, it’ll bring you and your partner closer as you celebrate such an achievement.

2 You get a naughty yet picture-perfect view.

The helicopter position is angled differently depending on who the giver or receiver is. But when you put them together, most people would be in awe at how it looks as it’s an unconventional sex position, and only the daring ones would embark on it.

Moreover, once you attain this position, you’re face-to-face with each other’s arousal. You’ll also see some butt, which resembles doggy style and reverse cowgirl sex positions. Those are fun alone, so doing the helicopter position takes things up a notch when having an extra, naughty view can rile you up.

Some may grit their teeth in intimidation, but there are ways to modify it. Regardless, the overall appearance of the helicopter position stands from the classic positions we’ve seen and heard of, which builds more arousal and thrill.

3 The receiver (vulva owner) can experience deep g-spot penetration.

Vulva owners need both clitoral stimulation and g-spot penetration to reach an o’. And luckily, the helicopter position is a penetrative sex position, specifically vaginal or anal penetration. Even if the penis or dildo is downward, it can angle just right to both please the clitoris (not just the external nub) and thrust towards the g-spot.

Achieving this can also lead to a blended orgasm.

4 The giver (penis owner) feels more penal stimulation.

As mentioned previously, the angle of the penis is downwards. This can help stimulate and add more pleasure to the tip, which is a highly sensitive part of a penis owner. Ro states that the tip or glans of the penis has 4,000 nerve endings in the glans alone. And when stimulated right while doing the helicopter position, the penis owner can have a pleasurable experience.

5 Sensation play is involved.

Incorporating this kind of play with the helicopter position can heighten your senses and build the intimacy between you and your partner. You’re already facing away from each other, not knowing each other’s next move. 

But most definitely, having no ill intentions or it violates each other’s trust. There’s thrill in not knowing what your partner will do next, making you even more sensitive and present in the scene. 

Will they thrust further? 

Play with your feet? 

Trail their fingers over your shin? 

Maybe add some ice they set aside earlier?

The ideas for sensation play here are endless!

6 Engaging in foot play is also an added perk.

Whether you have podophilia (aka. foot fetish) or not, engaging in foot play is a possible addition to your sexcapade with the helicopter position. 

Specifically, doing the grounded variation of such a position can allow the couple to pull off foot play effectively. We’ll explain more about each variation later on, but the latter doesn’t require any crazy athleticism. Consider it as a chiller version of the classic helicopter version, wherein both partners are facing each other’s feet. 

However, the whole experience remains heated as trying the helicopter position in general is hot already. Foot play is extra fuel that adds to the steamy fire, and trying new things sparks more excitement in the relationship.

Variations of the Helicopter Position

Learn the 2 variations of this daring position and see which one resonates with your strength level the most. Or maybe figure out where to start before taking it up a notch.

1 Classic Helicopter

Let’s finally get this show on the road, yes?

First, the receiver is on all fours or in a downward dog position. Their butt is up in the air. After this, the giver does a plank in the opposite direction. But also with the goal and intention to insert their penis or strap-on dildo inside their receiver. Their legs are raised as high as their body can handle. Their hips would be resting against the receiver’s butt.

If you feel like going on the extreme side with proper safety and strength, go ham with this variation.

2 Grounded Helicopter

As the name suggests, this variation of the helicopter position is a modified take for beginners or those with mobility issues. Instead of the receiving partner going on all fours or downward dog, they can lay on their elbows or stomach with their butt slightly lifted in the air. For added comfort, place a pillow or wedge. That can also angle the receiver’s body right as well.

Once they’re settled, it’s the giving partner’s turn to get into position. Just like in the classic helicopter position, their heads and legs are facing the opposite direction. With the latter, they are much lower this time. They would rest on each side of the receiving partner rather than on their shoulders. From here, the giver can slide inside their partner with their penis or strap-on dildo. 

In other words, this variation is easier and often chosen by most couples. Even the modifications can spark excitement and thrill without going beyond your physical limitations.

Extra Ways to Spice Things Up With the Helicopter Position

Keep reading here on how to add more steaminess to the bedroom with this soaring sex position.

1 Add in some foreplay.

Before engaging in deep penetration from the helicopter position, you gotta set the mood. And what better way to do it than engaging in foreplay? It warms up both of your bodies and amplifies the growing passion and intimacy between you two before the actual deed.

2 Try it with a mirror.

This tip can help you get a better view of how you and your partner both look. Not only will it aid you in making tweaks and adjustments, but mirror sex is hot. There are numerous mirrors you can use. Watching how you two react to the satisfaction makes you pay further attention to your pleasure spots, which you can mentally note down for future reference. 

Another plus to mirror sex is witnessing each other from different angles, not just relying on sounds and body language to get you both off.

3 Incorporate extra kinks!

As mentioned above, add in foot play or sensation play!

When both partners mutually agree to try foot play out while doing the deed, they get sucking, licking, and any sort of feet praising! As long as they ensure that they clean their feet alongside their full body to maintain proper hygiene, they can even add flavored lube for a tastier experience.

4 Add some sex toys to the mix.

We mentioned earlier that vulva owners can try the helicopter position as long as they have a strap-on dildo to achieve deep g-spot penetration. But aside from this, another toy that can be added is a cock ring for the penis owner for that extra buzz. Using nipple clamps or anal toys can also intensify the sexcapade with maximum pleasure on both ends.

Safety Tips Before Engaging in the Helicopter Position

Safety above all else before trying the helicopter position. We gathered 10 key tips to ensure that everyone has a fun time while avoiding any possible risks and dangers surrounding this heated position.

1 Discuss with your partner.

Communication is key in every relationship, and the topic of sex is no exception here. Regarding the helicopter position, you may be excited to try it out and get adventurous. But is your partner on the same page as you? You’ll never know unless you ask and talk things out. Assuming is not the way to go here.

Back to the position, this is a challenging one that may require a lot of discussion before moving forward. So ensure to carve time with your partner to express any desires about it and get an opinion on how they feel about it. 

Personal boundaries and non-verbal cues can be discussed as well to understand your partner further. Regardless of their response upon learning about the position, keep an open mind and respect it. Consent is also a non-negotiable before pushing through with anything else.

2 Workout beforehand.

The helicopter position is a physically strenuous sex position, so building up your physical strength is key to achieving it. And by physical strength, target your abdominal and arm strength, especially if you’re the one on top. But if you’re the receiver, you’re not exempted here! Exercising can aid your body in holding your partner’s legs from behind. Work on your core, back, and glute muscles.

3 Don’t forget protection!

Safe sex is always better sex! Regardless of what kind of sex position you do, whether it be the helicopter position or not, wrapping it up with a condom can spare you from contracting STDs, pregnancy scares, and an unexpected pregnancy. Aside from using barrier methods like condoms, there are other means of birth control (pills, an IUD, and many more) that can add more layers to your overall sexual protection.

But again, in terms of STDs, condoms are the only means of contraception that can do the trick in protecting you from it.

4 Use lube.

Lube lessens the friction and prevents any bruises, tears, or scratches from happening during the deed. And with a bold sex position like the helicopter position, it’ll give you and your partner a more enjoyable and safer experience. Especially if you’re going to engage in anal sex, wherein the anus doesn’t have natural lubrication, unlike a vagina.

You can choose from water-based, oil-based, silicone-based, and hybrid.

5 Prioritize comfort.

Comfort above all else when having sex! Go slow, especially when you’re a newbie. Utilize protection and lube as mentioned above if you’re going to do anal sex, douche beforehand to avoid any unlikely natural accidents from happening.

Don’t overexert your limits here. If you’re only capable of the modified version of the helicopter version as of now or ever in your life, stick to that. There’s no shame in that. Plus, it’s better than getting hurt or injured in the process.

6 Stretch and warm up before getting into position.

Cold muscles can only put you more at risk of injuries. And the helicopter position is a physical challenge! So before attempting to do this position right away, incorporate some warm-up exercises to loosen those muscles. From there, it’ll be easier for you to stretch your body. 

You can look up 5-10 minute videos on these activities online, so maximize it before letting your desires take full control of you!

7 Practice makes progress.

The helicopter position isn’t like the other positions that are effortless and can be done right after foreplay or getting aroused. If you don’t properly prepare and practice how to angle your bodies beforehand, you might fall over each other. Such a mood killer.

So right after warming up and stretching, imitate each step individually. No need to get naked yet, but find your rhythm as you follow the instructions of the 2 variations we listed above. When each of you are settled in the proper places, try holding it first. Especially if you’re doing the classic variation!

Once the two of you keep practicing and get your bodies used to the position, it’s time to put it into action! Take your time as again, it’s an advanced position. It should be a few tries until you and your partner get it right and even perfect it with extra strength, flexibility, and mobility.

8 Be verbal all throughout the session.

Quiet sex isn’t always the best unless there are nosy neighbors or you’re staying over at your family home. Other than that, getting verbal and loud is fun as it allows you to express yourselves more. Constantly each other know how you’re feeling before, during, and after doing the helicopter position. That way, you’d know whether to completely stop or pause before continuing the deed.

9 Understand that it’s okay to make mistakes.

The helicopter position is an advanced sex position. Nobody can pull it off the first time. You will have those awkward moments or take numerous breaks when the position gets too strenuous on your body. It’s part of the process of learning something new.

10 Don’t forget to do aftercare!

This tip should be a no-brainer, a non-negotiable! Doing aftercare post-sex is a way to show respect to your partner rather than leaving or sleeping right away. It’s the last stage of sex, which people still don’t emphasize or practice. But it’s about time you did! 

Aftercare can be done by cleaning each other up, offering water, engaging in pillow talk, or even giving each other a massage. After all, you did maximize your body’s strength, so you deserve to receive one!

Takeaway

The helicopter position is a heightening challenge that takes a while to excel and perfect. Most people may still fall under the impression that it’s impossible due to their personal limitations. Or as a joke that it looks silly. However, if you’re really determined and enthusiastic to learn, then this advanced sex position will be a fun addition to your sex life. It’ll make things more exhilarating too! With that, ensure safety and comfort are prioritized before doing this position.